Guest guest Posted January 1, 2011 Report Share Posted January 1, 2011 Fantastic Mia! You are so right, you have your own style and I've no idea what your hair and eye color are but pink may not be your color. I am considered a spring and peach and coral work better for me than pink. So whatever nada did to make you hate pink it may be that pink doesn't work for your color palate any way. Wouldn't that be a hoot. I'm so proud of you! Kay > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Mia, I bet your outside is as pretty as your insides. I remember when I > > was > > > > in my forties and really heavy after 3 c-sections and wishing my > > outsides > > > > matched my insides. I finally did lose the weight. Some of it is just > > > > confidence. My college room mates and I had a reunion when I was about > > 53 > > > > and we looked at pictures of ourselves in college and had no idea how > > hot we > > > > were back then. We didn't have the confidence to see ourselves as we > > really > > > > were, and I bet that is the same for you. Your elderly nursing home > > clients > > > > are just old. Laugh it off. I bet if you look at pictures of yourself > > from > > > > high school you will be amazed at how attractive you were and didn't > > know > > > > it. Remember your nada didn't like herself and she didn't want you to > > like > > > > yourself,either. Don't let her win, don't be afraid to look in the > > mirror, > > > > you are hearing her voice not yours. Take the time to like yourself and > > put > > > > on make up and fix yourself up. If you don't want to be girly be > > sporty. I > > > > know a lot of sporty girls who are not girly at all and still > > attractive. If > > > > you don't have the SOWE workbook get it, it will help. I am struggling > > > > through it because it is rubbing some raw nerves, but it is helping.But > > the > > > > SOWE will help you hear the difference between your voice and nada's. > > Don't > > > > be afraid to look in the mirror! At one of my weight loss classes they > > > > taught us you had to like the fat body that you had, before you could > > be > > > > good enough to your fat body so you would want to help it lose weight > > and > > > > become a thin body. You've got to look in the mirror and like that > > person > > > > your nada told you was ugly, keep facing her and denying nada's voice > > and > > > > replace it with your own. > > > > Good luck and happy new year! > > > > Kay > > > > > > > > > > > > < > > http://groups.yahoo.com/;_ylc=X3oDMTJkZ2hhZWQwBF9TAzk3MzU5NzE0BGdycElkAzIzNDI3ND\ UEZ3Jwc3BJZAMxNzA1MDYxMjQ4BHNlYwNmdHIEc2xrA2dmcARzdGltZQMxMjkzODE4MjQx > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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