Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 My husband and I are at a point in our lives/marriage where we are considering a family but there is hesitation due to the risks involved. I am 30 years old, was diagnosed with IGA Nephropothy 4 years ago brought on by Henoch Schoenlein purpura and the current status of my disease is mild (HAAS class II) and my last 24 hour collection indicated that my creatinine was 1.3 (an increase from my last 24 hour collection), protein of 3.35 (about the same as last collection) and blood creatinine of 1.1. The only " flare ups " that I experience is when I get a cold, I see blood in my urine. Other than that, I am generally not physically bothered by my disease. I have seen the head of Nephrology at a top hospital in Boston and his feeling was that my disease should remain mild for the next several years and that I " should go for it " with regard to pregnancy and that pregnancy is likely not to cause a permanent decline in my kidney function. I have also seen a high-risk OB in NYC that specializes in Preeclamsia and patients with other medical conditions such as mine. He went over the risks (multiple miscariages, onset of early preeclamsia, low birth weight) but said that I should be fine in terms of my Kidney status post-partum. Because my kidney function has declined over the past several years, he feels that time is definitely a factor and that I should consider getting pregnant soon. So, these 2 doctors were definitely more encouraging than my docs here in Michigan have been and both seem to feel that pregnancy should not effect my kidney function post-partum. However, there is still that possibility that it will and given that my disease is currently mild, I would like to keep it that way for many more years to come. Also, I think about the emotional toll of having multiple miscarriages, or, worse having to terminate the pregnancy because of an early onset of preeclampsia. There is also the risk of pre-term labor and the struggles involved with a premature baby. Are we crazy to even consider getting pregnant? But on the other hand, there is a possibility, perhaps a small one, of none of this happening or that I will experience a somewhat " normal " pregnancy. To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to a conclusion. Thanks, Holly Holly Elmes Passport In Store Manager Macy's West phkeith@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 Hi Holly, I did have two successful pregnancies when my creatinine was about where yours is now. I carried both to term, both had good birth weights (7.6 and 8.4) and I did not have significant complications. I did spill more protein during my pregnancies, and had lots of edema, but other than that I was fine. My " baby " is now 20 years old and a junior in college at USC. My kidney function has just recently the past few years declined to the point where I am looking at dialysis and/or transplant in the near future. I knew there were risks involved, but never thought twice because my desire for children was so strong. I know it is a very personal decision, and understand the struggle you are feeling. Only you and your husband can make the decision for you and I wish you all the best in making it. I know we made the right decision for us. In a message dated 10/9/2004 10:42:05 AM Eastern Daylight Time, Holly Elmes writes: > >My husband and I are at a point in our lives/marriage where we are considering a family but there is hesitation due to the risks involved. I am 30 years old, was diagnosed with IGA Nephropothy 4 years ago brought on by Henoch Schoenlein purpura and the current status of my disease is mild (HAAS class II) and my last 24 hour collection indicated that my creatinine was 1.3 (an increase from my last 24 hour collection), protein of 3.35 (about the same as last collection) and blood creatinine of 1.1. The only " flare ups " that I experience is when I get a cold, I see blood in my urine. Other than that, I am generally not physically bothered by my disease. > >I have seen the head of Nephrology at a top hospital in Boston and his feeling was that my disease should remain mild for the next several years and that I " should go for it " with regard to pregnancy and that pregnancy is likely not to cause a permanent decline in my kidney function. > >I have also seen a high-risk OB in NYC that specializes in Preeclamsia and patients with other medical conditions such as mine. He went over the risks (multiple miscariages, onset of early preeclamsia, low birth weight) but said that I should be fine in terms of my Kidney status post-partum. Because my kidney function has declined over the past several years, he feels that time is definitely a factor and that I should consider getting pregnant soon. > >So, these 2 doctors were definitely more encouraging than my docs here in Michigan have been and both seem to feel that pregnancy should not effect my kidney function post-partum. However, there is still that possibility that it will and given that my disease is currently mild, I would like to keep it that way for many more years to come. Also, I think about the emotional toll of having multiple miscarriages, or, worse having to terminate the pregnancy because of an early onset of preeclampsia. There is also the risk of pre-term labor and the struggles involved with a premature baby. Are we crazy to even consider getting pregnant? But on the other hand, there is a possibility, perhaps a small one, of none of this happening or that I will experience a somewhat " normal " pregnancy. > >To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to a conclusion. > >Thanks, >Holly > > > > >Holly Elmes >Passport In Store Manager >Macy's West >phkeith@... