Re: Update about letter and work

[Guest guest]

Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good fortune

and serendipity - at all times-

I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is best

for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same way.....

with love always-

yuka

Update about letter and work

> Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive decided i

> am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about my

> " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running away

from

> my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal with my

> problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish me

luck.

> I think i need it.

>

>

> Chantelle

[Guest guest]

Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good fortune

and serendipity - at all times-

I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is best

for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same way.....

with love always-

yuka

Update about letter and work

> Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive decided i

> am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about my

> " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running away

from

> my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal with my

> problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish me

luck.

> I think i need it.

>

>

> Chantelle

[Guest guest]

Chantelle,

It is luck you want? You got it.

pam

[Guest guest]

Well my manager woulnt grant the less hours but after thinking about it I

think i need to at least tell her a bit more. I need to tell her that i told

the one manager but not her cause i felt uncomfterble about discussing my

past but i need to tell her this and explain that my past is what i need to

work on to better deal with work issues and to do that i need to reduce my

hours.

Chantelle

>

> Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good

> fortune

> and serendipity - at all times-

>

> I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is best

> for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same way.....

>

> with love always-

>

> yuka

> Update about letter and work

>

>

> > Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive decided

> i

> > am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about my

> > " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running away

> from

> > my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal with my

> > problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish me

> luck.

> > I think i need it.

> >

> >

> > Chantelle

>

>

>

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> http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995

>

> Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership in

> the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE Syndrome

> Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter),

> please contact marion@... or visit

> the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org

>

> 8th International

> CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available at

> www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-.

>

[Guest guest]

Well my manager woulnt grant the less hours but after thinking about it I

think i need to at least tell her a bit more. I need to tell her that i told

the one manager but not her cause i felt uncomfterble about discussing my

past but i need to tell her this and explain that my past is what i need to

work on to better deal with work issues and to do that i need to reduce my

hours.

Chantelle

>

> Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good

> fortune

> and serendipity - at all times-

>

> I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is best

> for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same way.....

>

> with love always-

>

> yuka

> Update about letter and work

>

>

> > Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive decided

> i

> > am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about my

> > " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running away

> from

> > my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal with my

> > problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish me

> luck.

> > I think i need it.

> >

> >

> > Chantelle

>

>

>

> CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE:

> http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995

>

> Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership in

> the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE Syndrome

> Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter),

> please contact marion@... or visit

> the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org

>

> 8th International

> CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available at

> www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-.

>

[Guest guest]

Chantelle,

You know I wish you luck. Have you gone in to talk with your manager yet?

Remember that you live the life you do but others don't. She may not

understand the entirety of it. Give it to her in the bits that she can take.

Only

tell her the important information. The little things can wait. Tell her

positively too. If the information sounds negative then people take it that

way.

By that I mean saying things like sure you are hearing and visually impaired

but you have learned HOW to see and hear. Know what I mean? If you talk about

your emotional responses don't make that sound intense either. Just say you

are dealing with adult issues and need time for that independent of work. But

also say that won't interfere with work. Then make sure you do that.

Anyway, before you go in think to yourself you are fine, you are fine, you

are fine. Then believe that. If you get emotional stop and just breathe.

Count to ten in your mind before you say something spontaneous.

It sounds like your boss is caring and wants to learn. You are lucky.

Remember she is in an authority position so she'll want to fix or control

things.

And then let that go. She'll try to do that because she cares.

Good luck.

Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to

[Guest guest]

Chantelle,

You know I wish you luck. Have you gone in to talk with your manager yet?

Remember that you live the life you do but others don't. She may not

understand the entirety of it. Give it to her in the bits that she can take.

Only

tell her the important information. The little things can wait. Tell her

positively too. If the information sounds negative then people take it that

way.

By that I mean saying things like sure you are hearing and visually impaired

but you have learned HOW to see and hear. Know what I mean? If you talk about

your emotional responses don't make that sound intense either. Just say you

are dealing with adult issues and need time for that independent of work. But

also say that won't interfere with work. Then make sure you do that.

Anyway, before you go in think to yourself you are fine, you are fine, you

are fine. Then believe that. If you get emotional stop and just breathe.

Count to ten in your mind before you say something spontaneous.

It sounds like your boss is caring and wants to learn. You are lucky.

Remember she is in an authority position so she'll want to fix or control

things.

And then let that go. She'll try to do that because she cares.

Good luck.

Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to

[Guest guest]

Chantelle,

You know I wish you luck. Have you gone in to talk with your manager yet?

Remember that you live the life you do but others don't. She may not

understand the entirety of it. Give it to her in the bits that she can take.

Only

tell her the important information. The little things can wait. Tell her

positively too. If the information sounds negative then people take it that

way.

By that I mean saying things like sure you are hearing and visually impaired

but you have learned HOW to see and hear. Know what I mean? If you talk about

your emotional responses don't make that sound intense either. Just say you

are dealing with adult issues and need time for that independent of work. But

also say that won't interfere with work. Then make sure you do that.

