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We just returned from UVA where Mom saw the radiologist. The good

news is that it does appear to be only one met to the liver, but it

is too large to allow for a clean enough margin to do an RFA. He

will do an RFA but doesn't think it will get rid of the tumor

entirely. It is 5 cm or was two months ago when the PET and MRI were

done. He recommends the resection as the surest way to get it all.

I don't know what to think. A resection at 77 seems like an awful

lot to go through. Our general surgeon says it is a debilitating

surgery, and Mom has not been emotionally stable since the

recurrence.

Would it make any sense to have the RFA if the odds are not high that

it can be completely ablated? Any experience along this line?

Sharon

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Sharon, this is a tough call and I really don't know what to tell

you. Most doctors are concerned with quality as well as quantity of

life, with quality being first. Perhaps you should speak with all

your mom's doctors to get the " big picture. " Have they considered

some chemo to shrink the tumor to where an RFA would be possible? Is

radiation still an option? My mom has lung cancer and can't be

operated. She is now 71 but when diagnosed was 69. She would have

opted for a complete resection if it had given her a chance at cure,

but alas, operating was not an option as they found a neck lymph

node...one lousy node...had cancer in it too. Her response to chemo

was that it shrunk the 3 cm tumor by over 60% and radiation burned

away the rest. I am not familiar with colon cancer met to the lungs

so perhaps on a met tumor, radiation is no longer on option, but it

couldn't hurt to ask.

Please bear in mind that after obtaining all the facts, the final

decision is ultimately your moms and whatever her decision is, be it

what you want to hear or maybe not want to hear, it must be

respected. I would proceed with talking with all of her doctors and

get a list going of all pros and cons and keep mom in the total loop

and take it from there.

Hugs,

Monika

> We just returned from UVA where Mom saw the radiologist. The good

> news is that it does appear to be only one met to the liver, but it

> is too large to allow for a clean enough margin to do an RFA. He

> will do an RFA but doesn't think it will get rid of the tumor

> entirely. It is 5 cm or was two months ago when the PET and MRI

were

> done. He recommends the resection as the surest way to get it all.

>

> I don't know what to think. A resection at 77 seems like an awful

> lot to go through. Our general surgeon says it is a debilitating

> surgery, and Mom has not been emotionally stable since the

> recurrence.

>

> Would it make any sense to have the RFA if the odds are not high

that

> it can be completely ablated? Any experience along this line?

>

> Sharon

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Sharon, this is a tough call and I really don't know what to tell

you. Most doctors are concerned with quality as well as quantity of

life, with quality being first. Perhaps you should speak with all

your mom's doctors to get the " big picture. " Have they considered

some chemo to shrink the tumor to where an RFA would be possible? Is

radiation still an option? My mom has lung cancer and can't be

operated. She is now 71 but when diagnosed was 69. She would have

opted for a complete resection if it had given her a chance at cure,

but alas, operating was not an option as they found a neck lymph

node...one lousy node...had cancer in it too. Her response to chemo

was that it shrunk the 3 cm tumor by over 60% and radiation burned

away the rest. I am not familiar with colon cancer met to the lungs

so perhaps on a met tumor, radiation is no longer on option, but it

couldn't hurt to ask.

Please bear in mind that after obtaining all the facts, the final

decision is ultimately your moms and whatever her decision is, be it

what you want to hear or maybe not want to hear, it must be

respected. I would proceed with talking with all of her doctors and

get a list going of all pros and cons and keep mom in the total loop

and take it from there.

Hugs,

Monika

> We just returned from UVA where Mom saw the radiologist. The good

> news is that it does appear to be only one met to the liver, but it

> is too large to allow for a clean enough margin to do an RFA. He

> will do an RFA but doesn't think it will get rid of the tumor

> entirely. It is 5 cm or was two months ago when the PET and MRI

were

> done. He recommends the resection as the surest way to get it all.

>

> I don't know what to think. A resection at 77 seems like an awful

> lot to go through. Our general surgeon says it is a debilitating

> surgery, and Mom has not been emotionally stable since the

> recurrence.

>

> Would it make any sense to have the RFA if the odds are not high

that

> it can be completely ablated? Any experience along this line?

>

> Sharon

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Sharon, this is a tough call and I really don't know what to tell

you. Most doctors are concerned with quality as well as quantity of

life, with quality being first. Perhaps you should speak with all

your mom's doctors to get the " big picture. " Have they considered

some chemo to shrink the tumor to where an RFA would be possible? Is

radiation still an option? My mom has lung cancer and can't be

operated. She is now 71 but when diagnosed was 69. She would have

opted for a complete resection if it had given her a chance at cure,

but alas, operating was not an option as they found a neck lymph

node...one lousy node...had cancer in it too. Her response to chemo

was that it shrunk the 3 cm tumor by over 60% and radiation burned

away the rest. I am not familiar with colon cancer met to the lungs

so perhaps on a met tumor, radiation is no longer on option, but it

couldn't hurt to ask.

Please bear in mind that after obtaining all the facts, the final

decision is ultimately your moms and whatever her decision is, be it

what you want to hear or maybe not want to hear, it must be

respected. I would proceed with talking with all of her doctors and

get a list going of all pros and cons and keep mom in the total loop

and take it from there.

Hugs,

Monika

> We just returned from UVA where Mom saw the radiologist. The good

> news is that it does appear to be only one met to the liver, but it

> is too large to allow for a clean enough margin to do an RFA. He

> will do an RFA but doesn't think it will get rid of the tumor

> entirely. It is 5 cm or was two months ago when the PET and MRI

were

> done. He recommends the resection as the surest way to get it all.

>

> I don't know what to think. A resection at 77 seems like an awful

> lot to go through. Our general surgeon says it is a debilitating

> surgery, and Mom has not been emotionally stable since the

> recurrence.

>

> Would it make any sense to have the RFA if the odds are not high

that

> it can be completely ablated? Any experience along this line?

>

> Sharon

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