Pat

[Guest guest]

Dear Pat-

I am so sorry that you are finding information you seek hard to find in the

deluge of posts that can come from this list.

For me the real information is more than just about CHARGE, but also about

how each of us as individuals are faring - which is to me in part is also a

result of having CHARGE in our lives. I really don't find that posts are

irrelevant here - really - especially compared to other list-serves. And if

they are, they are brief and charming, and so easy to read and move on. It

really only takes me two or three ten to fifteen minute segments in my day

to go through the emails - and I find it tremendously rewarding and

replenishing to my spirit.

I do have more than one child - I have three. I know when they were younger

it was really hard to find the time and the quiet to go through the emails -

but I so needed to have them, that it made it worth it. Even when my CHARGEr

was older and some people were going through infancy issues - it helped me

reframe and reprocess what we had experienced. It also allowed me to take

what I had learned and possibly make it useful to someone else - something I

find extremely rewarding.

Perhaps just scan and delete - or use the " search " feature on the groups

home website.....

I feel I would like to personally apologize to you, because I think mine

might be many of the emails you find burdensome and unwanted (

I am so sorry-

Yuka

> What is relevant and what is not:

>

> -Sharing what your CHARGE child is achieving, struggling against,

> suffering, enjoying.. etc.

> That **IS** relevant.

>

> -Posts like: " LOL, that was funny.. " , " it's raing here.. " etc.

> They are **NOT**.

>

> If you enjoy reading, as you said, ALL the posts! that means that

> you spend AT LEAST 2 or 3 hours a day just for this matter.

>

> Me, I simply don't have the time as I have a child to mind (and it's

> just one! Imagine if you have more!!), and it gets hard to sort out

> matters that have some REAL information within among 130 post a day.

>

> This is my humble opinion, that, of course, might not be shared by

> everyone here..

>

> Pat-