Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

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Jackie,

I am sorry to hear you are in so much pain. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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Happy New Year to my Online family

I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards, well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon.

May God Bless you all and keep you safe.

Jackie

Jackie LaVoy

The Order Of The Silver Rose

Ohio Director

www.silverrose.org

My Quiet Hero

www.myquiethero.com

M & M Estate Sales

www.mnmestatesales.com

<>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< I ASKED, HE GAVE I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. -- Author Unknown <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <><

We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the nightto visit violence on those who would do us harm.

~Orwell~

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

I am sorry to hear you are in so much pain. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Happy New Year to my Online family

I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards, well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon.

May God Bless you all and keep you safe.

Jackie

Jackie LaVoy

The Order Of The Silver Rose

Ohio Director

www.silverrose.org

My Quiet Hero

www.myquiethero.com

M & M Estate Sales

www.mnmestatesales.com

<>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< I ASKED, HE GAVE I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. -- Author Unknown <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <><

We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the nightto visit violence on those who would do us harm.

~Orwell~

[Guest guest]

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him.

In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the

world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal &

all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for

Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

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I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him.

In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the

world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal &

all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for

Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him.

In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the

world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal &

all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for

Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

I think you need to find a new doctor and either get your dh some professional help or tell him to take a flying leap. What an insensitive B****ard!!!

LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/

-----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of MaloneSent: Friday, December 30, 2005 7:45 AMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him. In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

I think you need to find a new doctor and either get your dh some professional help or tell him to take a flying leap. What an insensitive B****ard!!!

LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/

-----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of MaloneSent: Friday, December 30, 2005 7:45 AMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him. In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

I think you need to find a new doctor and either get your dh some professional help or tell him to take a flying leap. What an insensitive B****ard!!!

LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/

-----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of MaloneSent: Friday, December 30, 2005 7:45 AMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him. In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

sorry but i would get rid of him, you need all the suport u can get not the bullshit he is giving you and i would change doctors also

hugs from carol in michigan

ps. i tried to get my x to go for counsoling but he flat out told me i was the one with the problem not me..ha! thats one of reasons why he is my x now...i have since remarried to a wonderful guy who suports me 100%!!! and he is the reason i am still fighting this dam dragon....sorry bout my language but this makes me mad as hell!!!!

[Guest guest]

I have to get myself well enough first then dh is out the door!

Jackie

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I think you need to find a new doctor and either get your dh some professional help or tell him to take a flying leap. What an insensitive B****ard!!!

LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/

-----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of MaloneSent: Friday, December 30, 2005 7:45 AMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him. In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

I have to get myself well enough first then dh is out the door!

Jackie

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I think you need to find a new doctor and either get your dh some professional help or tell him to take a flying leap. What an insensitive B****ard!!!

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-----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of MaloneSent: Friday, December 30, 2005 7:45 AMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him. In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

[Guest guest]

I have to get myself well enough first then dh is out the door!

Jackie

-- RE: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I think you need to find a new doctor and either get your dh some professional help or tell him to take a flying leap. What an insensitive B****ard!!!

LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/

-----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of MaloneSent: Friday, December 30, 2005 7:45 AMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

I am so glad you vented about this. This did not happen to me, but sometimes I wish it would have. After 18 yrs my husband thinks I'm faking everything. I went to my doctor yesterday, she said I have never seen a 50 year old with this many problems. He even had the nerve to say I'm a hypochondriac and my Dr. laughs at me when I go in. He thinks I am wasting there time.grandma_in_indy wrote: Jackie,So sorry to hear your hubby is not caring and concerned. I can certainly relate. Mine decided to up and leave last August because "he can't do it anymore." AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWW Poor baby. NOT!He also said he was only staying around until I was finished with treatment. Hell, I only had one chemo down at that time. I guess life with cancer was too much for him. In all fairness, he does have his own issues. It was not a big surprise, nor the first time he flew the coup. I no longer have the time or energy for his immaturity and undependablity. To put it simply, he has an extremely addictive personality and comes from a very, very dysfunctional family. I have wasted 14-15 years too many already. I have a life to live.Sorry for the ranting,Ingrid in Indy>> > > > > I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me> pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything> in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards> well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all> to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon> again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the> severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana> from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the> area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip> incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm> from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the> new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there> is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first> came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he> told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I> will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very> restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my> so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more> energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and> wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon. > > May God Bless you all and keep you safe.> Jackie> > > Jackie LaVoy> The Order Of The Silver Rose> Ohio Director> www.silverrose.org > My Quiet Hero> www.myquiethero.com > M & M Estate Sales> www.mnmestatesales.com > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > I ASKED, HE GAVE > > I asked for Strength.....And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong. > > I asked for Wisdom.......And God gave me Problems to solve. > > I asked for Prosperity...And God gave me a Brain and Brawn to work. > > I asked for Courage......And God gave me Danger to overcome. > > I asked for Love.........And God gave me Troubled people to help. > > I asked for Favors.......And God gave me Opportunities. > > I received nothing I wanted. I received everything I needed. > > -- Author Unknown > > <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< > > We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night> to visit violence on those who would do us harm. > ~Orwell~>

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Carol...where in Michigan are you? I live right on the OH & MI line in Toledo. Well I have already decided to ride the storm as I squirrel away enough money to get myself and my 2 kids (13yr girl & 8yr boy) out of here. I know I am a strong person but I really don't know how much more I can take before totally losing it. I'm in tears daily , I just wish financially I was able to leave now. The abdominal pain from the tram flap is easing up some...it is really strange not being able to feel most of the breast they rebuilt. I go see the oncologist on Wed to see what my treatments will be. I go back to the plastic surgeon on Thurs and hopefully the drain will come out. Thank you all for being here to listen to my ranting.

