Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Oh , I’m SO sorry. I don’t think there’s a right way to handle this horrible event. I’ve known several people who have gone through it, and it’s been painful for each one. It takes time to heal emotionally, and at some point you’ll be ready to think about the future. Try not to decide it all right now while you’re dealing with so much. Just want to let you know that I’m thinking of you. - Alice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Oh, hon, it's the most desolate feeling in the world. I know it first-hand, as do quite a number of others here. I am so sorry... and you're right, even the absolute best husband in the world still can't quite reach this grief. It's probably one of the most private pains a woman has to bear. And the fear of it happening again is very great. The first thing I would encourage you to understand is that you are not to blame. I know that I thought of every reason why I was at fault when I lost my baby at 10 weeks, but in the end I just had to understand that we live in an imperfect and unfair world... a world full of error and flaws, in which eggs and sperm come together and don't always get it right. It sucks, but it's the way it is. None of that need take away from your right to grieve, however... no matter how early, no matter how small, this was YOUR baby and now you are empty. That was the feeling that overwhelmed me more than anything else... the feeling of being empty and alone. But you are NOT alone. We are here for you... I am here... God is here... and we all love you. Don't be surprised or upset when people give you uncaring advice like " Oh, it happens all the time. You need to just get over it. " or things like that. My own mother even told me that... she had had many miscarriages when I was a little girl, and I think that was just how she was forced to deal with it back then. Just remember that other people are often uncomfortable with our pain and don't know how to help us. I am truly, terribly sorry, dear one. Don't circle the wagons... talk about it with someone if you need to... allow yourself to grieve and to take time. When you're ready to try again, you'll know. Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Oh, hon, it's the most desolate feeling in the world. I know it first-hand, as do quite a number of others here. I am so sorry... and you're right, even the absolute best husband in the world still can't quite reach this grief. It's probably one of the most private pains a woman has to bear. And the fear of it happening again is very great. The first thing I would encourage you to understand is that you are not to blame. I know that I thought of every reason why I was at fault when I lost my baby at 10 weeks, but in the end I just had to understand that we live in an imperfect and unfair world... a world full of error and flaws, in which eggs and sperm come together and don't always get it right. It sucks, but it's the way it is. None of that need take away from your right to grieve, however... no matter how early, no matter how small, this was YOUR baby and now you are empty. That was the feeling that overwhelmed me more than anything else... the feeling of being empty and alone. But you are NOT alone. We are here for you... I am here... God is here... and we all love you. Don't be surprised or upset when people give you uncaring advice like " Oh, it happens all the time. You need to just get over it. " or things like that. My own mother even told me that... she had had many miscarriages when I was a little girl, and I think that was just how she was forced to deal with it back then. Just remember that other people are often uncomfortable with our pain and don't know how to help us. I am truly, terribly sorry, dear one. Don't circle the wagons... talk about it with someone if you need to... allow yourself to grieve and to take time. When you're ready to try again, you'll know. Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Oh, hon, it's the most desolate feeling in the world. I know it first-hand, as do quite a number of others here. I am so sorry... and you're right, even the absolute best husband in the world still can't quite reach this grief. It's probably one of the most private pains a woman has to bear. And the fear of it happening again is very great. The first thing I would encourage you to understand is that you are not to blame. I know that I thought of every reason why I was at fault when I lost my baby at 10 weeks, but in the end I just had to understand that we live in an imperfect and unfair world... a world full of error and flaws, in which eggs and sperm come together and don't always get it right. It sucks, but it's the way it is. None of that need take away from your right to grieve, however... no matter how early, no matter how small, this was YOUR baby and now you are empty. That was the feeling that overwhelmed me more than anything else... the feeling of being empty and alone. But you are NOT alone. We are here for you... I am here... God is here... and we all love you. Don't be surprised or upset when people give you uncaring advice like " Oh, it happens all the time. You need to just get over it. " or things like that. My own mother even told me that... she had had many miscarriages when I was a little girl, and I think that was just how she was forced to deal with it back then. Just remember that other people are often uncomfortable with our pain and don't know how to help us. I am truly, terribly sorry, dear one. Don't circle the wagons... talk about it with someone if you need to... allow yourself to grieve and to take time. When you're ready to try again, you'll know. Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 ', I am SO sorry to hear this hun. I was holding out hope BIG time! Of course you are going to be devistated, but you need to go through it, and give yourself some time to heal. Physically you are going to be fine, I had a miscarriage years ago, and it didnt stop me from having my daughter the following year, and then pregnant with this one now. So please dont think that this will probably happen again. Chances are good that it wont. I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers, and if you ever need to talk, you know my private email, so feel free please! Take care. Marcy Lost our baby Hi everyone. Hope everyone is doing okay. We lost our baby last night. My levels fell to 170 and the said I had a complete miscarriage. I just don't know what to do. I feel so empty and lost. I have the greatest husband in the world but I jsut don't know how to talk to him about this. They said we can try again, but I just don't know if I ever want to go throught this again. I'm scared that I'll lose another baby. How do you handle it for the ones that have had a miscarriage. How do you go on? How do you pick the pieces up and continue? I was only six weeks pregnant and we were so excited. We wanted this baby so bad. Thank you for all the support and prayers ya'll have given us. Thank you, ' son Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 ', I am SO sorry to hear this hun. I was holding out hope BIG time! Of course you are going to be devistated, but you need to go through it, and give yourself some time to heal. Physically you are going to be fine, I had a miscarriage years ago, and it didnt stop me from having my daughter the following year, and then pregnant with this one now. So please dont think that this will probably happen again. Chances are good that it wont. I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers, and if you ever need to talk, you know my private email, so feel free please! Take care. Marcy Lost our baby Hi everyone. Hope everyone is doing okay. We lost our baby last night. My levels fell to 170 and the said I had a complete miscarriage. I just don't know what to do. I feel so empty and lost. I have the greatest husband in the world but I jsut don't know how to talk to him about this. They said we can try again, but I just don't know if I ever want to go throught this again. I'm scared that I'll lose another baby. How do you handle it for the ones that have had a miscarriage. How do you go on? How do you pick the pieces up and continue? I was only six weeks pregnant and we were so excited. We wanted this baby so bad. Thank you for all the support and prayers ya'll have given us. Thank you, ' son Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 ', I am SO sorry to hear this hun. I was holding out hope BIG time! Of course you are going to be devistated, but you need to go through it, and give yourself some time to heal. Physically you are going to be fine, I had a miscarriage years ago, and it didnt stop me from having my daughter the following year, and then pregnant with this one now. So please dont think that this will probably happen again. Chances are good that it wont. I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers, and if you ever need to talk, you know my private email, so feel free please! Take care. Marcy Lost our baby Hi everyone. Hope everyone is doing okay. We lost our baby last night. My levels fell to 170 and the said I had a complete miscarriage. I just don't know what to do. I feel so empty and lost. I have the greatest husband in the world but I jsut don't know how to talk to him about this. They said we can try again, but I just don't know if I ever want to go throught this again. I'm scared that I'll lose another baby. How do you handle it for the ones that have had a miscarriage. How do you go on? How do you pick the pieces up and continue? I was only six weeks pregnant and we were so excited. We wanted this baby so bad. Thank you for all the support and prayers ya'll have given us. Thank you, ' son Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 , I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know this isn't comforting right now, but when I found out I was pregnant, I went immediately to my obgyn. They made my appointment like a week later, but thank god they did, because if not, I would of had a miscarriage also, due to my low estrogen levels...I immediately went on estrogen and am still on it today, although i am 3 months now. I am very sorry for your loss, and you can try again....They say getting pregnant again is very easy after a miss, like you get pregnant right away....so good luck, you will work through this..have the faith I wish you all the luck in the world that your next pegnancy will be the one, a full term healthy child.....God bless you and your husband at this time in your life. nanci edd 4/16/03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 , I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know this isn't comforting right now, but when I found out I was pregnant, I went immediately to my obgyn. They made my appointment like a week later, but thank god they did, because if not, I would of had a miscarriage also, due to my low estrogen levels...I immediately went on estrogen and am still on it today, although i am 3 months now. I am very sorry for your loss, and you can try again....They say