Anyway, before you go in think to yourself you are fine, you are fine, you

are fine. Then believe that. If you get emotional stop and just breathe.

Count to ten in your mind before you say something spontaneous.

It sounds like your boss is caring and wants to learn. You are lucky.

Remember she is in an authority position so she'll want to fix or control

things.

And then let that go. She'll try to do that because she cares.

Good luck.

Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to

[Guest guest]

could you get soemone to write to her

>

> Well my manager woulnt grant the less hours but after thinking about it I

> think i need to at least tell her a bit more. I need to tell her that i

> told

> the one manager but not her cause i felt uncomfterble about discussing my

> past but i need to tell her this and explain that my past is what i need

> to

> work on to better deal with work issues and to do that i need to reduce my

> hours.

>

> Chantelle

>

>

>

> >

> > Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good

> > fortune

> > and serendipity - at all times-

> >

> > I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is

> best

> > for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same

> way.....

> >

> > with love always-

> >

> > yuka

> > Update about letter and work

> >

> >

> > > Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive

> decided

> > i

> > > am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about my

> > > " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running away

> > from

> > > my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal with

> my

> > > problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish me

> > luck.

> > > I think i need it.

> > >

> > >

> > > Chantelle

> >

> >

> >

> > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE:

> > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995

> >

> > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership in

> > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE

> Syndrome

> > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter),

> > please contact marion@... or visit

> > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org

> >

> > 8th International

> > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available at

> > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-.

> >

[Guest guest]

just read that and i thought um who would you get LOL um get bonnei to do it

shes our adults charger adovocate right

>

> could you get soemone to write to her

>

>

>

> >

> > Well my manager woulnt grant the less hours but after thinking about it

> > I

> > think i need to at least tell her a bit more. I need to tell her that i

> > told

> > the one manager but not her cause i felt uncomfterble about discussing

> > my

> > past but i need to tell her this and explain that my past is what i need

> > to

> > work on to better deal with work issues and to do that i need to reduce

> > my

> > hours.

> >

> > Chantelle

> >

> >

> >

> > >

> > > Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good

> > > fortune

> > > and serendipity - at all times-

> > >

> > > I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is

> > best

> > > for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same

> > way.....

> > >

> > > with love always-

> > >

> > > yuka

> > > Update about letter and work

> > >

> > >

> > > > Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive

> > decided

> > > i

> > > > am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about

> > my

> > > > " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running

> > away

> > > from

> > > > my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal

> > with my

> > > > problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish

> > me

> > > luck.

> > > > I think i need it.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Chantelle

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE:

> > > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995

> > >

> > > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership

> > in

> > > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE

> > Syndrome

> > > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter),

> > > please contact marion@... or visit

> > > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org

> > >

> > > 8th International

> > > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available

> > at

> > > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-.

> > >

[Guest guest]

just read that and i thought um who would you get LOL um get bonnei to do it

shes our adults charger adovocate right

>

> could you get soemone to write to her

>

>

>

> >

> > Well my manager woulnt grant the less hours but after thinking about it

> > I

> > think i need to at least tell her a bit more. I need to tell her that i

> > told

> > the one manager but not her cause i felt uncomfterble about discussing

> > my

> > past but i need to tell her this and explain that my past is what i need

> > to

> > work on to better deal with work issues and to do that i need to reduce

> > my

> > hours.

> >

> > Chantelle

> >

> >

> >

> > >

> > > Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good

> > > fortune

> > > and serendipity - at all times-

> > >

> > > I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is

> > best

> > > for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same

> > way.....

> > >

> > > with love always-

> > >

> > > yuka

> > > Update about letter and work

> > >

> > >

> > > > Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive

> > decided

> > > i

> > > > am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about

> > my

> > > > " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running

> > away

> > > from

> > > > my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal

> > with my

> > > > problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish

> > me

> > > luck.

> > > > I think i need it.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Chantelle

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE:

> > > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995

> > >

> > > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership

> > in

> > > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE

> > Syndrome

> > > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter),

> > > please contact marion@... or visit

> > > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org

> > >

> > > 8th International

> > > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available

> > at

> > > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-.

> > >

[Guest guest]

just read that and i thought um who would you get LOL um get bonnei to do it

shes our adults charger adovocate right

>

> could you get soemone to write to her

>

>

>

> >

> > Well my manager woulnt grant the less hours but after thinking about it

> > I

> > think i need to at least tell her a bit more. I need to tell her that i

> > told

> > the one manager but not her cause i felt uncomfterble about discussing

> > my

> > past but i need to tell her this and explain that my past is what i need

> > to

> > work on to better deal with work issues and to do that i need to reduce

> > my

> > hours.

