Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Layci, I read your post today and just wanted to tell you to hang in there. I know it's really hard but we really have to put all the stresses of life behind the priority of taking as much care of ourselves as possible. I am pg for the first time (only 4 wks) and all I know is that my ultrasound said I was BU. All I can do now is hope that everthing goes ok even though I know I am really in uncharted territory. My dh did something really stupid yesterday and I could have really gotten upset at him (of course I'm over-emotional right now too) but I told myself to remain calm as I didn't want so many negative vibes floating around inside me. I did let out my anger (much to my satisfaction) but didn't go overboard. It's really hard but when stressing situations come up with jobs, finances and material - try to remind yourself that these things are all replacable and really don't matter as much as the people around us and our health. Good for you for getting checked out right away. Take it easy on yourself and know you're not alone. We are all here for you. Sylvana 35 BU?SU? pg #1 4 wks > Hey guys, > > I just wanted to fill you all in on my little scare I had this > afternoon. I am a teacher and I have been stressing about finding a > permanent substitute to fill my position (it's my responsibility to > find one for some reason.) Anyway, it is going to be a hell of a > process for me to take off for 6 months for the cerclage and of > course I won't be getting paid or anything like that. Anyway, I had > called the lady who is in charge of " teacher leaves of absence " and > talked to her about my situation and the more she said the more > angry I became. Anyway, that's not the point. The point is, when I > left work today, I was really upset, crying, worried, the whole 9 > yards. I called my husband and my mom and told them what was going > on and both of them told me that I needed to chill out and quit > stressing so much because it wasn't good for the baby. So, it wasn't > 5 minutes after I get off the phone with them that I went to the > restroom. When I wiped, I noticed blood on the tissue. Not a whole > lot, but not a little either. It was bright red and I immediately > began to panic. I had no cramping or any signs that anything was > wrong. > Layci, 26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Layci, I read your post today and just wanted to tell you to hang in there. I know it's really hard but we really have to put all the stresses of life behind the priority of taking as much care of ourselves as possible. I am pg for the first time (only 4 wks) and all I know is that my ultrasound said I was BU. All I can do now is hope that everthing goes ok even though I know I am really in uncharted territory. My dh did something really stupid yesterday and I could have really gotten upset at him (of course I'm over-emotional right now too) but I told myself to remain calm as I didn't want so many negative vibes floating around inside me. I did let out my anger (much to my satisfaction) but didn't go overboard. It's really hard but when stressing situations come up with jobs, finances and material - try to remind yourself that these things are all replacable and really don't matter as much as the people around us and our health. Good for you for getting checked out right away. Take it easy on yourself and know you're not alone. We are all here for you. Sylvana 35 BU?SU? pg #1 4 wks > Hey guys, > > I just wanted to fill you all in on my little scare I had this > afternoon. I am a teacher and I have been stressing about finding a > permanent substitute to fill my position (it's my responsibility to > find one for some reason.) Anyway, it is going to be a hell of a > process for me to take off for 6 months for the cerclage and of > course I won't be getting paid or anything like that. Anyway, I had > called the lady who is in charge of " teacher leaves of absence " and > talked to her about my situation and the more she said the more > angry I became. Anyway, that's not the point. The point is, when I > left work today, I was really upset, crying, worried, the whole 9 > yards. I called my husband and my mom and told them what was going > on and both of them told me that I needed to chill out and quit > stressing so much because it wasn't good for the baby. So, it wasn't > 5 minutes after I get off the phone with them that I went to the > restroom. When I wiped, I noticed blood on the tissue. Not a whole > lot, but not a little either. It was bright red and I immediately > began to panic. I had no cramping or any signs that anything was > wrong. > Layci, 26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Layci, I read your post today and just wanted to tell you to hang in there. I know it's really hard but we really have to put all the stresses of life behind the priority of taking as