getting pregnant again is very easy after a miss, like you get pregnant right away....so good luck, you will work through this..have the faith I wish you all the luck in the world that your next pegnancy will be the one, a full term healthy child.....God bless you and your husband at this time in your life. nanci edd 4/16/03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 , I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know this isn't comforting right now, but when I found out I was pregnant, I went immediately to my obgyn. They made my appointment like a week later, but thank god they did, because if not, I would of had a miscarriage also, due to my low estrogen levels...I immediately went on estrogen and am still on it today, although i am 3 months now. I am very sorry for your loss, and you can try again....They say getting pregnant again is very easy after a miss, like you get pregnant right away....so good luck, you will work through this..have the faith I wish you all the luck in the world that your next pegnancy will be the one, a full term healthy child.....God bless you and your husband at this time in your life. nanci edd 4/16/03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 I am very sorry to hear about your loss,, I dont know what to say, I do know what Kris wrote (which was beautifully and so eloquently written that it brought tears to my eyes) seemed very wise. Best of luck to you, Peace, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 > Hi . Just wanted you to know you're not alone. My husband and I, after many infertility visits, got pregnant seven years ago and had not one, but two miscarriages (twins - one at 6 weeks, then when we thought everything was okay, the other at 13 weeks). It was devastating. We talked A LOT and did eventually get through it. We went on to adopt a beautiful daughter who will be 5 in November. Now, after having the surgery in 07/01, we are pregnant totally naturally and, at 6 weeks, I harbor the fear that the same thing will happen again. It's perfectly natural that you feel all alone. Talk to people about it as much as you need to and know that it can happen again. Hang in there and feel free to e-mail for support whenever you need it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 > Hi . Just wanted you to know you're not alone. My husband and I, after many infertility visits, got pregnant seven years ago and had not one, but two miscarriages (twins - one at 6 weeks, then when we thought everything was okay, the other at 13 weeks). It was devastating. We talked A LOT and did eventually get through it. We went on to adopt a beautiful daughter who will be 5 in November. Now, after having the surgery in 07/01, we are pregnant totally naturally and, at 6 weeks, I harbor the fear that the same thing will happen again. It's perfectly natural that you feel all alone. Talk to people about it as much as you need to and know that it can happen again. Hang in there and feel free to e-mail for support whenever you need it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 > Hi . Just wanted you to know you're not alone. My husband and I, after many infertility visits, got pregnant seven years ago and had not one, but two miscarriages (twins - one at 6 weeks, then when we thought everything was okay, the other at 13 weeks). It was devastating. We talked A LOT and did eventually get through it. We went on to adopt a beautiful daughter who will be 5 in November. Now, after having the surgery in 07/01, we are pregnant totally naturally and, at 6 weeks, I harbor the fear that the same thing will happen again. It's perfectly natural that you feel all alone. Talk to people about it as much as you need to and know that it can happen again. Hang in there and feel free to e-mail for support whenever you need it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 renee.. i just want you to know how sorry i am, and how much i admire your strength of spirit and your consideration of other people especially in your own time of need. i dont think unfortunately any knows why some babies just dont make it for whatever reason, i think if there was ever a question that needed an answer that would be one of them, i just dont think there is a reasonable reason, for it if that makes sense, which unfortunately it doesnt. i hope you are blessed though with a child whichever way it comes to you. please let us know how you are. my thoughts and prayers are with you..............alissa... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 renee.. i just want you to know how sorry i am, and how much i admire your strength of spirit and your consideration of other people especially in your own time of need. i dont think unfortunately any knows why some babies just dont make it for whatever reason, i think if there was ever a question that needed an answer that would be one of them, i just dont think there is a reasonable reason, for it if that makes sense, which unfortunately it doesnt. i hope you are blessed though with a child whichever way it comes to you. please let us know how you are. my thoughts and prayers are with you..............alissa... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 We want to just thank everyone for all thier prayers nad support for us during this time in our lives. I know in my mind that the baby is better off that it would have probably been very sick and deformed. My heart just wont believe it. I know that god has a purpose for this but I just don't know what it is. I wish He would just tell us WHY! Clavin and I are talking alot and he is so supportive of me. I just don't know how to help him right now. I wanted to give him this baby so bad. But I do thank you ya'll for all the prayers and support. We will make it through this because our love for each other is so strong. It's just gonna be hard. Calvin does want to try again, I just don't think I have the strenght to go through this agin. I'm so scared that I will lose that one too. We want a baby so bad. Thanks again and all of our love and prayers to ya'll too. Love, Calvin and ' > > Hi . Just wanted you to know you're not alone. My husband and I, > after many infertility visits, got pregnant seven years ago and had not > one, but two miscarriages (twins - one at 6 weeks, then when we thought > everything was okay, the other at 13 weeks). It was devastating. We > talked A LOT and did eventually get through it. We went on to adopt a > beautiful daughter who will be 5 in November. Now, after having the > surgery in 07/01, we are pregnant totally naturally and, at 6 weeks, I > harbor the fear that the same thing will happen again. It's perfectly > natural that you feel all alone. Talk to people about it as much as you > need to and know that it can happen again. Hang in there and feel free > to e-mail for support whenever you need it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Kris, Thank you so much for your kind words. They really mean a lot to us right now. I do feel so alone and so empty. I know I only had this baby in me for 6 weeks but it was our baby. It's just a lonley battle right now. Calvin took the day off today and we just got out and rode around and talked. It helped to get my mind off of the baby, but tonight is pretty bad. But we do thank you so much for your kind thoughts and prayers. It's nice to know that we have friends out there. Thanks and love, Calvin and ' son > Oh, hon, it's the most desolate feeling in the world. I know it first-hand, > as do quite a number of others here. I am so sorry... and you're right, even > the absolute best husband in the world still can't quite reach this grief. > It's probably one of the most private pains a woman has to bear. And the > fear of it happening again is very great. > > The first thing I would encourage you to understand is that you are not to > blame. I know that I thought of every reason why I was at fault when I lost > my baby at 10 weeks, but in the end I just had to understand that we live in > an imperfect and unfair world... a world full of error and flaws, in which > eggs and sperm come together and don't always get it right. It sucks, but > it's the way it is. > > None of that need take away from your right to grieve, however... no matter > how early, no matter how small, this was YOUR baby and now you are empty. > That was the feeling that overwhelmed me more than anything else... the > feeling of being empty and alone. But you are NOT alone. We are here for > you... I am here... God is here... and we all love you. > > Don't be surprised or upset when people give you uncaring advice like " Oh, > it happens all the time. You need to just get over it. " or things like that. > My own mother even told me that... she had had many miscarriages when I was > a little girl, and I think that was just how she was forced to deal with it > back then. Just remember that other people are often uncomfortable with our > pain and don't know how to help us. > > I am truly, terribly sorry, dear one. Don't circle the wagons... talk about > it with someone if you need to... allow yourself to grieve and to take time. > When you're ready to try again, you'll know. > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Kris, Thank you so much for your kind words. They really mean a lot to us right now. I do feel so alone and so empty. I know I only had this baby in me for 6 weeks but it was our baby. It's just a lonley battle right now. Calvin took the day off today and we just got out and rode around and talked. It helped to get my mind off of the baby, but tonight is pretty bad. But we do thank you so much for your kind thoughts and prayers. It's nice to know that we have friends out there. Thanks and love, Calvin and ' son > Oh, hon, it's the most desolate feeling in the world. I know it first-hand, > as do quite a number of others here. I am so sorry... and you're right, even > the absolute best husband in the world still can't quite reach this grief. > It's probably one of the most private pains a woman has to bear. And the > fear of it happening again is very great. > > The first thing I would encourage you to understand is that you are not to > blame. I know that I thought of every reason why I was at fault when I lost > my baby at 10 weeks, but in the end I just had to understand that we live in > an imperfect and unfair world... a world full of error and flaws, in which > eggs and sperm come together and don't always get it right. It sucks, but > it's the way it is. > > None of that need take away from your right to grieve, however... no matter > how early, no matter how small, this was YOUR baby and now you are empty. > That was the feeling that overwhelmed me more than anything else... the > feeling of being empty and alone. But you are NOT alone. We are here for > you... I am here... God is here... and we all love you. > > Don't be surprised or upset when people give you uncaring advice like " Oh, > it happens all the time. You need to just get over it. " or things like that. > My own mother even told me that... she had had many miscarriages when I was > a little girl, and