Guest guest Posted June 9, 2004 Report Share Posted June 9, 2004 I don't know what to think. I believe the person DOES have cancer but there are so many other issues here as well. And those are the ones that are hard to sort out. Roire I believe what you saying least is that because you were born without gender distinction you have face a great deal of prejudice. You now believe the Dr.s are refusing you treatment so they do not have to deal with you any more. You have mentioned Radiation which is a type of treatment that may work in your case since you have a growth in the rectal area. I would start there. I am not sure if they are refusing surgery or telling you they can't operate right now. It would seem the latter would be correct. The radiation would shrink the tumor THEN I think surgery would be more helpful. You have A LOT on your plate and if you don't already have a counselor now is the time to look for one. You have had a rough life no doubt but with love and support you CAN make it. I will be praying for you. Don't give up. Ask others to help Pray and remember we DO care Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2004 Report Share Posted June 9, 2004 It is message number #12879,I think its about the only one he has not responded to. Hugs & Prayers, H. S/O " Hubby " ,52/diagnosed inoperable stage IV cc 7/31/03 6/1/04 started 4th-line chemo of folfox 4 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2004 Report Share Posted June 9, 2004 It is message number #12879,I think its about the only one he has not responded to. Hugs & Prayers, H. S/O " Hubby " ,52/diagnosed inoperable stage IV cc 7/31/03 6/1/04 started 4th-line chemo of folfox 4 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2004 Report Share Posted June 12, 2004 Narice..Great reply..We tried to get more information,he has an unusal name and he mentioned in one note..when my mother and the Dr left the room. Perhaps he has a guardian? privacy laws guard a lot of information but we wanted to determine if this was a real individual with some really serious problems,or someone who was not quite competent to make his/her own decisions. He had said,he was 32, lived in Waco Tx,but each letter appeared more disturbed than the previous ones. I think prayer will be the best route,I sincerely hope,if he is a young man in danger that God will come to his aide. Nick & Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2004 Report Share Posted June 12, 2004 Narice..Great reply..We tried to get more information,he has an unusal name and he mentioned in one note..when my mother and the Dr left the room. Perhaps he has a guardian? privacy laws guard a lot of information but we wanted to determine if this was a real individual with some really serious problems,or someone who was not quite competent to make his/her own decisions. He had said,he was 32, lived in Waco Tx,but each letter appeared more disturbed than the previous ones. I think prayer will be the best route,I sincerely hope,if he is a young man in danger that God will come to his aide. Nick & Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hello Narice, I am happy for U and your husband, and yes he told to live along time, but I don't trust Dr.s either. Which is why l am try to get another Dr. to get me more info. The National Cancer Society told me that the information they need would assential if they were to treatment. They know what I am talking about, because they need that information to determine my course of treatment. They won't tell me anything though. I always knew my life was coming to this point. Roiras P.S. I want to thank the drag queens of Waco, Tx, a\k\a Curtis and Parkdale Elementary, Ben , Darell , Carl Willis, Altin Mason, Lake Air Jr. High, Richfeild High School, Estella Maxie Projects, Waco Tx, and The Human Urinary/Reproductive Track, last but not least The Waco Independent School System and Waco Police Dept. including their staff, relatives, and friend. Re: What does everyone think ? I'm sorry it looked to me like that is what you were trying to say. It is starting to look better for you now that the Dr. has finally given you some answers. Did I read right he said you would live a long time? I don't blame you for wanting a 2nd opinion. You never know what can help you but now you have some HOPE. I remember last year some of the Dr.s were whispering that my husband didn't have very long. Well, he's still here and even though he is stage 4 he feels GREAT. Dr.s aren't God, I think if they were there would be a lot more atheists! Take Care Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hello Narice, I am happy for U and your husband, and yes he told to live along time, but I don't trust Dr.s either. Which is why l am try to get another Dr. to get me more info. The National Cancer Society told me that the information they need would assential if they were to treatment. They know what I am talking about, because they need that information to determine my course of treatment. They won't tell me anything though. I always knew my life was coming to this point. Roiras P.S. I want to thank the drag queens of Waco, Tx, a\k\a Curtis and Parkdale Elementary, Ben , Darell , Carl Willis, Altin Mason, Lake Air Jr. High, Richfeild High School, Estella Maxie Projects, Waco Tx, and The Human Urinary/Reproductive Track, last but not least The Waco Independent School System and Waco Police Dept. including their staff, relatives, and friend. Re: What does everyone think ? I'm sorry it looked to me like that is what you were trying to say. It is starting to look better for you now that the Dr. has finally given you some answers. Did I read right he said you would live a long time? I don't blame you for wanting a 2nd opinion. You never know what can help you but now you have some HOPE. I remember last year some of the Dr.s were whispering that my husband didn't have very long. Well, he's still here and even though he is stage 4 he feels GREAT. Dr.s aren't God, I think if they were there would be a lot more atheists! Take Care Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2004 Report Share Posted June 15, 2004 Hello Narice, I am happy for U and your husband, and yes he told to live along time, but I don't trust Dr.s either. Which is why l am try to get another Dr. to get me more info. The National Cancer Society told me that the information they need would assential if they were to treatment. They know what I am talking about, because they need that information to determine my course of treatment. They won't tell me anything though. I always knew my life was coming to this point. Roiras P.S. I want to thank the drag queens of Waco, Tx, a\k\a Curtis and Parkdale Elementary, Ben , Darell , Carl Willis, Altin Mason, Lake Air Jr. High, Richfeild High School, Estella Maxie Projects, Waco Tx, and The Human Urinary/Reproductive Track, last but not least The Waco Independent School System and Waco Police Dept. including their staff, relatives, and friend. Re: What does everyone think ? I'm sorry it looked to me like that is what you were trying to say. It is starting to look better for you now that the Dr. has finally given you some answers. Did I read right he said you would live a long time? I don't blame you for wanting a 2nd opinion. You never know what can help you but now you have some HOPE. I remember last year some of the Dr.s were whispering that my husband didn't have very long. Well, he's still here and even though he is stage 4 he feels GREAT. Dr.s aren't God, I think if they were there would be a lot more atheists! Take Care Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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