Guest guest Posted December 19, 2004 Report Share Posted December 19, 2004 Yes we have this here too. It can be scary sometimes you are wondering if you are talking to the same person. It goes to show that these kids really don't mean what they do. I think their actions really scare them. Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2004 Report Share Posted December 19, 2004 I had another " Ah ha! " moment during the same conversation (when I discovered he didn't remember anything). We only came to our diagnosis this year, and I haven't had much time to read about it beyond just the basic diagnostic sketches. But this week I've gotten to read some, and during that conversation I realized (after 7 years, duh, I can be a little resistant) that he really truly does not clue in to some social stuff. Yes, that's a critical diagnostic issue in Asperger's, but I just really didn't realize how true it is with him. Learning every day . . . Alice, Mama to , 7, ASD, SCD 3 months It goes to show that these kids really don't mean what they do. I think their actions really scare them. Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2004 Report Share Posted December 19, 2004 , that is something we deal with here also. That is one reason it bothered me so much last week when he had eaten things he shouldn't of. He gets to looking us square in the eye and hasn't a clue what has transpired sometimes only an hour previous. He can also change very quickly after a huge blow up and just start talking nice and asking to help. We have avoided it though when he sticks to the diet. It seems we pay a high price when he eats something else, that is one reason he doesn't think it's as bad as it is when he eats an illegal. Do you give him a epsom salt bath and have him swallow charcoal tablets? It might help things pass through quicker. Pearl Churchman wrote:I think in other circumstance my son would have been diagnosed with multiple personalities!! This morning he is so sweet and repentant and cooperative . .. . but it feels like walking on very thin ice . . .at any moment I could crash through into icy waters! , Mama to , 7 (Aspie), , 4, , 3 _____ We call it Dr Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde - two totally different kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 20, 2004 Report Share Posted December 20, 2004 I have to confess the infraction included pretty much everything illegal: gluten, casein, starch, sugar, chocolate, you name it. Again my fault. I can't bring myself to confess why I let it happen. But it's no wonder he's been a basket case . . . it's probably all those issues!! (Opioids, insulin, allergies . . . ) No doubt this sort of thing is responsible for a lot of the crime in the world! (Headlines: Man eats steak dinner, potatoes, dessert, then kills wife in rage; man can't remember a thing) Alice, Mama to , 7, ASD, SCD 3 months If the lapse in diet affected his blood sugar, he may have been like what they call a " dry drunk " someone so affected by insulin levels that they react as belligerently as if they were an alchoholic, to high sugar levels. If his infraction included milk or wheat, and he has that opoid issue with them, then again, it is as if he had a hit of drugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2004 Report Share Posted December 21, 2004 Actually I'm almost glad we did it, because it's ABSOLUTE PROOF that the diet works. Not that I doubted it, but it was like flipping a switch: One moment, reasonably normal boy. A few hours later, raging, psychotic maniac. A few days later, after returning to the diet, reasonably normal boy returning again. Alice, Mama to , 7, ASD, SCD 3 months ---------------------------------------- The last thing we parents (mostly Moms!) need to do is beat ourselves up over the occassional lapse! It's hard enough to monitor ones own diet, let alone a child! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2004 Report Share Posted December 21, 2004 Actually I'm almost glad we did it, because it's ABSOLUTE PROOF that the diet works. Not that I doubted it, but it was like flipping a switch: One moment, reasonably normal boy. A few hours later, raging, psychotic maniac. A few days later, after returning to the diet, reasonably normal boy returning again. Alice, Mama to , 7, ASD, SCD 3 months ---------------------------------------- The last thing we parents (mostly Moms!) need to do is beat ourselves up over the occassional lapse! It's hard enough to monitor ones own diet, let alone a child! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2004 Report Share Posted December 21, 2004 It's like gaslighting, isn't it ? You start thinking, am I CRAZY to put all this effort into this thing that may be mumbo jumbo coincidence? For our son, when he gets off GFCF, he stops feeling pain again, and starts doing things like jumping off the couch on to the floor so I feel like you do-hey, at least it isn't a waste of time! We are gradually trying SCD at this point. _____ From: Churchman Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 7:56 PM To: pecanbread Subject: RE: Re: Memory lapse after diet infraction???? Actually I'm almost glad we did it, because it's ABSOLUTE PROOF that the diet works. Not that I doubted it, but it was like flipping a switch: One moment, reasonably normal boy. A few hours later, raging, psychotic maniac. A few days later, after returning to the diet, reasonably normal boy returning again. Alice, Mama to , 7, ASD, SCD 3 months ---------------------------------------- The last thing we parents (mostly Moms!) need to do is beat ourselves up over the occassional lapse! It's hard enough to monitor ones own diet, let alone a child! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2004 Report Share Posted December 21, 2004 It's like gaslighting, isn't it ? You start thinking, am I CRAZY to put all this effort into this thing that may be mumbo jumbo coincidence? For our son, when he gets off GFCF, he stops feeling pain again, and starts doing things like jumping off the couch on to the floor so I feel like you do-hey, at least it isn't a waste of time! We are gradually trying SCD at this point. _____ From: Churchman Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 7:56 PM To: pecanbread Subject: RE: Re: Memory lapse after diet infraction???? Actually I'm almost glad we did it, because it's ABSOLUTE PROOF that the diet works. Not that I doubted it, but it was like flipping a switch: One moment, reasonably normal boy. A few hours later, raging, psychotic maniac. A few days later, after returning to the diet, reasonably normal boy returning again. Alice, Mama to , 7, ASD, SCD 3 months ---------------------------------------- The last thing we parents (mostly Moms!) need to do is beat ourselves up over the occassional lapse! It's hard enough to monitor ones own diet, let alone a child! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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