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 Dear Holly, I am 29 and was just diagnosed this past spring. I already have a 18 month year old daughter. During my pregnancy with her I had no idea I had had this condition, however, my OB was concerned about the microscopic blood in my urine as well as mild protein spillage toward the 35th week of pregnancy. I also had intermittent hypertention that started about 5 years ago. Interesting, my blood pressure was exceptionally low during the first 2 trimesters but began to rise toward the very end, at 37 weeks gestation (full term) I was induced and had a very healthy baby girl. I am lucky never to have miscarried. Since I still had microscopic blood in my urine, I was referred to a urologist who discovered a kidney stone (it still hasn't passed). However, that was not the source of blood, so he refered me to a nephrologist who gave me a presumed diagnosis of Iga Nephropathy. The first thing I thought of was my risk involving another pregnancy. He also said the sooner the better. He would just switch my blood pressure medication to one that wouldn't harm the fetus and told me that I would be high risk and may be refered to a perinatologist. My recovery went smooth and my kidney function is stable ever since. The only difference post partum is that now I have episodes of macroscopic hematuria during the course of an illness. I am getting a second opinion about child bearing from another nephrologist in November and hopefully will try to get pregnant sometime after April 2005. I will be 30 years old and am confident with what I have researched along with other success stories from other moms in this support group. I feel that as long as you are in good medical hands and your neprologist has given you the green light to have a child, I say go for it! I will support you all the way. Remeber that everything in life is a risk. From getting into your car every day to getting married. I was terrified about the entire idea of pregnancy before I had this condition, but realized over time that there are no guarantees in life. So instead of worring myself to death, I educated myself, found decent medical care, and luckily got pregnant. It sounds as though you have really done your homework and will likely do the same. Where do you live in Michigan? I went to school at Michigan State and my husband lived in Rochester Hills, MI for several years before we moved to Colorado. We were just there last weekend for a wedding in Farmingrton Hills. I don't think the medical care is " top notch " in Colorado or in Michigan. I would tend to favor a Nephrologist's opinion on the east coast like you did. My family lives on the east coast and I would love to move back for the progessive state-of-the-art health care. Anyway, it was good to chat and I hope to continue hearing from you. Best of luck Christa > My husband and I are at a point in our lives/marriage where we are considering a family but there is hesitation due to the risks involved. I am 30 years old, was diagnosed with IGA Nephropothy 4 years ago brought on by Henoch Schoenlein purpura and the current status of my disease is mild (HAAS class II) and my last 24 hour collection indicated that my creatinine was 1.3 (an increase from my last 24 hour collection), protein of 3.35 (about the same as last collection) and blood creatinine of 1.1. The only " flare ups " that I experience is when I get a cold, I see blood in my urine. Other than that, I am generally not physically bothered by my disease. > > I have seen the head of Nephrology at a top hospital in Boston and his feeling was that my disease should remain mild for the next several years and that I " should go for it " with regard to pregnancy and that pregnancy is likely not to cause a permanent decline in my kidney function. > > I have also seen a high-risk OB in NYC that specializes in Preeclamsia and patients with other medical conditions such as mine. He went over the risks (multiple miscariages, onset of early preeclamsia, low birth weight) but said that I should be fine in terms of my Kidney status post-partum. Because my kidney function has declined over the past several years, he feels that time is definitely a factor and that I should consider getting pregnant soon. > > So, these 2 doctors were definitely