Guest guest Posted February 27, 2001 Report Share Posted February 27, 2001 What part of Washington are you in? I'm in Spokane! Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2001 Report Share Posted February 27, 2001 What part of Washington are you in? I'm in Spokane! Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted February 28, 2001 Report Share Posted February 28, 2001 I'm just across the border from Portland, Oregon in Vancouver, WA. Maggie > What part of Washington are you in? I'm in Spokane! > Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2001 Report Share Posted February 28, 2001 I'm just across the border from Portland, Oregon in Vancouver, WA. Maggie > What part of Washington are you in? I'm in Spokane! > Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2001 Report Share Posted February 28, 2001 I'm just across the border from Portland, Oregon in Vancouver, WA. Maggie > What part of Washington are you in? I'm in Spokane! > Carolyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2001 Report Share Posted March 11, 2001 Sharon I am sorry to hear that. I was hoping he would understand. He is the one marrying you and he should respect you and your feelings. Wish I could give you some advice to help you out. It is a tough situation. --- sns0518@... wrote: > I am so agitated at this whole thing. His brother > knows how I feel about this > and so does he but it doesn't matter. He will do > whatever his brother wants > to do which shows me no backbone on his part. I > wouldn't disrespect him like > that. So basically he is telling me that it is okay > for me to go get felt-up > by another guy the nioght before my wedding. I > think it is disrespecting a > relationship and I don't know what else t do. He > won't change his mind as > long as his brother wants it. > > Sharon > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2001 Report Share Posted March 11, 2001 Sharon I am sorry to hear that. I was hoping he would understand. He is the one marrying you and he should respect you and your feelings. Wish I could give you some advice to help you out. It is a tough situation. --- sns0518@... wrote: > I am so agitated at this whole thing. His brother > knows how I feel about this > and so does he but it doesn't matter. He will do > whatever his brother wants > to do which shows me no backbone on his part. I > wouldn't disrespect him like > that. So basically he is telling me that it is okay > for me to go get felt-up > by another guy the nioght before my wedding. I > think it is disrespecting a > relationship and I don't know what else t do. He > won't change his mind as > long as his brother wants it. > > Sharon > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2001 Report Share Posted March 12, 2001 Maggie, I really try to hard to stay positive about this whole process, but sometimes the fears about it never working just overwhelm me. Thank God I have such a supportive partner. But all in all I believe in the very deepest part of my heart that I am meant to be a mommy and I KNOW it's going to happen, it's the when part I am not to clear about. All things happen when they are meant to, so I all I can do is wait. But I did feel better after a long cry!! Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2001 Report Share Posted March 12, 2001 Maggie, I really try to hard to stay positive about this whole process, but sometimes the fears about it never working just overwhelm me. Thank God I have such a supportive partner. But all in all I believe in the very deepest part of my heart that I am meant to be a mommy and I KNOW it's going to happen, it's the when part I am not to clear about. All things happen when they are meant to, so I all I can do is wait. But I did feel better after a long cry!! Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2001 Report Share Posted March 21, 2001 Hi Maggie, I had one really bad day, a sort of lousy day, and today I feel back to normal. I guess I just need to play this one out, I'm sure I'll have bad days again but hopefully next time, I'll realize what is going on and just let it flow...unlike this time where I felt as though someone wacked me with a baseball bat...and so it goes...LOVE KJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2001 Report Share Posted March 21, 2001 Hi Maggie, I had one really bad day, a sort of lousy day, and today I feel back to normal. I guess I just need to play this one out, I'm sure I'll have bad days again but hopefully next time, I'll realize what is going on and just let it flow...unlike this time where I felt as though someone wacked me with a baseball bat...and so it goes...LOVE KJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2001 Report Share Posted March 28, 2001 Maggie Hello. I am glad you are happy to be out of there. It is so hard to go to a place everyday that you really don't want to be at. I can't believe they were upset that you had to take time off, like you went on a long vacation or something! I don't get it, why is it hard for people to understand we have suffered a loss?! I know it's