Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala..... I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!! I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches. And that my opinion....for what its worth! Elaine Big In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote: > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it > is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala..... I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!! I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches. And that my opinion....for what its worth! Elaine Big In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote: > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it > is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala..... I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!! I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches. And that my opinion....for what its worth! Elaine Big In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote: > I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^ > > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it > is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 le, I think you would have to understand how hurt some of us were a few months ago by someone that shouldn't have been here and used us and our emotions. I'm sure that all this talk is just bringing back those bad memories. Please try to understand that. This to will pass as it has before. I think it is admiral of you to be doing the research for your mom. It is so overwhelming when first dx. and trying to understand everything at once is overwhelming. It has been 10 years since my diagnosis and actually today is 10 years since my mastectomy. I will never forget the fear I had. I didn't belong to this group right away and the first group I joined wasn't this one. SharonBle wrote: Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 le, I think you would have to understand how hurt some of us were a few months ago by someone that shouldn't have been here and used us and our emotions. I'm sure that all this talk is just bringing back those bad memories. Please try to understand that. This to will pass as it has before. I think it is admiral of you to be doing the research for your mom. It is so overwhelming when first dx. and trying to understand everything at once is overwhelming. It has been 10 years since my diagnosis and actually today is 10 years since my mastectomy. I will never forget the fear I had. I didn't belong to this group right away and the first group I joined wasn't this one. SharonBle wrote: Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 le, I think you would have to understand how hurt some of us were a few months ago by someone that shouldn't have been here and used us and our emotions. I'm sure that all this talk is just bringing back those bad memories. Please try to understand that. This to will pass as it has before. I think it is admiral of you to be doing the research for your mom. It is so overwhelming when first dx. and trying to understand everything at once is overwhelming. It has been 10 years since my diagnosis and actually today is 10 years since my mastectomy. I will never forget the fear I had. I didn't belong to this group right away and the first group I joined wasn't this one. SharonBle wrote: Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I TOTALLY disagree that this club has gone downhill. I have been in touch with Calvin the founder in the past few months and he said he is very pleased with the way things are going. As far as postings about things unreleated to bc I see nothing wrong with a member sharing their joys, sorrows etc. It will always be that way and not just a place to discuss bc. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I TOTALLY disagree that this club has gone downhill. I have been in touch with Calvin the founder in the past few months and he said he is very pleased with the way things are going. As far as postings about things unreleated to bc I see nothing wrong with a member sharing their joys, sorrows etc. It will always be that way and not just a place to discuss bc. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I TOTALLY disagree that this club has gone downhill. I have been in touch with Calvin the founder in the past few months and he said he is very pleased with the way things are going. As far as postings about things unreleated to bc I see nothing wrong with a member sharing their joys, sorrows etc. It will always be that way and not just a place to discuss bc. nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Elaine, I agree wholeheartedly with most of what you said. However, I encourage newbies to lurk until they feel comfortable or have something worthwhile to contribute, hopefully concerning BC. I know I was in total shock when I was first searching for information 6 years ago and this group was a life-saver, even though I rarely posted. Of course, we did have regular chat nights back then and I could ask my questions there. I really think the group has gone downhill in the last few years....too many postings totally unrelated to the subject, and too many just saying the same thing over and over and over and over..... Hugs, . Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 You didn't beat me by much. You joined 9/98 and I joined 1/99. A short time after that Calvin chose me to be his coufounder and it is a job I take very very seriously. Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 You didn't beat me by much. You joined 9/98 and I joined 1/99. A short time after that Calvin chose me to be his coufounder and it is a job I take very very seriously. Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 le, I am not talking about you or others that post often or on occasion but am talking about those that join and never post. You are most welcome here and so is your Mom and feel free to discuss other things/feeling/ happenings other than just bc. Hugs nne. Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 le, I am not talking about you or others that post often or on occasion but am talking about those that join and never post. You are most welcome here and so is your Mom and feel free to discuss other things/feeling/ happenings other than just bc. Hugs nne. Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I can MOST CERTAINLY understand the hurt you guys have been through. I belong to other groups for my own personal reasons and the same things happen to most of them as well. Its much easier said then done, but sometimes, you have to just try to ignore those type of people, but to generalize that belief on all new people just isnt right. Thank you. Like Ive said before, my mom's in pure denial right now. She doesnt even have a computer at home anyway, but I sincerely think that if she did, she would be the one here and not me. Congrats on your 10th anniversary. I cant even imagine saying that about my mom 10 years from now, but I know it will be here :)Sharon wrote: le, I think you would have to understand how hurt some of us were a few months ago by someone that shouldn't have been here and used us and our emotions. I'm sure that all this talk is just bringing back those bad memories. Please try to understand that. This to will pass as it has before. I think it is admiral of you to be doing the research for your mom. It is so overwhelming when first dx. and trying to understand everything at once is overwhelming. It has been 10 years since my diagnosis and actually today is 10 years since my mastectomy. I will never forget the fear I had. I didn't belong to this group right away and the first group I joined wasn't this one. SharonBle wrote: Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I can MOST CERTAINLY understand the hurt you guys have been through. I belong to other groups for my own personal reasons and the same things happen to most of them as well. Its much easier said then done, but sometimes, you have to just try to ignore those type of people, but to generalize that belief on all new people just isnt right. Thank you. Like Ive said before, my mom's in pure denial right now. She doesnt even have a computer at home anyway, but I sincerely think that if she did, she would be the one here and not me. Congrats on your 10th anniversary. I cant even imagine saying that about my mom 10 years from now, but I know it will be here :)Sharon wrote: le, I think you would have to understand how hurt some of us were a few months ago by someone that shouldn't have been here and used us and our emotions. I'm sure that all this talk is just bringing back those bad memories. Please try to understand that. This to will pass as it has before. I think it is admiral of you to be doing the research for your mom. It is so overwhelming when first dx. and trying to understand everything at once is overwhelming. It has been 10 years since my diagnosis and actually today is 10 years since my mastectomy. I will never forget the fear I had. I didn't belong to this group right away and the first group I joined wasn't this one. SharonBle wrote: Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I can MOST CERTAINLY understand the hurt you guys have been through. I belong to other groups for my own personal reasons and the same things happen to most of them as well. Its much easier said then done, but sometimes, you have to just try to ignore those type of people, but to generalize that belief on all new people just isnt right. Thank you. Like Ive said before, my mom's in pure denial right now. She doesnt even have a computer at home anyway, but I sincerely think that if she did, she would be the one here and not me. Congrats on your 10th anniversary. I cant even imagine saying that about my mom 10 years from now, but I know it will be here :)Sharon wrote: le, I think you would have to understand how hurt some of us were a few months ago by someone that shouldn't have been here and used us and our emotions. I'm sure that all this talk is just bringing back those bad memories. Please try to understand that. This to will pass as it has before. I think it is admiral of you to be doing the research for your mom. It is so overwhelming when first dx. and trying to understand everything at once is overwhelming. It has been 10 years since my diagnosis and actually today is 10 years since my mastectomy. I will never forget the fear I had. I didn't belong to this group right away and the first group I joined wasn't this one. SharonBle wrote: Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Ok!!!!!! Enough is enough already! ANYONE who is a member and wants to post about their other feelings/problems/concerns/family etc are WELCOME to do so. This IS America!! They are NOT roaches, period, AMEN!!!!!! nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Ok!!!!!! Enough is enough already! ANYONE who is a member and wants to post about their other feelings/problems/concerns/family etc are WELCOME to do so. This IS America!! They are NOT roaches, period, AMEN!!!!!! nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: One of the Oldies ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I know, nne. I wasnt talking about what you said hun. I was referring to Elaines post. Thank you. :)charles svihlik wrote: le, I am not talking about you or others that post often or on occasion but am talking about those that join and never post. You are most welcome here and so is your Mom and feel free to discuss other things/feeling/ happenings other than just bc. Hugs nne. Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 I know, nne. I wasnt talking about what you said hun. I was referring to Elaines post. Thank you. :)charles svihlik wrote: le, I am not talking about you or others that post often or on occasion but am talking about those that join and never post. You are most welcome here and so is your Mom and feel free to discuss other things/feeling/ happenings other than just bc. Hugs nne. Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com Re: Re: One of the Oldies Geesh. What kind of "support" Group is this? I post here because my mom has breast cancer and will be going through chemo soon. So, Im going to take that as not about me, however, maybe some people post here about their problems other than breast cancer because it IS a very welcoming group. Maybe other groups regarding their condition aren't as easy on them. I don't know, but to call those people roaches, in my opinion, is quite harsh. Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!ElaineBig In breastcancer2 , "Yolanda" <lalacharley@a...> wrote:> I have been a member since 2000. This place was a God send for me > during treatment. I have since gone back to work full time and find > it hard to keep up with the clubs. I do get this club in digest form > and do read. I have sat back and read many post from some who set off > red flags for me. But I have not voiced opinions about them. nne > I'm sorry you feel this way. If you want to delete me by all means I > will understand since I don't post often. I came back last year to > try to fit in again. But found it hard. The last time I posted here > there was a lot of friction going on about God and some people who > had questionable motives for joining this club. There is one that I > have been watching lately that I really feel is a ROACH. I'm sure you > know who I mean. Sending Prayers and Angels to all that need and > deserve them. It saddens me that some people pray on others who > really need support. > > > (((BIG HUG))) ~Lala~ ^^Å^^ ^^å^^> > Yesterday is the past Tomorrow is the future Today is a "Gift" That > is why it> is called the "Present" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 sometime we have to fulfill our emotional needs in order to be able to face our major problems in our life--so could be that we are in need to share about what we are going trough in our life and our nightmares in order to gain back strenght to fight the cancer--I think this group can do that too...share about personal therapies, chemoes, radiation, hair loss, diets, ans also life challangies, and prayers, exortations....heartly love. 1 Corinthians 13 The roaches are to me the ones that just pretend to have cancer, or to deal with cancer, in order to get attention This people are miserable This is sick, and God forgive me for the obscenity I am going to say, but I wish they can get the cancer they are looking for-- this are my..."two cents"..? good day to all Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!Elaine Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 sometime we have to fulfill our emotional needs in order to be able to face our major problems in our life--so could be that we are in need to share about what we are going trough in our life and our nightmares in order to gain back strenght to fight the cancer--I think this group can do that too...share about personal therapies, chemoes, radiation, hair loss, diets, ans also life challangies, and prayers, exortations....heartly love. 1 Corinthians 13 The roaches are to me the ones that just pretend to have cancer, or to deal with cancer, in order to get attention This people are miserable This is sick, and God forgive me for the obscenity I am going to say, but I wish they can get the cancer they are looking for-- this are my..."two cents"..? good day to all Elaine wrote: ---Big Hugs, Lala.....I'm with you! For those who do not know me...I am an 8 year survivor of bc, and one of the original members of this group.....yep, even before nne!!!!I read every post.....I only respond if I have something to say. I work full time,(all 8 hours on a computer, sometimes by the end of the day I am "computered out!) babysit for my grands, my husband is still recovering from major surgery, and I have been fighting depression....so I do not post often, but I am involved with a sister group, and stay in touch as much as I can. I am sorry if anyone feels that I am unworthy of continued membership in this group. The only other thing I heve to say is that it isn't the older members who may feel that they have outgrown the need for this group, nor is it the lurkers who feel uncomfortable talking about themselves,that are the problem, but the new ones who join and post alot, generally about all their personal problems that have nothing to do with BC that are the roaches.And that my opinion....for what its worth!Elaine Start your day with Yahoo! - make it your home page Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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