Guest guest Posted September 15, 2002 Report Share Posted September 15, 2002 Hi Ladies, My name is ' and I had gastric bypass 5 months ago and have lost a total of 152 lbs. Well low and behold now we find out that we are 4 weeks pregnant. But last night I started spotting some brown stuff and today it has turned to a pale red color. It's not a bright red and it's not a whole lot of blood. The only time I see it is on toliet paper when I got to the bathroom. These cramps feel like menstrual cramps. I called the doctor that was on call and he said I would have to wait until Monday to see my doctor and to take it easy. I'm scared that we are going to lose this baby. I just don't know if I can handle losing this baby. Why would God give us a miracle and then take it away from us. I'm very scared. Any advice from anyone or help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you, ' son Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2002 Report Share Posted September 15, 2002 -Hi , No we didn't have any sex. We had done a lot of walking that day and I don't know if that has anything to do with it or not. I'm just on pins and needles waiting for tomorrow so I can call my doctor. I will keep ya'll up to date on this situation. Thank you for all of the support and thoughts! Sincerely, ' son -- In OSSG-pregnant@y..., kellys5pt0@a... wrote: > i also am not a doctor but it is very common for some women to spot throughout their entire pregnancy. and my OB also told me that around the time when i would normally get my period, i may get cramps and feel as if i am getting my period, even though i probably won't get it. also, did you have sex right before this as that can cause spotting and cramps. just a little info, i hope everything is alright and my thoughts are with you. > > kelly m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2002 Report Share Posted September 15, 2002 Hi , I know how you feel I STARTED spotting last night as well my due date is April 20 th we had no sex eather I did also do alot of walking yesterday . My spotting has been gray untill a little while ago it was red .I feel fine just light headed .I also called Dr. he said he will see me tommorow unless it gets heavy. So I know how scared you are I believe everthing will be fine for both of us I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2002 Report Share Posted September 15, 2002 Hi , I know how you feel I STARTED spotting last night as well my due date is April 20 th we had no sex eather I did also do alot of walking yesterday . My spotting has been gray untill a little while ago it was red .I feel fine just light headed .I also called Dr. he said he will see me tommorow unless it gets heavy. So I know how scared you are I believe everthing will be fine for both of us I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2002 Report Share Posted September 16, 2002 , My suggestion is to see your doctor today ASAP!!! I lost my baby at 5 months gestation and my bleeding started just as you described. I too thought that it was probably normal and was afraid that I would annoy my doctors by contacting them about it. The bleeding (though periodic) went on for about a week. When I did finally call the doctor, they ordered an ultrasound for the next day. At the ultrasound, there was no movement and I knew. My body had already started going into labor that morning. I am still healing. I takes a long time. But I did learn, that when it involves your body or your family's health, you can't be too careful. I do NOT mean to scare you. I was very uncertain myself, but oh, how I wish I had doe something sooner. I am praying for your safe pregnancy. Please update us to what happens. Renea gastric bypass 7/18/2002 > > > > Hi Ladies, > > > > My name is ' and I had gastric bypass 5 months ago and have > > lost a total of 152 lbs. Well low and behold now we find out that we > > are 4 weeks pregnant. But last night I started spotting some brown > > stuff and today it has turned to a pale red color. It's not a bright > > red and it's not a whole lot of blood. The only time I see it is on > > toliet paper when I got to the bathroom. These cramps feel like > > menstrual cramps. I called the doctor that was on call and he said I > > would have to wait until Monday to see my doctor and to take it > > easy. I'm scared that we are going to lose this baby. I just don't > > know if I can handle losing this baby. Why would God give us a > > miracle and then take it away from us. I'm very scared. Any advice > > from anyone or help would be greatly appreciated! > > > > Thank you, > > > > ' son > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2002 Report Share Posted September 16, 2002 , My suggestion is to see your doctor today ASAP!!! I lost my baby at 5 months gestation and my bleeding started just as you described. I too thought that it was probably normal and was afraid that I would annoy my doctors by contacting them about it. The bleeding (though periodic) went on for about a week. When I did finally call the doctor, they ordered an ultrasound for the next day. At the ultrasound, there was no movement and I knew. My body had already started going into labor that morning. I am still healing. I takes a long time. But I did learn, that when it involves your body or your family's health, you can't be too careful. I do NOT mean to scare you. I was very uncertain myself, but oh, how I wish I had doe something sooner. I am praying for your safe pregnancy. Please update us to what happens. Renea gastric bypass 7/18/2002 > > > > Hi Ladies, > > > > My name is ' and I had gastric bypass 5 months ago and have > > lost a total of 152 lbs. Well low and behold now we find out that we > > are 4 weeks pregnant. But last night I started spotting some brown > > stuff and today it has turned to a pale red color. It's not a bright > > red and it's not a whole lot of blood. The only time I see it is on > > toliet paper when I got to the bathroom. These cramps feel like > > menstrual cramps. I called the doctor that was on call and he said I > > would have to wait until Monday to see my doctor and to take it > > easy. I'm scared that we are going to lose this baby. I just don't > > know if I can handle losing this baby. Why would God give us a > > miracle and then take it away from us. I'm very scared. Any advice > > from anyone or help would be greatly appreciated! > > > > Thank you, > > > > ' son > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2002 Report Share Posted September 16, 2002 -, Thank you for your thoughts and prayers and I will also keep you in my prayers also. As for me it doesn't look to good. My HCG level was only 40 Friday and the doctor is worried about that. If they have not gone up today (I get the results tomorrow morning) then the pregnancy isn't viable and I have lost the baby. I'm pretty down and out right now and feeling so alone. I have the best husband in the world but he doesn't know what I'm feeling. Oh well, I wish you all the luck in the world and good luck with the doctor's appointment. I will keep you in my prayers. '-- In OSSG-pregnant@y..., " juliebarnett2002 " <julieabarnett@a...> wrote: > Hi , I know how you feel I STARTED spotting last night as well > my due date is April 20 th we had no sex eather I did also do alot of > walking yesterday . My spotting has been gray untill a little while > ago it was red .I feel fine just light headed .I also called Dr. he > said he will see me tommorow unless it gets heavy. So I know how > scared you are I believe everthing will be fine for both of us I will > keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2002 Report Share Posted September 16, 2002 -, Thank you for your thoughts and prayers and I will also keep you in my prayers also. As for me it doesn't look to good. My HCG level was only 40 Friday and the doctor is worried about that. If they have not gone up today (I get the results tomorrow morning) then the pregnancy isn't viable and I have lost the baby. I'm pretty down and out right now and feeling so alone. I have the best husband in the world but he doesn't know what I'm feeling. Oh well, I wish you all the luck in the world and good luck with the doctor's appointment. I will keep you in my prayers. '-- In OSSG-pregnant@y..., " juliebarnett2002 " <julieabarnett@a...> wrote: > Hi , I know how you feel I STARTED spotting last night as well > my due date is April 20 th we had no sex eather I did also do alot of > walking yesterday . My spotting has been gray untill a little while > ago it was red .I feel fine just light headed .I also called Dr. he > said he will see me tommorow unless it gets heavy. So I know how > scared you are I believe everthing will be fine for both of us I will > keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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