hard being the new kid on the block, but I am sure you'll fit right in. (good luck) Yeah, I still feel like I am in some kind of " funk " I don't know, maybe once I get hsg I will feel better. I just need to keep busy, too much time to think sometimes. Thanks. --- mags wrote: > , > > I am so glad to be out of the old job! Everytime I > think about how nasty > they were to me when I had my ep and was off for so > long, I get even happier > to be gone. Of course it's weird to be in a new job > where no one " knows, " > but I'll take that over the lingering resentment > over my absence. I started > unofficially going into the new job 2 weeks ago for > an hour each morning > before my other job, and had my first full day > yesterday (Monday). It's > always tough learning the ropes, but I am enjoying > the challenge. Thank you > for asking. > > I am sorry that you had a yucky day, and I hope you > are feeling better. > > Maggie > On a brighter note, I sure am glad you are done > with > job. Have you started new job yet? > Take care. ((hug)) > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2001 Report Share Posted March 28, 2001 Maggie Hello. I am glad you are happy to be out of there. It is so hard to go to a place everyday that you really don't want to be at. I can't believe they were upset that you had to take time off, like you went on a long vacation or something! I don't get it, why is it hard for people to understand we have suffered a loss?! I know it's hard being the new kid on the block, but I am sure you'll fit right in. (good luck) Yeah, I still feel like I am in some kind of " funk " I don't know, maybe once I get hsg I will feel better. I just need to keep busy, too much time to think sometimes. Thanks. --- mags wrote: > , > > I am so glad to be out of the old job! Everytime I > think about how nasty > they were to me when I had my ep and was off for so > long, I get even happier > to be gone. Of course it's weird to be in a new job > where no one " knows, " > but I'll take that over the lingering resentment > over my absence. I started > unofficially going into the new job 2 weeks ago for > an hour each morning > before my other job, and had my first full day > yesterday (Monday). It's > always tough learning the ropes, but I am enjoying > the challenge. Thank you > for asking. > > I am sorry that you had a yucky day, and I hope you > are feeling better. > > Maggie > On a brighter note, I sure am glad you are done > with > job. Have you started new job yet? > Take care. ((hug)) > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2001 Report Share Posted March 28, 2001 Maggie Hello. I am glad you are happy to be out of there. It is so hard to go to a place everyday that you really don't want to be at. I can't believe they were upset that you had to take time off, like you went on a long vacation or something! I don't get it, why is it hard for people to understand we have suffered a loss?! I know it's hard being the new kid on the block, but I am sure you'll fit right in. (good luck) Yeah, I still feel like I am in some kind of " funk " I don't know, maybe once I get hsg I will feel better. I just need to keep busy, too much time to think sometimes. Thanks. --- mags wrote: > , > > I am so glad to be out of the old job! Everytime I > think about how nasty > they were to me when I had my ep and was off for so > long, I get even happier > to be gone. Of course it's weird to be in a new job > where no one " knows, " > but I'll take that over the lingering resentment > over my absence. I started > unofficially going into the new job 2 weeks ago for > an hour each morning > before my other job, and had my first full day > yesterday (Monday). It's > always tough learning the ropes, but I am enjoying > the challenge. Thank you > for asking. > > I am sorry that you had a yucky day, and I hope you > are feeling better. > > Maggie > On a brighter note, I sure am glad you are done > with > job. Have you started new job yet? > Take care. ((hug)) > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2001 Report Share Posted April 1, 2001 Maggie, I am praying for you for whatever you decide to do , ttc or not... I'll talk to you when I get back from Arizona!! Have a great week!! lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2001 Report Share Posted April 1, 2001 Maggie, I am praying for you for whatever you decide to do , ttc or not... I'll talk to you when I get back from Arizona!! Have a great week!! lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2001 Report Share Posted April 1, 2001 Maggie Thank you so much. (I know when you get behind it takes some time to catch up) I hope you are doing good and you have a great week! --- mags wrote: > , > > Just me still catching up. Sorry the radiologist > wasn't friendly...that > always makes medical stuff even more fun, but I am > glad to hear that they > said your tube looks good, since that's what really > counts. > > Maggie > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2001 Report Share Posted April 1, 2001 Maggie Thank you so much. (I