Re: need help or sympathy?

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I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand?

Ren

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I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand?

Ren

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I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand?

Ren

[Guest guest]

Ren,

You have to do what you feel is best for YOU. If you don't feel he is the right one for you then to just keep going on with the relationship wouldn't be good for either of you. I will keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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Re: need help or sympathy?

I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand? Ren

[Guest guest]

Ren,

You have to do what you feel is best for YOU. If you don't feel he is the right one for you then to just keep going on with the relationship wouldn't be good for either of you. I will keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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Re: need help or sympathy?

I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand? Ren

[Guest guest]

Ren,

You have to do what you feel is best for YOU. If you don't feel he is the right one for you then to just keep going on with the relationship wouldn't be good for either of you. I will keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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Re: need help or sympathy?

I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand? Ren

[Guest guest]

Hi there Ren,

I feel for you. But you had to do what felt right for you. God Bless.

Hugs

Theresarendurall@... wrote:

I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a boyfriend last year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God brought another man in my life this January while I was still going through chemo and facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin a reltionship with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and more into the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for my life. I knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break. Well, today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I felt the break with him would help me find direction in my life.

I know I have a calling on my life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I need to turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is nice and we have had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in a long term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing bad to me and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if he broke it off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again. Does anyone understand? Ren __________________________________________________

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Hi Ren. I do understand how you feel. Before my grandchildren came

along, my biggest problem for each day was which mall did I want to

visit. Then I started knitting again and found a group of ladies to

share the interest. That kept me busy for awhile. Then my

granddaughter was born. My son and DIL had made no provisions for

child care, so it was up to me to take care of her. At first I was

resentful about the lack of free time but adjusted to the constant

demands of a baby. Three and a half years later my DIL gave birth to

my grandson. Now I was really tied down. At the same time we had a

Golden Retriever puppy. She was the dog from hell. If my GD wasn't

into something, my GS was. If he wasn't into anything, the dog was.

There were times I thought I would go crazy.

I was DX with BC Dec. of 2002 and had a matectomy in Jan. 2003. By

this time I knew God's plan for me was to take care of my

grandchildren. I recovered quite well from 4 rounds of A/C and six

weeks of rads. During all of this time, I still took care of my

grandchildren every day. Took them to school, picked them up and

often they spent the night with us.

I was beginnig to feel pretty good about life; my GS was in

Kindergarten and my GD was in fourth grade. I devoted over a hundred

hours to my grandkids school helping the teachers and working on the

yearbook. Then my DIL announced she was expecting a third baby from

her second husband. You guessed it, I am now taking care of " Binkie "

full time. A few months ago, I had two wake up calls: A lump on the

back of my tongue and squamous cell carinoma on my hip. I couldn't

understand these events as I frimly believed that God wanted me to

devote my life to my grandkids. Fortunately, all worked out and I

still have my " kids " with me. And I do devote my life to them and do

it because I want to. I enjoy every minute with them and am grateful

to God that I can do it. I know this is God's plan for me and I thank

Him every night that I can do it.

God has His plan for you and you will find it and run with it. Just

hang in there and keep in touch. Let me know if I can do anything to

help you. Always, Chris

- In breastcancer2 , rendurall@w... wrote:

> I did something today and I am so very sad about it. I had a

boyfriend last

> year that was not supportive of me. I broke it off with him. God

brought

> another man in my life this January while I was still going through

chemo and

> facing rads. I couldn't understand why someone would want to begin

a reltionship

> with me in my condition but he did. I have been getting more and

more into

> the word of God and prayer and know that God has something else for

my life. I

> knew that I should either break up with him or just take a break.

Well,

> today, I told him just that. He did not really understand why I

felt the break

> with him would help me find direction in my life. I know I have a

calling on my

> life, and in order to go in that direction that God has for me, I

need to

> turn everything in my life over to him. Even though this guy is

nice and we have

> had a good relationship, I don't feel he is the right one for me in

a long

> term relationship. It is so sad ending a courtship. He did nothing

bad to me

> and so I feel bad for doing this to him. I have been crying as if

he broke it

> off with me. I just need some time to find my direction again.

Does anyone

> understand?

>

> Ren