Guest guest Posted December 22, 2005 Report Share Posted December 22, 2005 ty for understanding. and yes its hard. i cant belive ppl would go as far as to steal a wig. ppl today thats not good.i had some one steal my breast cancer magintic off my truck one day.and i was about to cry.i guess someone needed it more then me. but to me that meant something.cause it was the first one we brought when i found out i had breast cancer i got me one and the kids all one for their cars. so i know what u mean,i guess that person needed it more then u.i do have some wigs and hats and scarfes if u want them,. i dont need them nomore. let me know and i will be glad to give them to u..ttysJune wrote: Wow, I hope someone wasn't reading this in digest form. Every post from the beginning was on it. Tobie, we probably all have or have had varying degrees of depression with this. I go in and out with it but as long as I can do things and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel I'm good. I'm a little depressed and pissed right now because I can't find my wig and I have a feeling it disappeared at the hospital yesterday. Another post on that. Anyway, talk to your doctor about depression and see if you can get some meds for it. It's hard to deal with this as it is, you shouldn't have to do it without help. LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/ -----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of tobie klemzSent: Thursday, December 22, 2005 8:09 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: RE: Re: Hello everyone tks for understanding.these days what people say or do.i take things the wrong way and its not me.its the depression settin from the bc.i am surprised my bf and family hasnt run for the hills cause of all i put them though.does alot of u have the depression to? i got alot to learn about this cancer and i hope this group can help me out with some answers i have.tks again for understanding and sry if i was upset for a while with people. Have a great and wonderful day!! Sign,Tobie__________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2005 Report Share Posted December 22, 2005 ty for understanding. and yes its hard. i cant belive ppl would go as far as to steal a wig. ppl today thats not good.i had some one steal my breast cancer magintic off my truck one day.and i was about to cry.i guess someone needed it more then me. but to me that meant something.cause it was the first one we brought when i found out i had breast cancer i got me one and the kids all one for their cars. so i know what u mean,i guess that person needed it more then u.i do have some wigs and hats and scarfes if u want them,. i dont need them nomore. let me know and i will be glad to give them to u..ttysJune wrote: Wow, I hope someone wasn't reading this in digest form. Every post from the beginning was on it. Tobie, we probably all have or have had varying degrees of depression with this. I go in and out with it but as long as I can do things and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel I'm good. I'm a little depressed and pissed right now because I can't find my wig and I have a feeling it disappeared at the hospital yesterday. Another post on that. Anyway, talk to your doctor about depression and see if you can get some meds for it. It's hard to deal with this as it is, you shouldn't have to do it without help. LICS June "The best protection any woman can have...is courage." Cady Stanton Secular Breast Cancer Support group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SecularBCSupport/ -----Original Message-----From: breastcancer2 [mailto:breastcancer2 ]On Behalf Of tobie klemzSent: Thursday, December 22, 2005 8:09 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: RE: Re: Hello everyone tks for understanding.these days what people say or do.i take things the wrong way and its not me.its the depression settin from the bc.i am surprised my bf and family hasnt run for the hills cause of all i put them though.does alot of u have the depression to? i got alot to learn about this cancer and i hope this group can help me out with some answers i have.tks again for understanding and sry if i was upset for a while with people. Have a great and wonderful day!! Sign,Tobie__________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 23, 2005 Report Share Posted December 23, 2005 Tobie...the main thing with treatment is that you have to be comfortable with your doctor. It is so VERY important. My oncologist is so WONDERFUL I wish you could move to Austin and see her. She doesn't let me get away with ANYTHING. She checks out my skin and my surgery incisions and anything else she can. She saw a rash one visit that I didn't even know was a rash. I thought it was just my skin irritated from being dry. Then she told me to pay better attention to things. ARGHHHHH!!!!! I had what was a large pimple under my right arm (cancer on left side) and she made me go to the surgeon and have him fix it. Sure it was pretty big but it would have eventually gone away. But she was afraid it might get infected. Infection is the number one bad guy when you are getting chemo. When you are in the waiting room for new doctors...talk to the patients there and ask what they think of the doctors. Good luck. Looking for a new doctor is about as fun as buying a car in my book. I drive cars until they beg me to go to the