Guest guest Posted December 29, 2004 Report Share Posted December 29, 2004 I just wanted to check in. I am not doing well OP right now, but, like I said, I am really focusing on my Jan. 1 restart. If I can get it going sooner, GREAT! But, I am not giving myself a hard time about it until Jan. 1. Things are not better or worse on the stbx front. He is still pushing all my buttons. My Grandma says I have to quit letting him see that he is getting too me. If he doesn't think he is getting to me, he will get bored. Sounds like a good idea. But, I think it is one of those things that is easier said than done! I have been talking to the guy I had the date with off and on. He has come over one other time, but there are no sparks there. I am just remaining friendly. It gives me someone to go out with from time to time as long as he doesn't expect too much. I am a bit afraid he does because he has expressed his insecurity about the amount of contact I have with my stbx and over a guy I dated recently that I am no longer seeing. I guess you could say some red flags have been raised for me. For New Year's Eve, I am going out with my co-worker (not going out with any man), and I plan to have fun just to have fun because it is a holiday! I hope the plan works out all right! How are you all doing? I hope everyone is having a wonderful holiday season! Shell 266/256/135 >^..^< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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