Guest guest Posted July 16, 2001 Report Share Posted July 16, 2001 Pam, It was funny, those two boys were oblivious to the fact that they were up in front....but they weren't too distracting so they were alright. I'm glad I'm not the only one that thought her comment on the triplet,twin thing was weird. After her 2 years of trying I would think she would just be happy with ONE more baby....she is determined to have twins/triplets now. After the 3rd time they tried IVF (after Madison was already here) she said just one more try and that's it....welllllll it became one more then one more then one more....I'm not sure how many times they have done it because she stopped talking to me and telling people when she was having any procedures done. I just know she is really depressed and not acting normally. My Dad did call her RE and tell them what was happening, so at least they are somewhat aware of her mental state. I don't blame her for wanting more kids, hey, look at me....I just worry about her state of mind. As for her trying IVF so many times, well, her dh's health ins. used to pay for it all, so who could blame her for trying as many times as they wanted. Now his health ins. doesn't cover it anymore, so I don't know how that will change her thinking. She does appreciate the fact she has Madison....I don't know it's really hard to explain, but she is angry at everyone that is pregnant or has a baby. She can't go shopping anywhere without seeing a pregnant woman and bursting into tears. I think she is cycling through all the emotions right now. I just wish she would have been offered counseling as a part of the whole IVF thing, I think it would have helped tremendously. I think when she sees the RE she puts on a big front and the Dr. has no idea what is really going on with her. Ok, I think I've given you toooooo much information, sorry, you didn't really ask for that!!! oops! I just worry about her, but I do think she is a teensy bit better! Vicki giguerepw@... wrote: > > Vicki > > That must have been a hilarous sight. LOL!! I'm glad you had the > opportunity to talk to your sister. I think that is weird about the > twins, triplet thing. > > I already told my dh that if we do IVF again that we need to set > certain guidelines that I can be happy with. Like we will only try > two times. I don;t want to be in the place that your sister is at. I > can understand why she wants more kids but on the other hand I think > she should feel blessed for the one she has. There are some women who > don't even have that. > > Pam > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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