Guest guest Posted June 5, 2001 Report Share Posted June 5, 2001 Keri, That is right, you stay positive. I will still be praying that you won't be far behind Cary!! Don't give up! > . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2001 Report Share Posted June 9, 2001 , I am so sorry for what you are going through. Why do you have to take them ? I don't understand why b/c would help with pain? How long do you have to take them? Did I ask enough ?'s How are you feeling now?---Keri > > Keri, > I am taking the bc pills because I have ovarian cysts that really hurt and > don't want to go away... believe me, I WISH I wasn't taking these horrible > little pills from hell!! > > How are you doing?? > > lisa r > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2001 Report Share Posted June 20, 2001 Keri, it is understandable that you haven't been around as much, things happen. Don't worry about it. (though we miss you) Yeah, my bladder is still a mess. It can be very upsetting at times and being pg, I am sure isn't helping. (with the uterus pushing on the bladder) After the baby, I am going to have to demand to have something done, it will have been a year than and something just is not right. How are you doing? How is Heath? Take care of yourself. Keri Hejl wrote: , your welcome. How have you been feeling? Is your bladder still bothering you? Sorry I haven't been around more.----Keri > > > Keri, thanks for sharing that with us.... > Keri Hejl wrote: ------- Start of forwarded message ------- > > To: ectopicpregnancy > Subject: Fw: LIFE > > Date: Fri, 15 Jun 2001 17:37:32 -0400 > > > > > > > > > I have a friend who lives by a three-word philosophy: " Seize the > > > moment. " > > > > > Just possibly, she may be the wisest woman on this planet.Too many > > > people > > > > > put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't > > thought > > > > > about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know It was coming > > or > > > > are > > > > > too rigid to depart from their routine. > > > > > > > > > > I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who > > > passed > > > > > up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. > > From > > > > > then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible. How many women > out > > > > there > > > > > will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to > > > dinner > > > > > until after something had been thawed? Does the word > " refrigeration " > > > mean > > > > > nothing to you? How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat > > in > > > > > silence while you watched Jeopardy! on television? I cannot count > the > > > > > times I called my sister and said, " How about going to lunch in a > half > > > > > hour? " She would gasp and stammer, " I can't. I have clothes on the > > > line. > > > > > My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late > > breakfast, > > > > It > > > > > looks like rain. And my personal favorite: - " It's Monday " . She died > a > > > few > > > > > years ago. > > > > > > > > > > We never did have lunch together. > > > > > > > > > > Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule > > our > > > > > headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to > ourselves > > > when > > > > > all the conditions are perfect: We'll go back and visit the > > > grandparents > > > > > when we get Stevie toilet-trained. We'll entertain-when we replace > > the > > > > > living-room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two > > more > > > > > kids out of college. > > > > > > > > > > Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get > shorter, > > > and > > > > > the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we > > awaken, > > > > and > > > > > all we have to show for our lives is a litany of " I'm going to, " " I > > plan > > > > > on " and " Someday, when things are settled down a bit. " > > > > > > > > > > When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to > > adventure > > > > > and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her > > > > > enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five > > minutes, > > > > and > > > > > you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Rollerblades and > > skip > > > an > > > > > elevator for a bungee cord. > > > > > > > > > > My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. > > It's > > > > > just that I might as well apply it directly to my hips with a > spatula > > > and > > > > > eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car > and > > > > > bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way > home, > > I > > > > > would have died happy. > > > > > > > > > > Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to not > > Something > > > > on > > > > > your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one > > > phone > > > > > call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? > > > > > > > > > > And why are you waiting? Make sure you read this to the end; you > will > > > > > understand why I sent this to you. Have you ever watched kids > playing > > > on > > > > a > > > > > merry go round? Or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? > Ever > > > > > followed a butterfly's > > > > > erratic flight. Or gazed at the sun into the fading night? > > > > > > > > > > You