Guest guest Posted June 17, 2003 Report Share Posted June 17, 2003 In a message dated 6/17/2003 9:45:30 AM Central Daylight Time, jpswsm@... writes: > I really have to thank for this, her nine laws REALLY got me to > thinking, so THANKS SHAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ooooooooh man that is SOOOOOOO GREAT!! I am really glad it helped get things in a manageable perspective for you!!! Dont kick yourself too hard for it being ''obvious'' though because were it so obvious we wouldnt ALL get trapped in negative and self destructive patterns and stay there now would we?!! It takes really wanting to make a change to live better. To be honest with yourself not just about your own behaviors but the environment you are in too and being pragmatic about what you can accept as is and what you can change. I am truly so flattered that my crazy pants rant helped you and let me just add something else for everyone to consider. Like you said life can be challenging but I think if we make the realization that life IS a challenge and there will ALWAYS be obstacles then all we have to decide is HOW we are going to handle them and they wont seem quite so harrowing when they occur. I sincerely do try to not dwell on the negative in life but the reality is there will ALWAYS be negatives (difficult situations//people to deal with) the key to it all tho is to approach the inevitable curveballs life will throw with the attitude of how can I best handle this to my benefit and go from there. Hope to hear more from you soon....like when you get back from that first bike ride!!! HUGS!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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