more encouraging than my docs here in Michigan have been and both seem to feel that pregnancy should not effect my kidney function post-partum. However, there is still that possibility that it will and given that my disease is currently mild, I would like to keep it that way for many more years to come. Also, I think about the emotional toll of having multiple miscarriages, or, worse having to terminate the pregnancy because of an early onset of preeclampsia. There is also the risk of pre-term labor and the struggles involved with a premature baby. Are we crazy to even consider getting pregnant? But on the other hand, there is a possibility, perhaps a small one, of none of this happening or that I will experience a somewhat " normal " pregnancy. > > To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to a conclusion. > > Thanks, > Holly > > > > > Holly Elmes > Passport In Store Manager > Macy's West > phkeith@s... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 Holly, When I was diagnosed I was 31 and creatine was 4.5. I was told not to get pregneant. i would have to have transplant first now. I also have aortic regurg which would get worse if I was pregneant. I don't know how high your risks for miscarraige etc are-but if they are fairly low I would try sooner than later. Best of luck, christine > My husband and I are at a point in our lives/marriage where we are considering a family but there is hesitation due to the risks involved. I am 30 years old, was diagnosed with IGA Nephropothy 4 years ago brought on by Henoch Schoenlein purpura and the current status of my disease is mild (HAAS class II) and my last 24 hour collection indicated that my creatinine was 1.3 (an increase from my last 24 hour collection), protein of 3.35 (about the same as last collection) and blood creatinine of 1.1. The only " flare ups " that I experience is when I get a cold, I see blood in my urine. Other than that, I am generally not physically bothered by my disease. > > I have seen the head of Nephrology at a top hospital in Boston and his feeling was that my disease should remain mild for the next several years and that I " should go for it " with regard to pregnancy and that pregnancy is likely not to cause a permanent decline in my kidney function. > > I have also seen a high-risk OB in NYC that specializes in Preeclamsia and patients with other medical conditions such as mine. He went over the risks (multiple miscariages, onset of early preeclamsia, low birth weight) but said that I should be fine in terms of my Kidney status post-partum. Because my kidney function has declined over the past several years, he feels that time is definitely a factor and that I should consider getting pregnant soon. > > So, these 2 doctors were definitely more encouraging than my docs here in Michigan have been and both seem to feel that pregnancy should not effect my kidney function post-partum. However, there is still that possibility that it will and given that my disease is currently mild, I would like to keep it that way for many more years to come. Also, I think about the emotional toll of having multiple miscarriages, or, worse having to terminate the pregnancy because of an early onset of preeclampsia. There is also the risk of pre-term labor and the struggles involved with a premature baby. Are we crazy to even consider getting pregnant? But on the other hand, there is a possibility, perhaps a small one, of none of this happening or that I will experience a somewhat " normal " pregnancy. > > To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to a conclusion. > > Thanks, > Holly > > > > > Holly Elmes > Passport In Store Manager > Macy's West > phkeith@s... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 > To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to a conclusion. > > Thanks, > Holly > > Holly, I was diagnosed when I was twenty-six and just married. Raising a family really didn't enter my radar until I was 28, in 1996. For the most part my numbers were very good. We spent time with my neph, time with a parinatologist, and time doing any research we could. The only limited study we could find at the time about women, pregnancy and IgAN was done in Japan on a rather small sampling. We struggled with all of the variables, struggled for a long time. I couldn't make a decision and often dreamed of " coming up pregnant " so I wouldn't have to make a (consious) choice. Then I got the flu, very badly, and my husband was so distraught over my state that he said he couldn't handle the idea of my being pregnant. He wanted me as well as I could be and asked me to seriously consider giving up thinking anymore about pregnancy. It took time for me to really know what I wanted. In the end I wanted to be as healthy as I could be, to know that I had done everything to keep myself healthy. I also realized that my being a mommy wasn't about my biology or about my husband's. Life is full of risk, but I needed to know I wasn't adding to my body's burden. So, we