better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > won't > > > > > last. > > > > > > > > > > Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask " How are you? " > > Do > > > > > you hear the reply? When the day is done, Do you lie in your bed > With > > > the > > > > > next hundred chores Running through your head? > > > > > > > > > > You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > won't > > > > > last. > > > > > > > > > > Ever told your child, We'll do it tomorrow And in your haste, not > see > > > his > > > > > sorrow? Ever lost touch, Let a good friendship die To call and say > > Hi " ? > > > > > > > > > > You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > won't > > > > > last. When you run so fast to get somewhere You miss half the fun > of > > > > > getting there. When you worry and hurry through your day, It is > like > > an > > > > > unopened gift....Thrown away... Life is not a race. Do take it > slower > > > > Hear > > > > > the music Before the song is over. > > > > > > > > > > It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. > > > Send > > > > > this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. If it comes back to you, > then > > > > > you'll know you have a circle of friends. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > NetZero Platinum > > > > No Banner Ads and Unlimited Access > > > > Sign Up Today - Only $9.95 per month! > > > > http://www.netzero.net > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2001 Report Share Posted June 22, 2001 Keri, I will definitely keep you both in my prayers. I am sorry to hear about Heath. It is hard to help someone when they will not really talk about their feelings, it makes you feel so helpless. Just keep trying to talk to him, maybe he will open up some. I think guys have a really hard time opening up. You both have been through alot and love each other, I believe in time you will be ok. As for school, I just finished, for the summer, last night and I think I did pretty good. Thanks for asking. You and Heath take care and I will be thinking of you both. Keri Hejl wrote: , I am sorry to hear your bladder is still bothering you =( Me and Heath are o.k. I guess. we had a long talk last night and I think he is depressed, not just down, but depressed and I asked him if he would get help and go talk to someone and he won't. =( It makes me so sad, knowing he is so down. I don't know what I should do. Please pray for us. how is school?---keri > > > Keri, it is understandable that you haven't been around as much, things happen. Don't worry about it. (though we miss you) Yeah, my bladder is still a mess. It can be very upsetting at times and being pg, I am sure isn't helping. (with the uterus pushing on the bladder) After the baby, I am going to have to demand to have something done, it will have been a year than and something just is not right. > How are you doing? How is Heath? Take care of yourself. > Keri Hejl wrote: , your welcome. How have you been feeling? Is your bladder still bothering you? Sorry I haven't been around more.----Keri > > > > > > > Keri, thanks for sharing that with us.... > > Keri Hejl wrote: ------- Start of forwarded message ------- > > > > To: ectopicpregnancy > > Subject: Fw: LIFE > > > > Date: Fri, 15 Jun 2001 17:37:32 -0400 > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a friend who lives by a three-word philosophy: " Seize the > > > > moment. " > > > > > > Just possibly, she may be the wisest woman on this planet.Too many > > > > people > > > > > > put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't > > > thought > > > > > > about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know It was coming > > > or > > > > > are > > > > > > too rigid to depart from their routine. > > > > > > > > > > > > I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who > > > > passed > > > > > > up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. > > > From > > > > > > then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible. How many women > > out > > > > > there > > > > > > will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to > > > > dinner > > > > > > until after something had been thawed? Does the word > > " refrigeration " > > > > mean > > > > > > nothing to you? How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat > > > in > > > > > > silence while you watched Jeopardy! on television? I cannot count > > the > > > > > > times I called my sister and said, " How about going to lunch in a > > half > > > > > > hour? " She would gasp and stammer, " I can't. I have clothes on the > > > > line. > > > > > > My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late > > > breakfast, > > > > > It > > > > > > looks like rain. And my personal favorite: - " It's Monday " . She died > > a > > > > few > > > > > > years ago. > > > > > > > > > > > > We never did have lunch together. > > > > > > > > > > > > Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule > > > our > > > > > > headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to > > ourselves > > > > when > > > > > > all the conditions are perfect: We'll go back and visit the > > > > grandparents > > > > > > when we get Stevie toilet-trained. We'll entertain-when we replace > > > the > > > > > > living-room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two > > > more > > > > > > kids out of college. > > > > > > > > > > > > Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get > > shorter, > > > > and > > > > > > the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we > > > awaken, > > > > > and > > > > > > all we have to show for our lives is a litany of " I'm going to, " " I > > > plan > > > > > > on " and " Someday, when things are settled down a bit. " > > > > > > > > > > > > When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to > > > adventure > > > > > > and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her > > > > > > enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five > > > minutes, > > > > > and > > > > > > you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Rollerblades and > > > skip > > > > an > > > > > > elevator for a bungee cord. > > > > > > > > > > > > My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. > > > It's > > > > > > just that I might as well apply it directly to my hips with a > > spatula > > > > and > > > > > > eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car > > and > > > > > > bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way > > home, > > > I > > > > > > would have died happy. > > > > > > > > > > > > Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to not > > > Something > > > > > on > > > > > > your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one > > > > phone > > > > > > call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? > > > > > > > > > > > > And why are you waiting? Make sure you read this to the end; you > > will > > > > > > understand why I sent this to you. Have you ever watched kids > > playing > > > > on > > > > > a > > > > > > merry go round? Or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? > > Ever > > > > > > followed a butterfly's > > > > > > erratic flight. Or gazed at the sun into the fading night? > > > > > > > > > > > > You better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > won't > > > > > > last. > > > > > > > > > > > > Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask " How are you? " > > > Do > > > > > > you hear the reply? When the day is done, Do you lie in your bed > > With > > > > the > > > > > > next hundred chores Running through your head? > > > > > > > > > > > > You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > > won't > > > > > > last. > > > > > > > > > > > > Ever told your child, We'll do it tomorrow And in your haste, not > > see > > > > his > > > > > > sorrow? Ever lost touch, Let a good friendship die To call and say > > > Hi " ? > > > > > > > > > > > > You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > > won't > > > > > > last. When you run so fast to get somewhere You miss half the fun > > of > > > > > > getting there. When you worry and hurry through your day, It is > > like > > > an > > > > > > unopened gift....Thrown away... Life is not a race. Do take it > > slower > > > > > Hear > > > > > > the music Before the song is over. > > > > > > > > > > > > It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. > > > > Send > > > > > > this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. If it comes back to you, > > then > > > > > > you'll know you have a circle of friends. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > NetZero Platinum > > > > > No Banner Ads and Unlimited Access > > > > > Sign Up Today - Only $9.95 per month! > > > > > http://www.netzero.net > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2001 Report Share Posted June 25, 2001 , thank you so much for your kind words. Maybe your right, Maybe me and Heath will be o.k. We just have so much going on, and I think it is stressing us out and we miss Trooper. I just wish there was something I could do to help. I don't want to nag him.Maybe your right, maybe I should just keep asking, and eventually he will open up. I am just afraid that I will make things worse. Thank you for your prayers, I think that is just what we both need.----Keri > > > Keri, I will definitely keep you both in my prayers. I am sorry to hear about Heath. It is hard to help someone when they will not really talk about their feelings, it makes you feel so helpless. Just keep trying to talk to him, maybe he will open up some. I think guys have a really hard time opening up. You both have been through alot and love each other, I believe in time you will be ok. > As for school, I just finished, for the summer, last night and I think I did pretty good. Thanks for asking. > You and Heath take care and I will be thinking of you both. > Keri Hejl wrote: , I am sorry to hear your bladder is still bothering you =( Me and Heath are o.k. I guess. we had a long talk last night and I think he is depressed, not just down, but depressed and I asked him if he would get help and go talk to someone and he won't. =( It makes me so sad, knowing he is so down. I don't know what I should do. Please pray for us. how is school?---keri > > > > > > > Keri, it is understandable that you haven't been around as much, things happen. Don't worry about it. (though we miss you) Yeah, my bladder is still a mess. It can be very upsetting at times and being pg, I am sure isn't helping. (with the uterus pushing on the bladder) After the baby, I am going to have to demand to have something done, it will have been a year than and something just is not right. > > How are you doing? How is Heath? Take care of yourself. > > Keri Hejl wrote: , your welcome. How have you been feeling? Is your bladder still bothering you? Sorry I haven't been around more.