Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, Sweetie... You, and your sweet, precious baby will be in my prayers. I know that no matter how much you psyche yourself up for the possibility of a abnormal result, it still has to hit you like a ton of bricks. Just know that the odds of it coming back the way they did are so high because you happen to be over 35... my girlfriend in Florida is 36 too and had her AFP come back funky... she opted for the amnio and everything turned out fine. I'm praying for you three... Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, Sweetie... You, and your sweet, precious baby will be in my prayers. I know that no matter how much you psyche yourself up for the possibility of a abnormal result, it still has to hit you like a ton of bricks. Just know that the odds of it coming back the way they did are so high because you happen to be over 35... my girlfriend in Florida is 36 too and had her AFP come back funky... she opted for the amnio and everything turned out fine. I'm praying for you three... Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, Sweetie... You, and your sweet, precious baby will be in my prayers. I know that no matter how much you psyche yourself up for the possibility of a abnormal result, it still has to hit you like a ton of bricks. Just know that the odds of it coming back the way they did are so high because you happen to be over 35... my girlfriend in Florida is 36 too and had her AFP come back funky... she opted for the amnio and everything turned out fine. I'm praying for you three... Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Jo-ann, A high resolution ultrasound...is that the level II u/s I have been hearing about? He didn't offer it, only amnio. Maybe I should call him and ask. What do you think?? Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Jo-ann, A high resolution ultrasound...is that the level II u/s I have been hearing about? He didn't offer it, only amnio. Maybe I should call him and ask. What do you think?? Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Jo-ann, A high resolution ultrasound...is that the level II u/s I have been hearing about? He didn't offer it, only amnio. Maybe I should call him and ask. What do you think?? Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, Ok sweetie, don't panic! Has your dr talked to you about the possibility that it's a fault positive? That's exactly what happened with Casey, I was 33 at the time. I know the thought of an amnio is scary, but if it will give you peace of mind, then maybe you should reconsider it. I know when I got the results back I had to know for sure. If you do decide on an amnio just make sure you get an expert in the field. You are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie. But please don't assume the worse, I know how you feel. I remember getting back bad results, I cried all the way home and for days after. There is a very good possibility it a false negative. Keep your chin up sweetie! Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, Ok sweetie, don't panic! Has your dr talked to you about the possibility that it's a fault positive? That's exactly what happened with Casey, I was 33 at the time. I know the thought of an amnio is scary, but if it will give you peace of mind, then maybe you should reconsider it. I know when I got the results back I had to know for sure. If you do decide on an amnio just make sure you get an expert in the field. You are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie. But please don't assume the worse, I know how you feel. I remember getting back bad results, I cried all the way home and for days after. There is a very good possibility it a false negative. Keep your chin up sweetie! Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, Ok sweetie, don't panic! Has your dr talked to you about the possibility that it's a fault positive? That's exactly what happened with Casey, I was 33 at the time. I know the thought of an amnio is scary, but if it will give you peace of mind, then maybe you should reconsider it. I know when I got the results back I had to know for sure. If you do decide on an amnio just make sure you get an expert in the field. You are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie. But please don't assume the worse, I know how you feel. I remember getting back bad results, I cried all the way home and for days after. There is a very good possibility it a false negative. Keep your chin up sweetie! Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, They can also do a high resolution u/s now. Has your dr spoke to you about that possibility? Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, They can also do a high resolution u/s now. Has your dr spoke to you about that possibility? Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, One more thing (for now)! An amnio really isn't that bad. I thought it would be horrible and painful, but it really wasn't. I'm not saying run out and get an amnio, but I'm just trying to alleviate your fear that it's painful. Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, One more thing (for now)! An amnio really isn't that bad. I thought it would be horrible and painful, but it really wasn't. I'm not saying run out and get an amnio, but I'm just trying to alleviate your fear that it's painful. Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, One more thing (for now)! An amnio really isn't that bad. I thought it would be horrible and painful, but it really wasn't. I'm not saying run out and get an amnio, but I'm just trying to alleviate your fear that it's painful. Love & hugs, Jo-Ann Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, I can only imagine how frightened you must be... both times I had this test I was paranoid until the day I was told all was fine. Does the dr give you the odds or whatever or will that be something to be talked about when you go in? I hope you know that whatever you choose to do regarding the amnio that we will all be here to support your decision. ((((HUGS)))) Amy 20w 6d Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, I can only imagine how frightened you must be... both times I had this test I was paranoid until the day I was told all was fine. Does the dr give you the odds or whatever or will that be something to be talked about when you go in? I hope you know that whatever you choose to do regarding the amnio that we will all be here to support your decision. ((((HUGS)))) Amy 20w 6d Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, I can only imagine how frightened you must be... both times I had this test I was paranoid until the day I was told all was fine. Does the dr give you the odds or whatever or will that be something to be talked about when you