I think that was just how she was forced to deal with it > back then. Just remember that other people are often uncomfortable with our > pain and don't know how to help us. > > I am truly, terribly sorry, dear one. Don't circle the wagons... talk about > it with someone if you need to... allow yourself to grieve and to take time. > When you're ready to try again, you'll know. > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2002 Report Share Posted September 25, 2002 Kris, Thank you so much for your kind words. They really mean a lot to us right now. I do feel so alone and so empty. I know I only had this baby in me for 6 weeks but it was our baby. It's just a lonley battle right now. Calvin took the day off today and we just got out and rode around and talked. It helped to get my mind off of the baby, but tonight is pretty bad. But we do thank you so much for your kind thoughts and prayers. It's nice to know that we have friends out there. Thanks and love, Calvin and ' son > Oh, hon, it's the most desolate feeling in the world. I know it first-hand, > as do quite a number of others here. I am so sorry... and you're right, even > the absolute best husband in the world still can't quite reach this grief. > It's probably one of the most private pains a woman has to bear. And the > fear of it happening again is very great. > > The first thing I would encourage you to understand is that you are not to > blame. I know that I thought of every reason why I was at fault when I lost > my baby at 10 weeks, but in the end I just had to understand that we live in > an imperfect and unfair world... a world full of error and flaws, in which > eggs and sperm come together and don't always get it right. It sucks, but > it's the way it is. > > None of that need take away from your right to grieve, however... no matter > how early, no matter how small, this was YOUR baby and now you are empty. > That was the feeling that overwhelmed me more than anything else... the > feeling of being empty and alone. But you are NOT alone. We are here for > you... I am here... God is here... and we all love you. > > Don't be surprised or upset when people give you uncaring advice like " Oh, > it happens all the time. You need to just get over it. " or things like that. > My own mother even told me that... she had had many miscarriages when I was > a little girl, and I think that was just how she was forced to deal with it > back then. Just remember that other people are often uncomfortable with our > pain and don't know how to help us. > > I am truly, terribly sorry, dear one. Don't circle the wagons... talk about > it with someone if you need to... allow yourself to grieve and to take time. > When you're ready to try again, you'll know. > > Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2002 Report Share Posted September 26, 2002 hi renee, my name is julie we started bleeding around the same time I never wrote you back, I lost my babay too........It has been awfull, I WASN'T wanting a baby i thought that part of my life was over I was walking riding bikes with my boys ages 7 ,9 then got preg but I started getting into it i started getting stuff for the baby planing a future that involved the baby I was 10 weeks . My boys took it worse than I did IT has been the hardest thing I 've ever had to deal with . I aso had to have a dnc . Did you? It has been a week since my dnc . I had so much pain i thought i was going to die i went to the emergency room 2 nights before the blood starting gushing I didn't take anything for pain i kept thinking they were wrong i didn't want to take anything that could have hurt my baby. We had a name picked out we were going to name her sara elizabeth I know it WAS a girl I drempt about her I already loved her we had a connection. I know people don't understand how you could be that attached but I was... My DR said to wait 2 months and try again that is the best way to get over losing one we probbly will. I have to pick up the pieces of my life my other kids need me . Your family needs you also .Your baby is with God and my baby ,I am sure they will find each other in heaven I think you should have another one they say the chances of it happing again are very slim . They don't know why I lost the babay . They say it had nothing to do with the surgery I am 11 mos out, down 135 lbs60 to go .I will keep you in my prayers as I did when we first started bleeding ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2002 Report Share Posted September 26, 2002 hi renee, my name is julie we started bleeding around the same time I never wrote you back, I lost my babay too........It has been awfull, I WASN'T wanting a baby i thought that part of my life was over I was walking riding bikes with my boys ages 7 ,9 then got preg but I started getting into it i started getting stuff for the baby planing a future that involved the baby I was 10 weeks . My boys took it worse than I did IT has been the hardest thing I 've ever had to deal with . I aso had to have a dnc . Did you? It has been a week since my dnc . I had so much pain i thought i was going to die i went to the emergency room 2 nights before the blood starting gushing I didn't take anything for pain i kept thinking they were wrong i didn't want to take anything that could have hurt my baby. We had a name picked out we were going to name her sara elizabeth I know it WAS a girl I drempt about her I already loved her we had a connection. I know people don't understand how you could be that attached but I was... My DR said to wait 2 months