Hugs,

Jackie

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sorry but i would get rid of him, you need all the suport u can get not the bullshit he is giving you and i would change doctors also

hugs from carol in michigan

ps. i tried to get my x to go for counsoling but he flat out told me i was the one with the problem not me..ha! thats one of reasons why he is my x now...i have since remarried to a wonderful guy who suports me 100%!!! and he is the reason i am still fighting this dam dragon....sorry bout my language but this makes me mad as hell!!!!

[Guest guest]

Carol...where in Michigan are you? I live right on the OH & MI line in Toledo. Well I have already decided to ride the storm as I squirrel away enough money to get myself and my 2 kids (13yr girl & 8yr boy) out of here. I know I am a strong person but I really don't know how much more I can take before totally losing it. I'm in tears daily , I just wish financially I was able to leave now. The abdominal pain from the tram flap is easing up some...it is really strange not being able to feel most of the breast they rebuilt. I go see the oncologist on Wed to see what my treatments will be. I go back to the plastic surgeon on Thurs and hopefully the drain will come out. Thank you all for being here to listen to my ranting.

Hugs,

Jackie

-- Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

sorry but i would get rid of him, you need all the suport u can get not the bullshit he is giving you and i would change doctors also

hugs from carol in michigan

ps. i tried to get my x to go for counsoling but he flat out told me i was the one with the problem not me..ha! thats one of reasons why he is my x now...i have since remarried to a wonderful guy who suports me 100%!!! and he is the reason i am still fighting this dam dragon....sorry bout my language but this makes me mad as hell!!!!

[Guest guest]

Carol...where in Michigan are you? I live right on the OH & MI line in Toledo. Well I have already decided to ride the storm as I squirrel away enough money to get myself and my 2 kids (13yr girl & 8yr boy) out of here. I know I am a strong person but I really don't know how much more I can take before totally losing it. I'm in tears daily , I just wish financially I was able to leave now. The abdominal pain from the tram flap is easing up some...it is really strange not being able to feel most of the breast they rebuilt. I go see the oncologist on Wed to see what my treatments will be. I go back to the plastic surgeon on Thurs and hopefully the drain will come out. Thank you all for being here to listen to my ranting.

Hugs,

Jackie

-- Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

sorry but i would get rid of him, you need all the suport u can get not the bullshit he is giving you and i would change doctors also

hugs from carol in michigan

ps. i tried to get my x to go for counsoling but he flat out told me i was the one with the problem not me..ha! thats one of reasons why he is my x now...i have since remarried to a wonderful guy who suports me 100%!!! and he is the reason i am still fighting this dam dragon....sorry bout my language but this makes me mad as hell!!!!

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

Have you talked to the dr about antidepressants or tranquilizers? I will kep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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Re: Re: Happy New Year to my Online family

sorry but i would get rid of him, you need all the suport u can get not the bullshit he is giving you and i would change doctors also

hugs from carol in michigan

ps. i tried to get my x to go for counsoling but he flat out told me i was the one with the problem not me..ha! thats one of reasons why he is my x now...i have since remarried to a wonderful guy who suports me 100%!!! and he is the reason i am still fighting this dam dragon....sorry bout my language but this makes me mad as hell!!!!

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

My best to you. Sounds like maybe your husband never had surgery himself. It

takes having surgery to know what it is really like. I am thinking of you.

Wishing you well.

Love to us all,

--

Ogut

The Whole Brain Game -- It's Not What You Think But How You Think It

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I apoligize I can't be around much at the moment. The doctors are keeping me pretty well doped up for the pain and I am just exhusted, takes everything in me right now to just walk into the other room. I have received many cards, well wishes, & phone calls from so many of you thank you & I want you all to know it means the world to me thank you. I did see the plastic surgeon again today and he says everything is healing as expected. I asked when the severe abdominal pain would ease he replied with this.....We took Louisiana from the belly and threaded that up under your other muscles and skin to the area of the breast and stuffed it into Kentucky. I have a hip to hip incision, incision for reconstructed belly button, incision under the arm from where they took the lymph nodes and of course the incision around the new breast. They would not take out the 2 drain tubes yet either since there is still too much fluid still draining. He told me when this procedure first came out it took 4 separate surgery to get to where I am at already...so he told my insensitive hubby to think of it as 4 surgeries done at once and I will be in pain for some time as I heal & all I am to do is rest with very restricted movement. There is more concerning what has been going on with my so-called caring husband but I'll save that for another day when I have more energy. I love you all and hope your Christmas was wonderful as well and wish you a Happy New Year. I'll write again soon.

May God Bless you all and keep you safe.

Jackie

Jackie LaVoy

The Order Of The Silver Rose

Ohio Director

www.silverrose.org

My Quiet Hero

www.myquiethero.com

M & M Estate Sales

www.mnmestatesales.com

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