go in? I hope you know that whatever you choose to do regarding the amnio that we will all be here to support your decision. ((((HUGS)))) Amy 20w 6d Triple Screen Results - not the greatest news Hey all, OK for the first time since I found out we were pg I am completely bummed. I have been crying for about the last 3 hours and I am not sure how to get through this. OK, let me start at the beginning. I had my Triple Screen Test last Wednesday, and my doctor called me today to say that the test was negative for neural tube defects, but did show an elevated risk for Down's Syndrome. Now I know he told me before I took the test that since I was 36, that the equation used to figure my results would skew it, and I was prepared (or so I thought) to handle this. Now I am not so sure. I was dead set against Amnio before the test, and even this morning when my OB offered it I still said no. I wasn't prepared at all for this possibility and I am afraid that now I am going to be completely obsessed with the idea the baby has Down's and not be able to enjoy this pg anymore. I can't believe this has thrown my whole world upside down. Please pray our little one will be healthy. Dana 16 weeks 6 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, I would definitely ask for a level II u/s before you decide whether you want to go thru with an amnio. This is a very difficult decision sweetie, but you can't go through the rest of this pg thinking and worrying that something is wrong. I know lots of woman that the triple screen came back high and it turned out everything was just fine, myself included! You need peace of mind or you will be a wreck by the end of the pg. You know whatever you decide sweetie, we will support you sweetie! Love & hugs, Jo-Ann > Jo-ann, > > A high resolution ultrasound...is that the level II u/s I have been hearing > about? He didn't offer it, only amnio. Maybe I should call him and ask. What > do you think?? > > Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, I would definitely ask for a level II u/s before you decide whether you want to go thru with an amnio. This is a very difficult decision sweetie, but you can't go through the rest of this pg thinking and worrying that something is wrong. I know lots of woman that the triple screen came back high and it turned out everything was just fine, myself included! You need peace of mind or you will be a wreck by the end of the pg. You know whatever you decide sweetie, we will support you sweetie! Love & hugs, Jo-Ann > Jo-ann, > > A high resolution ultrasound...is that the level II u/s I have been hearing > about? He didn't offer it, only amnio. Maybe I should call him and ask. What > do you think?? > > Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Dana, I would definitely ask for a level II u/s before you decide whether you want to go thru with an amnio. This is a very difficult decision sweetie, but you can't go through the rest of this pg thinking and worrying that something is wrong. I know lots of woman that the triple screen came back high and it turned out everything was just fine, myself included! You need peace of mind or you will be a wreck by the end of the pg. You know whatever you decide sweetie, we will support you sweetie! Love & hugs, Jo-Ann > Jo-ann, > > A high resolution ultrasound...is that the level II u/s I have been hearing > about? He didn't offer it, only amnio. Maybe I should call him and ask. What > do you think?? > > Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2001 Report Share Posted June 28, 2001 Dana I am sorry to hear about your test results. I know its hard not to worry. My dr office told me that before doing amnio they would do the 3d u/s and some genetic testing. Maybe you should ask your dr about doing this. It might help to ease your mind a little. I'll be praying for you, and your little belly bean. Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2001 Report Share Posted June 28, 2001 Dana I am sorry to hear about your test results. I know its hard not to worry. My dr office told me that before doing amnio they would do the 3d u/s and some genetic testing. Maybe you should ask your dr about doing this. It might help to ease your mind a little. I'll be praying for you, and your little belly bean. Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2001 Report Share Posted June 28, 2001 Oh, Dana I am so sorry you did get wonderful news from the Triple Screen, but try not to let it consume you if possible. Just because it shows an elevated risk doesn't mean that the baby will necessarily have Down's and sometimes the tests even give inaccurate readings...thus causing you to worry needlessly. Try your hardest to think positive thoughts, knowing that even if the worst were to happen, you would still love this child just as much. I'm sure it is really difficult to get results like that and not know for sure one way or the other, but try not to let it eat you up inside and ruin this wonderful experience of carrying another living person inside of you. I will keep you, and the baby in my prayers. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2001 Report Share Posted June 28, 2001 Oh, Dana I am so sorry you did get wonderful news from the Triple Screen, but try not to let it consume you if possible. Just because it shows an elevated risk doesn't mean that the baby will necessarily have Down's and sometimes the tests even give inaccurate readings...thus causing you to worry needlessly. Try your hardest to think positive thoughts, knowing that even if the worst were to happen, you would still love this child just as much. I'm sure it is really difficult to get results like that and not know for sure one way or the other, but try not to let it eat you up inside and ruin this wonderful experience of carrying another living person inside of you. I will keep you, and the baby in my prayers. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2001 Report Share Posted June 28, 2001 Oh, Dana I am so sorry you did get wonderful news from the Triple Screen, but try not to let it consume you if possible. Just because it shows an elevated risk doesn't mean that the baby will necessarily have Down's and sometimes the tests even give inaccurate readings...thus causing you to worry needlessly. Try your hardest to think positive thoughts, knowing that even if the worst were to happen, you would still love this child just as much. I'm sure it is really difficult to get results like that and not know for sure one way or the other, but try not to let it eat you up inside and ruin this wonderful experience of carrying another living person inside of you. I will keep you, and the baby in my prayers. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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