> >

> > Chantelle

> >

> >

> >

> > >

> > > Good Luck Chantelle ) You always have my wish for providence, good

> > > fortune

> > > and serendipity - at all times-

> > >

> > > I think it's a good sign that your manager seems invested in what is

> > best

> > > for you - even though you and she might not be seeing it the same

> > way.....

> > >

> > > with love always-

> > >

> > > yuka

> > > Update about letter and work

> > >

> > >

> > > > Well. After crying and hating the world for the past 5 hours ive

> > decided

> > > i

> > > > am going to go back to my manager and tell her a little more about

> > my

> > > > " issues " of why i want to reduce my hours. (she thinks im running

> > away

> > > from

> > > > my problem) i see it as im trying to get the help i need to deal

> > with my

> > > > problems. well i will talk to her and tell her this tomorrow. Wish

> > me

> > > luck.

> > > > I think i need it.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Chantelle

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE:

> > > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995

> > >

> > > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership

> > in

> > > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE

> > Syndrome

> > > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter),

> > > please contact marion@... or visit

> > > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org

> > >

> > > 8th International

> > > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available

> > at

> > > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-.

> > >

[Guest guest]

ay bonnie did you get my email in the adults list

>

> Chantelle,

>

> You know I wish you luck. Have you gone in to talk with your manager yet?

> Remember that you live the life you do but others don't. She may not

> understand the entirety of it. Give it to her in the bits that she can

> take. Only

> tell her the important information. The little things can wait. Tell her

> positively too. If the information sounds negative then people take it

> that way.

> By that I mean saying things like sure you are hearing and visually

> impaired

> but you have learned HOW to see and hear. Know what I mean? If you talk

> about

> your emotional responses don't make that sound intense either. Just say

> you

> are dealing with adult issues and need time for that independent of

> work. But

> also say that won't interfere with work. Then make sure you do that.

>

> Anyway, before you go in think to yourself you are fine, you are fine, you

> are fine. Then believe that. If you get emotional stop and just breathe.

> Count to ten in your mind before you say something spontaneous.

>

> It sounds like your boss is caring and wants to learn. You are lucky.

> Remember she is in an authority position so she'll want to fix or control

> things.

> And then let that go. She'll try to do that because she cares.

>

> Good luck.

>

>

>

> Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

ay bonnie did you get my email in the adults list

>

> Chantelle,

>

> You know I wish you luck. Have you gone in to talk with your manager yet?

> Remember that you live the life you do but others don't. She may not

> understand the entirety of it. Give it to her in the bits that she can

> take. Only

> tell her the important information. The little things can wait. Tell her

> positively too. If the information sounds negative then people take it

> that way.

> By that I mean saying things like sure you are hearing and visually

> impaired

> but you have learned HOW to see and hear. Know what I mean? If you talk

> about

> your emotional responses don't make that sound intense either. Just say

> you

> are dealing with adult issues and need time for that independent of

> work. But

> also say that won't interfere with work. Then make sure you do that.

>

> Anyway, before you go in think to yourself you are fine, you are fine, you

> are fine. Then believe that. If you get emotional stop and just breathe.

> Count to ten in your mind before you say something spontaneous.

>

> It sounds like your boss is caring and wants to learn. You are lucky.

> Remember she is in an authority position so she'll want to fix or control

> things.

> And then let that go. She'll try to do that because she cares.

>

> Good luck.

>

>

>

> Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

ay bonnie did you get my email in the adults list

>

> Chantelle,

>

> You know I wish you luck. Have you gone in to talk with your manager yet?

> Remember that you live the life you do but others don't. She may not

> understand the entirety of it. Give it to her in the bits that she can

> take. Only

> tell her the important information. The little things can wait. Tell her

> positively too. If the information sounds negative then people take it

> that way.

> By that I mean saying things like sure you are hearing and visually

> impaired

> but you have learned HOW to see and hear. Know what I mean? If you talk

> about

> your emotional responses don't make that sound intense either. Just say

> you

> are dealing with adult issues and need time for that independent of

> work. But

> also say that won't interfere with work. Then make sure you do that.

>

> Anyway, before you go in think to yourself you are fine, you are fine, you

> are fine. Then believe that. If you get emotional stop and just breathe.

> Count to ten in your mind before you say something spontaneous.

>

> It sounds like your boss is caring and wants to learn. You are lucky.

> Remember she is in an authority position so she'll want to fix or control

> things.

> And then let that go. She'll try to do that because she cares.

>

> Good luck.

>

>

>

> Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I did talk to my boss after the letter, i dont know if thats what you ment

bonnie.

I will be talking to her again today though.

Chantelle

[Guest guest]

I did talk to my boss after the letter, i dont know if thats what you ment

bonnie.

I will be talking to her again today though.

Chantelle

[Guest guest]

I did talk to my boss after the letter, i dont know if thats what you ment

bonnie.

I will be talking to her again today though.

Chantelle