Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Very well said Lucilla and I agree totally. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies sometime we have to fulfill our emotional needs in order to be able to face our major problems in our life--so could be that we are in need to share about what we are going trough in our life and our nightmares in order to gain back strenght to fight the cancer--I think this group can do that too...share about personal therapies, chemoes, radiation, hair loss, diets, ans also life challangies, and prayers, exortations....heartly love. 1 Corinthians 13 The roaches are to me the ones that just pretend to have cancer, or to deal with cancer, in order to get attention This people are miserable This is sick, and God forgive me for the obscenity I am going to say, but I wish they can get the cancer they are looking for-- this are my..."two cents"..? good day to all Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!Elaine Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Very well said Lucilla and I agree totally. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies sometime we have to fulfill our emotional needs in order to be able to face our major problems in our life--so could be that we are in need to share about what we are going trough in our life and our nightmares in order to gain back strenght to fight the cancer--I think this group can do that too...share about personal therapies, chemoes, radiation, hair loss, diets, ans also life challangies, and prayers, exortations....heartly love. 1 Corinthians 13 The roaches are to me the ones that just pretend to have cancer, or to deal with cancer, in order to get attention This people are miserable This is sick, and God forgive me for the obscenity I am going to say, but I wish they can get the cancer they are looking for-- this are my..."two cents"..? good day to all Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!Elaine Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 ....and I am TOTALLY INCENSED that you deleted my last message. If that's the way you're running things, deleting things you don't agree with, I may be in the wrong group. charles svihlik wrote: I TOTALLY disagree that this club has gone downhill. I have been in touch with Calvin the founder in the past few months and he said he is very pleased with the way things are going. As far as postings about things unreleated to bc I see nothing wrong with a member sharing their joys, sorrows etc. It will always be that way and not just a place to discuss bc. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at: http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html also check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at: http://www.cancerclub.com ----- Original Message ----- From: Nalbandian To: breastcancer2 Sent: Friday, July 22, 2005 10:30 AM Subject: Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala..... I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!! I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches. And that my opinion....for what its worth! Elaine Big In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote: > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it > is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 ....and I am TOTALLY INCENSED that you deleted my last message. If that's the way you're running things, deleting things you don't agree with, I may be in the wrong group. charles svihlik wrote: I TOTALLY disagree that this club has gone downhill. I have been in touch with Calvin the founder in the past few months and he said he is very pleased with the way things are going. As far as postings about things unreleated to bc I see nothing wrong with a member sharing their joys, sorrows etc. It will always be that way and not just a place to discuss bc. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at: http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html also check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at: http://www.cancerclub.com ----- Original Message ----- From: Nalbandian To: breastcancer2 Sent: Friday, July 22, 2005 10:30 AM Subject: Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala..... I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!! I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches. And that my opinion....for what its worth! Elaine Big In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote: > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it > is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 , I did NOT delete ANY mesasges. Where in the world did you get that idea??? Now I think this is enough. If you are not happy here then maybe you should leave. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 DITTO Nalbandian wrote: Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 DITTO Nalbandian wrote: Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I am sorry to hear that you too feel the group has gone downhill. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies DITTO Nalbandian wrote: Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I am sorry to hear that you too feel the group has gone downhill. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies DITTO Nalbandian wrote: Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 This is what I was Ditto' about and we do have al awful lot of the same thing over and over but I just deleat and go on... I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. charles svihlik wrote: I am sorry to hear that you too feel the group has gone downhill. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies DITTO Nalbandian wrote: Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 This is what I was Ditto' about and we do have al awful lot of the same thing over and over but I just deleat and go on... I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. charles svihlik wrote: I am sorry to hear that you too feel the group has gone downhill. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies DITTO Nalbandian wrote: Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 What started all this anyway...maybe I have missed something or it was one of those I deleated....I really don't know what is going on...just all of a sudden there is talk about deleation because some are not posting....can someone enlighten me as to what caused all this Nalbandian wrote: ....and I am TOTALLY INCENSED that you deleted my last message. If that's the way you're running things, deleting things you don't agree with, I may be in the wrong group.charles svihlik wrote: I TOTALLY disagree that this club has gone downhill. I have been in touch with Calvin the founder in the past few months and he said he is very pleased with the way things are going. As far as postings about things unreleated to bc I see nothing wrong with a member sharing their joys, sorrows etc. It will always be that way and not just a place to discuss bc. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 , Doris feels that Mike is not for real. She privately emailed a few of us and one member that NEVER posts and got her opinion and it just snowballed from there. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 , Doris feels that Mike is not for real. She privately emailed a few of us and one member that NEVER posts and got her opinion and it just snowballed from there. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 Hmm, I don't keep track of these e mail lists. It could be that he isn't or it could be that he is for real. So is this the real problem? How do you know if someone is for real or not? I don't think you do at first. I don't see any way that you can set this up so that fakers don't come in once in a while and pull a scam of sorts. If you did that, you would also end up blocking people that are for real and I don't think anyone wants to do that. If, as someone has suggested, this is not the first time that someone has come on and pulled this, it is really a drag but I would still think that people would initially give everyone the benefit of the doubt and treat them as if they were for real. I think it is the lesser of the 2 negatives to that rather than risk being really rough or mean and they really do need help. This type of thing is an inherit danger to a group like this. We cant see the person, hear their voice and etc. However, the purpose of the group is for people to "be there" for those who need it. Anyway, that is my 2 cents and just look, I have posted 3 times in 2 days, who would have think it? However, I will undoubtedly go back to my norm and only post once a great while. and delete practically everything I get from this group, and most of the other groups I am on for the simple reason that I don't have enough time to even read all the posts much less to respond to them Take care.Patty Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 Thank you Carly. Its great after the last few days with all the "digs" about the club going downhill to hear someone say they are happy to be here. I have done the best I can as cofounder of the group and they are my family. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest > form > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set > off > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. > nne > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means > I > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure > you > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > > really need support. > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > > is why it> > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 this group has been my sainity saver!!! praise the lord for sending me to this group!! i am easy going and if don't like something i read i just ignore it because i know marianne will take care of it for us. and here is my 2 cents, my opinion on the subjects. just because we don't just talk about bc doesn't mean we care less. bc is not our life!! we control our life and if the road is bumpy and we feel the need to vent about it, so be it. be it bc, childrend, husbands or life in general, all of this is rolled into the bundle when it pertains to our emotional health. and you must keep a good emotional balance to get through bc. ok this is just my opinion and btw, this is my 4th round with bc and have been fighting this dam dragon since i was 33 and now am 44. hugs and prayers from carol in michigancharles svihlik wrote: Thank you Carly. Its great after the last few days with all the "digs" about the club going downhill to hear someone say they are happy to be here. I have done the best I can as cofounder of the group and they are my family. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest > form > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set > off > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. > nne > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means > I > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure > you > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > > really need support. > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > > is why it> > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 Thank you Carol, my thoughs exactly. If we can't share things, vent, talk about our kids, thoughts etc. what good would the group be? Thank you also for having confidence in me to do my job as cofounder. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest > form > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set > off > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. > nne > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means > I > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure > you > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > > really need support. > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > > is why it> > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 your very welcome sistercharles svihlik wrote: Thank you Carol, my thoughs exactly. If we can't share things, vent, talk about our kids, thoughts etc. what good would the group be? Thank you also for having confidence in me to do my job as cofounder. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest > form > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set > off > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. > nne > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means > I > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure > you > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > > really need support. > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > > is why it> > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 nne...just continue to do what you are doing...this place is the best!!!!! Donnacharles svihlik wrote: Thank you Carol, my thoughs exactly. If we can't share things, vent, talk about our kids, thoughts etc. what good would the group be? Thank you also for having confidence in me to do my job as cofounder. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest > form > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set > off > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. > nne > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means > I > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure > you > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > > really need support. > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > > is why it> > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 Thank you Donna, I appreciate you saying that. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest > form > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set > off > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. > nne > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means > I > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure > you > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > > really need support. > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > > is why it> > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 nne - I just wanted to pop in and let you know that I am here. I haven't been posting much becuase of all the craziness at home. BUT i am definitely reading all the posts and praying where I can. My mom is doing quite well post surgery for BC and it will be 2 years in November. I enjoy being able to post when I can and even though I am a relative of a bc survivor I have always felt this is a family and it is that family that has helped me navigate all the worried of being a family member of someone with bc. BTW - we are movng in 73 days now and has said he wants to do the bc walk/run down in Nevada where we are moving to. Also, if I may.......i'd like to brag a bit. I have been going to TOPS and have now lost 93.25 lb since 25 May 2004. Having this group to vent to about my concerns about my mom has allowed me to focus on taking care of myself. hugs..........judith (aka ladybug) > Thank you Carol, my thoughs exactly. If we can't share things, vent, talk > about our kids, thoughts etc. what good would the group be? > Thank you also for having confidence in me to do my job as cofounder. > Hugs > nne > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html > > Check out my breast cancer ornaments at: > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html > also check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at: > http://www.cancerclub.com > Re: One of the Oldies > > I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine > how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a > member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm > doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel > that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I > was in surgery, were with me in the operating room. > > THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP! > > > > > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send > for me > > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time > and find > > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in > digest > > form > > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some > who set > > off > > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about > them. > > nne > > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by > all means > > I > > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last > year to > > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I > posted here > > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some > people who > > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is > one that I > > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. > I'm sure > > you > > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that > need and > > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others > who > > > really need support. > > > > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > > > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is > a " Gift " That > > > is why it > > > is called the " Present " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 nne - I just wanted to pop in and let you know that I am here. I haven't been posting much becuase of all the craziness at home. BUT i am definitely reading all the posts and praying where I can. My mom is doing quite well post surgery for BC and it will be 2 years in November. I enjoy being able to post when I can and even though I am a relative of a bc survivor I have always felt this is a family and it is that family that has helped me navigate all the worried of being a family member of someone with bc. BTW - we are movng in 73 days now and has said he wants to do the bc walk/run down in Nevada where we are moving to. Also, if I may.......i'd like to brag a bit. I have been going to TOPS and have now lost 93.25 lb since 25 May 2004. Having this group to vent to about my concerns about my mom has allowed me to focus on taking care of myself. hugs..........judith (aka ladybug) > Thank you Carol, my thoughs exactly. If we can't share things, vent, talk > about our kids, thoughts etc. what good would the group be? > Thank you also for having confidence in me to do my job as cofounder. > Hugs > nne > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html > > Check out my breast cancer ornaments at: > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html > also check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at: > http://www.cancerclub.com > Re: One of the Oldies > > I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine > how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a > member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm > doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel > that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I > was in surgery, were with me in the operating room. > > THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP! > > > > > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send > for me > > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time > and find > > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in > digest > > form > > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some > who set > > off > > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about > them. > > nne > > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by > all means > > I > > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last > year to > > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I > posted here > > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some > people who > > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is > one that I > > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. > I'm sure > > you > > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that > need and > > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others > who > > > really need support. > > > > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > > > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is > a " Gift " That > > > is why it > > > is called the " Present " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 Hi Judith, good to hear from you. I am glad your Mother is doing well. Two years is great. I can remember you talking about her surgery in the crochet group. I also remember when your days to move where in the 3 digit numbers. I bet you are getting really excited. Please tell I think its great he is going to do the Komen Race. Geez you sure have lost a lot of weight. Mine is coming off VERY slowly and all this tension is making me more hungry than normal. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies> > I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine > how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a > member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm > doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel > that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I > was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.> > THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > > > > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send > for me > > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time > and find > > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in > digest > > form > > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some > who set > > off > > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about > them. > > nne > > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by > all means > > I > > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last > year to > > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I > posted here > > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some > people who > > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is > one that I > > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. > I'm sure > > you > > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that > need and > > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others > who > > > really need support. > > > > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is > a "Gift" That > > > is why it> > > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2005 Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 Hi Judith, good to hear from you. I am glad your Mother is doing well. Two years is great. I can remember you talking about her surgery in the crochet group. I also remember when your days to move where in the 3 digit numbers. I bet you are getting really excited. Please tell I think its great he is going to do the Komen Race. Geez you sure have lost a lot of weight. Mine is coming off VERY slowly and all this tension is making me more hungry than normal. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies> > I just have to say if this group has gone downhill -- I can't imagine > how 'great' it must have been before -- because I've only been a > member a few months, but I feel that part of the reason that I'm > doing okay and holding onto my sanity is this group. I also feel > that the people who promised to think of me or pray for me while I > was in surgery, were with me in the operating room.> > THANK YOU FOR THIS GROUP!> > > > > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send > for me > > > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time > and find > > > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in > digest > > form > > > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some > who set > > off > > > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about > them. > > nne > > > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by > all means > > I > > > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last > year to > > > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I > posted here > > > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some > people who > > > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is > one that I > > > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. > I'm sure > > you > > > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that > need and > > > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others > who > > > really need support. > > > > > > > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > > > > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is > a "Gift" That > > > is why it> > > is called the "Present"> > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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