Guest guest Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Hi, We are having a team meeting at my son's school next week to talk about whether or not we should fine-tune my son's services. This meeting was always planned since his IEP meeting last spring. We agreed to have it because is mainstreaming for the first time this year and we weren't completely sure what he would need in this setting (he was in a contained classroom for kids with hearing loss or language delays up until now). He is in 1st grade. Apart from the FM not working, everything is going great! He has made friends, his aide and teacher are awesome (the aide is a certified teacher it turns out, and the teacher has worked as an aide for a hearing impaired child before!), and he is making excellent progress academically. His teacher is amazed how well he is adjusting, aparently even better than some of the other kids in the class. I am noticing that his speech is becoming even more fluent (faster, less deliberate) I think as a result of being around typical kids. Here are the services gets: -Speech therapy 2 times 30 min. a week -Language with Teacher of the Deaf 3 times 45 minutes a week -Full-time aide in the classroom (she makes sure he is not missing stuff, and takes care of the FM, but also works with all the kids in the room.) -TOD meets with teacher and aide once a week to talk about Here is my question: we are thinking of cutting back on his time with the TOD from 3 to only 1 or 2 times a week. I always thought, and even said at our IEP meeting last spring, that I didn't think he needed as much time with the TOD. She was reluctant to cut back at that point until she had time to work with him and know his needs better. Well, the other day the TOD said to me that she thinks we should cut back -- that it would be more beneficial for him to be with his class instead of pulled out so much. Would you do this? 's language skills are not far behind his classmates, if at all. And I find pull-outs disruptive. I agree that he should spend more time with his class. While they have tried to schedule things so doesn't miss important stuff (like reading), sometimes he does anyway, and the aide has to catch him up one-on-one. I want to go ahead and say " Yes, let's cut back " , but don't want to regret it later. The TOD assures me it won't be a problem to add back more time with her in the later grades if the language gets beyond him (I am hoping we don't have to go there, but you never know.) She has been a very good advocate for him. If it weren't for her, for example, we wouldn't have the aide. Overall, our school has been very accomodating, and our principal, who used to be a special ed teacher herself, is knowledgable and helpful. Another option would be for the TOD to instead spend time in the class rather than pull him out. (Thus keep the weekly time with her would be the same, just different.) If we did this, what does an in- classroom TOD typically do? Observe? Have any of you been in this situation and if so, what did you do or what would you do? Thanks, Lydia Mom of , first grade, cochlear implant user and Colin, 5th grade, hearing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 My advice would be, if your son is doing well, progressing in most areas, than the services he has been receiving are the reason why. It seems by your message, he is getting the appropriate support to be successful in school. Don't forget, it is the beginning of the school year, the expectations are going to become harder as the year continues. I myself would not take away services at this time, not only because of the reason I just mentioned, but it may be very hard to get them back. Just my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 In a message dated 10/23/2004 3:35:19 PM Eastern Daylight Time, mom24boyz@... writes: My advice would be, if your son is doing well, progressing in most areas, than the services he has been receiving are the reason why. It seems by your message, he is getting the appropriate support to be successful in school. Don't forget, it is the beginning of the school year, the expectations are going to become harder as the year continues. I myself would not take away services at this time, not only because of the reason I just mentioned, but it may be very hard to get them back. Just my thoughts. I whole heartedly agree with this! It is hard enough to prove they need services, so to relinquish them before you kow what the expectations are for the new year seems a touch foolish. Our son is doing as well as he is because of his services,. They brought up reducing his services ONCE. I argued that he is suceeding because he is appropriuately supported byu those services. And unless I am convinced that suddcenly his needs have changed and he is no longer D/HOH, those services would remain in place. We gave up the Spec Ed services for Ian after 6th grade because they were a total and complete waste of his and the SpecEd teacher's time. Everyone, especially our son and his TOD, thought that. But until I had the recommendation from the TOD that those services were not needed, I did not agree to drop them. Instead I fought for the SpecEd people to do things in ways that would support our son. Unfortunately our story is one where the SpecEd people were uncooperative and ineffective. In places where they are good and work with the child's needs in mind, they can be as invaluable as our TOD's services. I would really really think hard about dropping any services until I was convinced that my child's success was possbile without them. Best -- jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 In a message dated 10/23/2004 3:35:19 PM Eastern Daylight Time, mom24boyz@... writes: My advice would be, if your son is doing well, progressing in most areas, than the services he has been receiving are the reason why. It seems by your message, he is getting the appropriate support to be successful in school. Don't forget, it is the beginning of the school year, the expectations are going to become harder as the year continues. I myself would not take away services at this time, not only because of the reason I just mentioned, but it may be very hard to get them back. Just my thoughts. I whole heartedly agree with this! It is hard enough to prove they need services, so to relinquish them before you kow what the expectations are for the new year seems a touch foolish. Our son is doing as well as he is because of his services,. They brought up reducing his services ONCE. I argued that he is suceeding because he is appropriuately supported byu those services. And unless I am convinced that suddcenly his needs have changed and he is no longer D/HOH, those services would remain in place. We gave up the Spec Ed services for Ian after 6th grade because they were a total and complete waste of his and the SpecEd teacher's time. Everyone, especially our son and his TOD, thought that. But until I had the recommendation from the TOD that those services were not needed, I did not agree to drop them. Instead I fought for the SpecEd people to do things in ways that would support our son. Unfortunately our story is one where the SpecEd people were uncooperative and ineffective. In places where they are good and work with the child's needs in mind, they can be as invaluable as our TOD's services. I would really really think hard about dropping any services until I was convinced that my child's success was possbile without them. Best -- jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 In a message dated 10/23/2004 3:35:19 PM Eastern Daylight Time, mom24boyz@... writes: My advice would be, if your son is doing well, progressing in most areas, than the services he has been receiving are the reason why. It seems by your message, he is getting the appropriate support to be successful in school. Don't forget, it is the beginning of the school year, the expectations are going to become harder as the year continues. I myself would not take away services at this time, not only because of the reason I just mentioned, but it may be very hard to get them back. Just my thoughts. I whole heartedly agree with this! It is hard enough to prove they need services, so to relinquish them before you kow what the expectations are for the new year seems a touch foolish. Our son is doing as well as he is because of his services,. They brought up reducing his services ONCE. I argued that he is suceeding because he is appropriuately supported byu those services. And unless I am convinced that suddcenly his needs have changed and he is no longer D/HOH, those services would remain in place. We gave up the Spec Ed services for Ian after 6th grade because they were a total and complete waste of his and the SpecEd teacher's time. Everyone, especially our son and his TOD, thought that. But until I had the recommendation from the TOD that those services were not needed, I did not agree to drop them. Instead I fought for the SpecEd people to do things in ways that would support our son. Unfortunately our story is one where the SpecEd people were uncooperative and ineffective. In places where they are good and work with the child's needs in mind, they can be as invaluable as our TOD's services. I would really really think hard about dropping any services until I was convinced that my child's success was possbile without them. Best -- jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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