know when you get behind it takes some time to catch up) I hope you are doing good and you have a great week! --- mags wrote: > , > > Just me still catching up. Sorry the radiologist > wasn't friendly...that > always makes medical stuff even more fun, but I am > glad to hear that they > said your tube looks good, since that's what really > counts. > > Maggie > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Hi Maggie, I know--I can't believe it's been about 1 1/2 years since dh and I started ttc. I've had a lot happen in that 1 1/2 years--but good things are on the horizon. I don't know about you, but as I get older, time is just flying--not only with the ep, but with other things as well. I can't believe how long ago I graduated high school and college--and how long I've been in the workforce. I was one the first of my group of friends to get married, and now they all have kids. Scary thoughts! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Hi Maggie, I know--I can't believe it's been about 1 1/2 years since dh and I started ttc. I've had a lot happen in that 1 1/2 years--but good things are on the horizon. I don't know about you, but as I get older, time is just flying--not only with the ep, but with other things as well. I can't believe how long ago I graduated high school and college--and how long I've been in the workforce. I was one the first of my group of friends to get married, and now they all have kids. Scary thoughts! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Maggie It is weird to think time is just moving on and sometimes it feels like yesterday (the 10th of this month will be 4 months since ep surgery) I think that is true, in the beginning you are physically trying to heal and than it slowly sinks in. I am glad you doing ok and I am glad we are here for each other. --- mags wrote: > You are both so right, the time does slip by. It's > funny to say, but it's > almost like it is going by too fast for me when it > doesn't feel like it > could have possibly been so many months back (will > be 6 months for me on the > 24th of this month...sounds so weird to say that). > I didn't grieve nearly > as much the first month or two as I did after that > because I think I was > preoccupied with the physical aspects of healing > from surgery and my mind > just being in too much shock to even start to > process it. I've said this > before, but in some ways now is when I need all of > the flowers, cards and > other signs of support that, naturally, kind of > dried up a week or so after > the nightmare happened. I'm not really as depressed > as I sound, but it does > something to me to realize how long ago it has > already gotten to be and how > fresh it still seems some moments (though I really > am doing OK today). > There's my cheery little 2 cents = ) I'm just glad > you are all here and > would understand feelings like that. > > Maggie > RE: F > > > > More than anything, I can't believe how much > > time has slipped me by. > > I know it is hard to believe it has been 6 months > since I had surgery > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Yep, I feel the same way. It's weird, and we are only getting older = ) Maggie Re: Maggie Hi Maggie, I know--I can't believe it's been about 1 1/2 years since dh and I started ttc. I've had a lot happen in that 1 1/2 years--but good things are on the horizon. I don't know about you, but as I get older, time is just flying--not only with the ep, but with other things as well. I can't believe how long ago I graduated high school and college--and how long I've been in the workforce. I was one the first of my group of friends to get married, and now they all have kids. Scary thoughts! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Yep, I feel the same way. It's weird, and we are only getting older = ) Maggie Re: Maggie Hi Maggie, I know--I can't believe it's been about 1 1/2 years since dh and I started ttc. I've had a lot happen in that 1 1/2 years--but good things are on the horizon. I don't know about you, but as I get older, time is just flying--not only with the ep, but with other things as well. I can't believe how long ago I graduated high school and college--and how long I've been in the workforce. I was one the first of my group of friends to get married, and now they all have kids. Scary thoughts! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Yep, I feel the same way. It's weird, and we are only getting older = ) Maggie Re: Maggie Hi Maggie, I know--I can't believe it's been about 1 1/2 years since dh and I started ttc. I've had a lot happen in that 1 1/2 years--but good things are on the horizon. I don't know about you, but as I get older, time is just flying--not only with the ep, but with other things as well. I can't believe how long ago I graduated high school and college--and how long I've been in the workforce. I was one the first of my group of friends to get married, and now they all have kids. Scary thoughts! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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