where blessed last year with our beautiful son through adoption. He came home from the hospital with us when he was three days old, and today I still look at him with joy and am amazed I am his Mama. Like I said, I'm very aware there are no gaurantees and life is full of risk. I chose a different set of risks to take. Each of us is unique, and we each want different things. It can take time to make a decision, and in part that's so very frustrating since it's time the forces the issue. I hope you don't mind a story of someone choosing not to get pregnant. I wish you joy in whatever path you choose. (By the way, I'm in the SFBay too) Peace, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 Hey, My stats were very similar to yours when I got pregnant. And the coolest thing about being pregnant was that my IgAN actually went away for 7 months! (And two after that). I was worried about miscarriage too - but I was more worried about NOT getting pregnant - so when I found out I had BEEN pregnant by having a miscarriage I actually celebrated - and two months later I was pregnant with my now 4.5 month son. I hate my disease as it robs my energy - but I will not let it rob me of anything else. My baby is SO incredible and I will absolutely have another. Go for it! And good luck. Please feel free to ask me any questions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 , Thank you for your story. Of course I don't mind hearing stories of those that chose not to get pregnant...I appreciate everyone being so open about a very personal thing. Thanks again. thewhologans wrote: Holly, I was diagnosed when I was twenty-six and just married. Raising a family really didn't enter my radar until I was 28, in 1996. For the most part my numbers were very good. We spent time with my neph, time with a parinatologist, and time doing any research we could. The only limited study we could find at the time about women, pregnancy and IgAN was done in Japan on a rather small sampling. We struggled with all of the variables, struggled for a long time. I couldn't make a decision and often dreamed of " coming up pregnant " so I wouldn't have to make a (consious) choice. Then I got the flu, very badly, and my husband was so distraught over my state that he said he couldn't handle the idea of my being pregnant. He wanted me as well as I could be and asked me to seriously consider giving up thinking anymore about pregnancy. It took time for me to really know what I wanted. In the end I wanted to be as healthy as I could be, to know that I had done everything to keep myself healthy. I also realized that my being a mommy wasn't about my biology or about my husband's. Life is full of risk, but I needed to know I wasn't adding to my body's burden. So, we where blessed last year with our beautiful son through adoption. He came home from the hospital with us when he was three days old, and today I still look at him with joy and am amazed I am his Mama. Like I said, I'm very aware there are no gaurantees and life is full of risk. I chose a different set of risks to take. Each of us is unique, and we each want different things. It can take time to make a decision, and in part that's so very frustrating since it's time the forces the issue. I hope you don't mind a story of someone choosing not to get pregnant. I wish you joy in whatever path you choose. (By the way, I'm in the SFBay too) Peace, To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group home page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/ To unsubcribe via email, iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to: http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm Thank you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 , Thank you so much for sharing your story. What a beautiful story of love. There are so many children in this world who need good homes and I have so much respect for those who open their homes and hearts to them through either foster care of adoption. It shows what a special couple you are. In a message dated 10/10/2004 1:08:35 AM Eastern Daylight Time, " thewhologans " writes: > > >  >> To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a >similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is >something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a >decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to >a conclusion. >>  >> Thanks, >> Holly >> >> > >Holly, >I was diagnosed when I was twenty-six and just married. Raising a family really didn't >enter my radar until I was 28, in 1996. For the most part my numbers were very good. >We spent time with my neph, time with a parinatologist, and time doing any research >we could. The only limited study we could find at the time about women, pregnancy >and IgAN was done in Japan on a rather small sampling. We struggled with all of the >variables, struggled for a long time. I couldn't make a decision and often dreamed of > " coming up pregnant " so I wouldn't have to make a (consious) choice. Then I got the >flu, very badly, and my husband was so distraught over my state that he said he >couldn't handle the idea of my being pregnant. He wanted me as well as I could be >and asked me to seriously consider giving up thinking anymore about pregnancy. It >took time for me to really know what I wanted. In the end I wanted to be as healthy as >I could be, to know that I had done everything to keep myself healthy. I also realized >that my being a mommy wasn't about my biology or about my husband's. Life is full >of risk, but I needed to know I wasn't adding to my body's burden. > >So, we where blessed last year with our beautiful son through adoption. He came >home from the hospital with us when he was three days old, and today I still look at >him with joy and am amazed I am his Mama. Like I said, I'm very aware there are no >gaurantees and life is full of risk. I chose a different set of risks to take. Each of us is >unique, and we each want different things. It can take time to make a decision, and in >part that's so very frustrating since it's time the forces the issue. > >I hope you don't mind a story of someone choosing not to get pregnant. I wish you  >joy in whatever path you choose. (By the way, I'm in the SFBay too) > >Peace, > > > > > > > > > > >To edit your settings for the group, go to our Yahoo Group >home page: >http://groups.yahoo.com/group/iga-nephropathy/ > >To unsubcribe via email, >iga-nephropathy-unsubscribe >Visit our companion website at www.igan.ca. The site is entirely supported by donations. If you would like to help, go to: >http://www.igan.ca/id62.htm > >Thank you > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2004 Report Share Posted October 11, 2004 Holly, I had my son 3 years ago with some problems. Pregnancy has been concern to me as well. I just got married and my husband and I wish to have children together some day. I have talked to my nephrologist about the complications I had with my first pregnancy (preeclampsia, elevated liver enzymes). He said that those problems were probably caused by my having IgA. He did say that any pregnancies I had would be high risk and that I would have to be closely monitored but that it was possible for me to have a healthy baby. I'm glad to hear that you got similar opinions. - Shara > My husband and I are at a point in our lives/marriage where we are considering a family but there is hesitation due to the risks involved. I am 30 years old, was diagnosed with IGA Nephropothy 4 years ago brought on by Henoch Schoenlein purpura and the current status of my disease is mild (HAAS class II) and my last 24 hour collection indicated that my creatinine was 1.3 (an increase from my last 24 hour collection), protein of 3.35 (about the same as last collection) and blood creatinine of 1.1. The only " flare ups " that I experience is when I get a cold, I see blood in my urine. Other than that, I am generally not physically bothered by my disease. > > I have seen the head of Nephrology at a top hospital in Boston and his feeling was that my disease should remain mild for the next several years and that I " should go for it " with regard to pregnancy and that pregnancy is likely not to cause a permanent decline in my kidney function. > > I have also seen a high-risk OB in NYC that specializes in Preeclamsia and patients with other medical conditions such as mine. He went over the risks (multiple miscariages, onset of early preeclamsia, low birth weight) but said that I should be fine in terms of my Kidney status post-partum. Because my kidney function has declined over the past several years, he feels that time is definitely a factor and that I should consider getting pregnant soon. > > So, these 2 doctors were definitely more encouraging than my docs here in Michigan have been and both seem to feel that pregnancy should not effect my kidney function post-partum. However, there is still that possibility that it will and given that my disease is currently mild, I would like to keep it that way for many more years to come. Also, I think about the emotional toll of having multiple miscarriages, or, worse having to terminate the pregnancy because of an early onset of preeclampsia. There is also the risk of pre-term labor and the struggles involved with a premature baby. Are we crazy to even consider getting pregnant? But on the other hand, there is a possibility, perhaps a small one, of none of this happening or that I will experience a somewhat " normal " pregnancy. > > To get to the point, I am hoping to find other women who have gone through a similar struggles and contemplation when trying to decide if getting pregnant is something they want to do. I just don't know how I'll ever be able to come to a decision, so I am looking to hear how others weighed the pros and cons and came to a conclusion. > > Thanks, > Holly > > > > > Holly Elmes > Passport In Store Manager > Macy's West > phkeith@s... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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