junkyard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 23, 2005 Report Share Posted December 23, 2005 Tobie...the main thing with treatment is that you have to be comfortable with your doctor. It is so VERY important. My oncologist is so WONDERFUL I wish you could move to Austin and see her. She doesn't let me get away with ANYTHING. She checks out my skin and my surgery incisions and anything else she can. She saw a rash one visit that I didn't even know was a rash. I thought it was just my skin irritated from being dry. Then she told me to pay better attention to things. ARGHHHHH!!!!! I had what was a large pimple under my right arm (cancer on left side) and she made me go to the surgeon and have him fix it. Sure it was pretty big but it would have eventually gone away. But she was afraid it might get infected. Infection is the number one bad guy when you are getting chemo. When you are in the waiting room for new doctors...talk to the patients there and ask what they think of the doctors. Good luck. Looking for a new doctor is about as fun as buying a car in my book. I drive cars until they beg me to go to the junkyard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 23, 2005 Report Share Posted December 23, 2005 Hi Tobie, There are a lot of women on antidepressants. If you still feel bad after awhile tell the dr and he will have to change your meds. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: Hello everyone> > > > > > This time last yr i found out i had breast cancer and because of the > hoildays > > i didnt get nothin done until jan.if i know what i know now back then i would > of > > changed alot of things. u think that the drs are the ones that knows all the > > answers but they dont.I dont have no one to talk to and as a mother and a > > grandmother i have to be the strong one of the family.i take care of them and > > now it my turn to be taken care of and sometimes its hard for them,. when my > > kids first found out i had breast cancer all i heard frm them was" i dont want > > to face it or im scared mom. until one day i had to tell them ' i dont want to > > face it neither but i have to.cause its in me.Well they was all there for my 3 > > surgerys but when it came time for the chemo treatments no one was there but > my > > bf. we all had a talk (family meeting ) about what was goin to happen and who > > was all goin to help my bf with me. when it came time to help no one was > there. > > all i heard was im busy or i have a full time job and> > my own life to take care of.Boy did that one hurt.My bf helps me but it seams > > he has givin up to.I know he loves me. and he takes care of me but i know he > > should do more but like my kids he dont want to face it neither.He asked me to > > marry him last month and i said yes. but not until this is all over with. I > want > > to be strong ,healthy and to look like a women again to him he said it dont > > matter but i know it does. he has only touched me 2 times in a yr now . no man > > wants a freak to touch or to make love to.i know it matters to men.they want a > > whole women not a half of one!!!> > > > Debbie wrote: Hi Nana, I sure can relate to your > post. > > I had a lumpectomy in 2004. > > Didnt have chemo or anything after that and seemed things was ok. But > > always had to put up front that I was strong. Now I have been called > > in for an ultrasound on same breast because mammogram showed 2 > > suspious spots and I am terrified but feel I have no one here that I > > can talk to..The ladies here give you that shoulder to cry on and > > lets you know all those wild feelings you are having are normal. That > > your not alone. If it wasnt for all I have read and recieved from > > everyone here and my mother who is 6 hours away but a breast cancer > > survivor of about 7 yrs now I duuno how i would keep my sanity. Its > > not easy to just let it all out to husband or friend. I dont know why > > but seems we think we have to protect them from worrying as much as > > we do about it all.At least thats what I feel. I have a 9yr old > > daughter who has no clue yet. When I have one of my crying spells I > > am always alone and usually get my control back before I face my > > husband or daughter.I dont know how old you are but as I was growing > > up the big C(cancer) was felt as a death sentences but as rough as it > > may be women have gotten thru it and lived happy lives. Your in my > > prayers and dont ever think you are alone. Or crazy about your > > feelings. someone out there has been there or is going thru pretty > > much same thing you are. So feel free to talk to any of us. you have > > a wide variety of experience here thats for sure.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > - In breastcancer2 , "nana112956" <nana112956@y...> > > wrote:> > >> > > Hello everyone im new here.I see alot of you sure care for one > > another > > > and thats great!!! It seams like as soon as i had my surgerys > > done.That > > > my family and bf thinks im fine now and thats not the case.Thats > > why i > > > joined this group.I need some one to listen and talk to.Its not > > easy > > > goin though all this alone.> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Have a great and wonderful day!!> > Sign,Tobie> > > > __________________________________________________> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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