and try again that is the best way to get over losing one we probbly will. I have to pick up the pieces of my life my other kids need me . Your family needs you also .Your baby is with God and my baby ,I am sure they will find each other in heaven I think you should have another one they say the chances of it happing again are very slim . They don't know why I lost the babay . They say it had nothing to do with the surgery I am 11 mos out, down 135 lbs60 to go .I will keep you in my prayers as I did when we first started bleeding ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2002 Report Share Posted September 26, 2002 hi renee, my name is julie we started bleeding around the same time I never wrote you back, I lost my babay too........It has been awfull, I WASN'T wanting a baby i thought that part of my life was over I was walking riding bikes with my boys ages 7 ,9 then got preg but I started getting into it i started getting stuff for the baby planing a future that involved the baby I was 10 weeks . My boys took it worse than I did IT has been the hardest thing I 've ever had to deal with . I aso had to have a dnc . Did you? It has been a week since my dnc . I had so much pain i thought i was going to die i went to the emergency room 2 nights before the blood starting gushing I didn't take anything for pain i kept thinking they were wrong i didn't want to take anything that could have hurt my baby. We had a name picked out we were going to name her sara elizabeth I know it WAS a girl I drempt about her I already loved her we had a connection. I know people don't understand how you could be that attached but I was... My DR said to wait 2 months and try again that is the best way to get over losing one we probbly will. I have to pick up the pieces of my life my other kids need me . Your family needs you also .Your baby is with God and my baby ,I am sure they will find each other in heaven I think you should have another one they say the chances of it happing again are very slim . They don't know why I lost the babay . They say it had nothing to do with the surgery I am 11 mos out, down 135 lbs60 to go .I will keep you in my prayers as I did when we first started bleeding ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2002 Report Share Posted September 27, 2002 -- I read posts here everyday - but rarely respond. I am compelled to respond after reading your post. You really touched my heart in a very deep place. I have three beautiful children (12, 3 and 5 months) and have never lost one -- but I really feel for you (and any other woman in your situation). I read stuff like this often - and I have a sister who miscarried -- but for some reason your situation really touched me. After I read your post I cried - then I said a series of prayers for you and your family. Hang in there, -- the Lord will see you through. You will continue to be in my thoughts/prayers. > hi renee, my name is julie we started bleeding around the same time I never > wrote you back, I lost my babay too........It has been awfull, I WASN'T > wanting a baby i thought that part of my life was over I was walking riding > bikes with my boys ages 7 ,9 then got preg but I started getting into it i > started getting stuff for the baby planing a future that involved the baby I > was 10 weeks . My boys took it worse than I did IT has been the hardest thing > I 've ever had to deal with . I aso had to have a dnc . Did you? It has been > a week since my dnc . I had so much pain i thought i was going to die i went > to the emergency room 2 nights before the blood starting gushing I didn't > take anything for pain i kept thinking they were wrong i didn't want to take > anything that could have hurt my baby. We had a name picked out we were going > to name her sara elizabeth I know it WAS a girl I drempt about her I already > loved her we had a connection. I know people don't understand how you could > be that attached but I was... My DR said to wait 2 months and try again that > is the best way to get over losing one we probbly will. I have to pick up the > pieces of my life my other kids need me . Your family needs you also .Your > baby is with God and my baby ,I am sure they will find each other in heaven I > think you should have another one they say the chances of it happing again > are very slim . They don't know why I lost the babay . They say it had > nothing to do with the surgery I am 11 mos out, down 135 lbs60 to go .I will > keep you in my prayers as I did when we first started bleeding ..... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2002 Report Share Posted September 29, 2002 , I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I have you in my prayers. rose edd 02-14-02 > Hi everyone. Hope everyone is doing okay. We lost our baby last > night. My levels fell to 170 and the said I had a complete > miscarriage. I just don't know what to do. I feel so empty and lost. > I have the greatest husband in the world but I jsut don't know how > to talk to him about this. They said we can try again, but I just > don't know if I ever want to go throught this again. I'm scared that > I'll lose another baby. How do you handle it for the ones that have > had a miscarriage. How do you go on? How do you pick the pieces up > and continue? I was only six weeks pregnant and we were so excited. > We wanted this baby so bad. Thank you for all the support and > prayers ya'll have given us. > > Thank you, > > ' son Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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