much care of ourselves as possible. I am pg for the first time (only 4 wks) and all I know is that my ultrasound said I was BU. All I can do now is hope that everthing goes ok even though I know I am really in uncharted territory. My dh did something really stupid yesterday and I could have really gotten upset at him (of course I'm over-emotional right now too) but I told myself to remain calm as I didn't want so many negative vibes floating around inside me. I did let out my anger (much to my satisfaction) but didn't go overboard. It's really hard but when stressing situations come up with jobs, finances and material - try to remind yourself that these things are all replacable and really don't matter as much as the people around us and our health. Good for you for getting checked out right away. Take it easy on yourself and know you're not alone. We are all here for you. Sylvana 35 BU?SU? pg #1 4 wks > Hey guys, > > I just wanted to fill you all in on my little scare I had this > afternoon. I am a teacher and I have been stressing about finding a > permanent substitute to fill my position (it's my responsibility to > find one for some reason.) Anyway, it is going to be a hell of a > process for me to take off for 6 months for the cerclage and of > course I won't be getting paid or anything like that. Anyway, I had > called the lady who is in charge of " teacher leaves of absence " and > talked to her about my situation and the more she said the more > angry I became. Anyway, that's not the point. The point is, when I > left work today, I was really upset, crying, worried, the whole 9 > yards. I called my husband and my mom and told them what was going > on and both of them told me that I needed to chill out and quit > stressing so much because it wasn't good for the baby. So, it wasn't > 5 minutes after I get off the phone with them that I went to the > restroom. When I wiped, I noticed blood on the tissue. Not a whole > lot, but not a little either. It was bright red and I immediately > began to panic. I had no cramping or any signs that anything was > wrong. > Layci, 26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Aww Layci, sorry you had such a scare!!! I hope all is still well, and take it easy, find ways not to stress! I'm glad they were able to see you and make sure the babe is OK ... are you on antibiotics for the infection? hugs mikki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Aww Layci, sorry you had such a scare!!! I hope all is still well, and take it easy, find ways not to stress! I'm glad they were able to see you and make sure the babe is OK ... are you on antibiotics for the infection? hugs mikki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Aww Layci, sorry you had such a scare!!! I hope all is still well, and take it easy, find ways not to stress! I'm glad they were able to see you and make sure the babe is OK ... are you on antibiotics for the infection? hugs mikki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Lacyi that is quite a scare. I am sure now that you see a heart beat all will be great. Keep calm and happy. A job is never ever worth stressing over like that. Don't let some idiot jepordize the health of you baby! - Liz > >Reply-To: MullerianAnomalies >To: MullerianAnomalies >Subject: Had a scare today (pg ment) >Date: Sat, 28 Aug 2004 03:36:07 -0000 > _________________________________________________________________ Don’t just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Lacyi that is quite a scare. I am sure now that you see a heart beat all will be great. Keep calm and happy. A job is never ever worth stressing over like that. Don't let some idiot jepordize the health of you baby! - Liz > >Reply-To: MullerianAnomalies >To: MullerianAnomalies >Subject: Had a scare today (pg ment) >Date: Sat, 28 Aug 2004 03:36:07 -0000 > _________________________________________________________________ Don’t just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 28, 2004 Report Share Posted August 28, 2004 Lacyi that is quite a scare. I am sure now that you see a heart beat all will be great. Keep calm and happy. A job is never ever worth stressing over like that. Don't let some idiot jepordize the health of you baby! - Liz > >Reply-To: MullerianAnomalies >To: MullerianAnomalies >Subject: Had a scare today (pg ment) >Date: Sat, 28 Aug 2004 03:36:07 -0000 > _________________________________________________________________ Don’t just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 ---Layci, I am glad you are ok---I hope you can get your work situation resolved---how odd they make you get a replacement! I hope you can relax a little, think about that little one,a nd try to put the stress out of your mind! its not woprth it!!!! (easy for me to say on the de stress thing!~) J/ Bu 27w #2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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