----Keri > > > > > > > > > > > Keri, thanks for sharing that with us.... > > > Keri Hejl wrote: ------- Start of forwarded message ------- > > > > > > To: ectopicpregnancy > > > Subject: Fw: LIFE > > > > > > Date: Fri, 15 Jun 2001 17:37:32 -0400 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I have a friend who lives by a three-word philosophy: " Seize the > > > > > moment. " > > > > > > > Just possibly, she may be the wisest woman on this planet.Too many > > > > > people > > > > > > > put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't > > > > thought > > > > > > > about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know It was coming > > > > or > > > > > > are > > > > > > > too rigid to depart from their routine. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who > > > > > passed > > > > > > > up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. > > > > From > > > > > > > then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible. How many women > > > out > > > > > > there > > > > > > > will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to > > > > > dinner > > > > > > > until after something had been thawed? Does the word > > > " refrigeration " > > > > > mean > > > > > > > nothing to you? How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat > > > > in > > > > > > > silence while you watched Jeopardy! on television? I cannot count > > > the > > > > > > > times I called my sister and said, " How about going to lunch in a > > > half > > > > > > > hour? " She would gasp and stammer, " I can't. I have clothes on the > > > > > line. > > > > > > > My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late > > > > breakfast, > > > > > > It > > > > > > > looks like rain. And my personal favorite: - " It's Monday " . She died > > > a > > > > > few > > > > > > > years ago. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > We never did have lunch together. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule > > > > our > > > > > > > headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to > > > ourselves > > > > > when > > > > > > > all the conditions are perfect: We'll go back and visit the > > > > > grandparents > > > > > > > when we get Stevie toilet-trained. We'll entertain-when we replace > > > > the > > > > > > > living-room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two > > > > more > > > > > > > kids out of college. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get > > > shorter, > > > > > and > > > > > > > the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we > > > > awaken, > > > > > > and > > > > > > > all we have to show for our lives is a litany of " I'm going to, " " I > > > > plan > > > > > > > on " and " Someday, when things are settled down a bit. " > > > > > > > > > > > > > > When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to > > > > adventure > > > > > > > and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her > > > > > > > enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five > > > > minutes, > > > > > > and > > > > > > > you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Rollerblades and > > > > skip > > > > > an > > > > > > > elevator for a bungee cord. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. > > > > It's > > > > > > > just that I might as well apply it directly to my hips with a > > > spatula > > > > > and > > > > > > > eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car > > > and > > > > > > > bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way > > > home, > > > > I > > > > > > > would have died happy. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to not > > > > Something > > > > > > on > > > > > > > your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one > > > > > phone > > > > > > > call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > And why are you waiting? Make sure you read this to the end; you > > > will > > > > > > > understand why I sent this to you. Have you ever watched kids > > > playing > > > > > on > > > > > > a > > > > > > > merry go round? Or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? > > > Ever > > > > > > > followed a butterfly's > > > > > > > erratic flight. Or gazed at the sun into the fading night? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > > won't > > > > > > > last. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask " How are you? " > > > > Do > > > > > > > you hear the reply? When the day is done, Do you lie in your bed > > > With > > > > > the > > > > > > > next hundred chores Running through your head? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > > > won't > > > > > > > last. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Ever told your child, We'll do it tomorrow And in your haste, not > > > see > > > > > his > > > > > > > sorrow? Ever lost touch, Let a good friendship die To call and say > > > > Hi " ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You'd better slow down Don't dance so fast Time is short The music > > > > won't > > > > > > > last. When you run so fast to get somewhere You miss half the fun > > > of > > > > > > > getting there. When you worry and hurry through your day, It is > > > like > > > > an > > > > > > > unopened gift....Thrown away... Life is not a race. Do take it > > > slower > > > > > > Hear > > > > > > > the music Before the song is over. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. > > > > > Send > > > > > > > this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. If it comes back to you, > > > then > > > > > > > you'll know you have a circle of friends. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > NetZero Platinum > > > > > > No Banner Ads and Unlimited Access > > > > > > Sign Up Today - Only $9.95 per month! > > > > > > http://www.netzero.net > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2001 Report Share Posted June 25, 2001 Keri, Darn that af!!! She is such a pain in the you know what!!! I would do a test too, just to be on the safe side. I am sorry she came though. Take care and on to new beginnings.....you keep that head up and keep smiling, your time will come....I just wish it was now. If I had a magic wand I would use it for each of you ttc!!! Keri Hejl wrote: and , Thank you so much for pulling for me, and sending me positive thoughts and baby dust. You guys are the best.----Keri > > > Keri- I second that. > > > Mei wrote: > Keri, I am still pulling for you. I know you and Heath have been going through some sutff lately. Hang in there. Things are going to get better. ******** and ++++++++thoughts going out to you!! > Keri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2001 Report Share Posted June 25, 2001 Keri, I can understand you being alittle afraid because you don't want him to think you are just nagging him...but just give him gentle reminders that you are there whenever he needs you and that you are hurting too. It is so hard when two people handle things so differently after suffering such a major loss, just try to remember, you both are hurting and that you love each other. I know I couldn't understand how Don acted like he had just moved on after our loss but after finally gettting him to open up some he said he didn't like to talk about it because it hurt but I needed to get things out sometimes. He always tries to be the strong one who keeps everything inside and thinks he just has to take care of me, you know? ....but he didn't understand my feelings at all. He couldn't understand how one minute I would be ok and the next minute I was sad or mad. I finally tried to explain I couldn't help the way my emotions came out no more than he could control keeping his in. It was very hard. I really pray you two make it through this, from all your previous posts he sounds like a great guy, but he is just going through alot too right now. Like I said try to remember how much you loved each other before your horrible loss and that your love will create another beautiful baby in the future. Please take care of yourself and remember, I am here anytime for you. Sorry, for rambling on so much. I just want this to get better for the two of you. > http://www.shopping.altavista.com > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2001 Report Share Posted June 25, 2001 kerri, prayers for you and heath.... lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2001 Report Share Posted June 26, 2001 r, thank you so much, you don't know how bad I need them today.-----Keri > > kerri, > prayers for you and heath.... > > lisa r > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2001 Report Share Posted June 26, 2001 , you are so sweet. thanks for the encouragement.---Keri > > > Keri, Darn that af!!! She is such a pain in the you know what!!! I would do a test too, just to be on the safe side. I am sorry she came though. Take care and on to new beginnings.....you keep that head up and keep smiling, your time will come....I just wish it was now. If I had a magic wand I would use it for each of you ttc!!! > Keri Hejl wrote: and , Thank you so much for pulling for me, and sending me positive thoughts and baby dust. You guys are the best.----Keri > > > > > > > Keri- I second that. > > > > > > Mei wrote: > > Keri, I am still pulling for you. I know you and Heath have been going through some sutff lately. Hang in there. Things are going to get better. ******** and ++++++++thoughts going out to you!! > > Keri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2001 Report Share Posted June 27, 2001 Keri, Just take care. {{{{{{{{{[[HUG}}}}}}}} Keri Hejl wrote: , you are so sweet. thanks for the encouragement.---Keri > > > Keri, Darn that af!!! She is such a pain in the you know what!!! I would do a test too, just to be on the safe side. I am sorry she came though. Take care and on to new beginnings.....you keep that head up and keep smiling, your time will come....I just wish it was now. If I had a magic wand I would use it for each of you ttc!!! > Keri Hejl wrote: and , Thank you so much for pulling for me, and sending me positive thoughts and baby dust. You guys are the best.----Keri > > > > > > > Keri- I second that. > > > > > > Mei wrote: > > Keri, I am still pulling for you. I know you and Heath have been going through some sutff lately. Hang in there. Things are going to get better. ******** and ++++++++thoughts going out to you!! > > Keri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2001 Report Share Posted June 29, 2001 Dear Keri, I really am feeling much better. Earl is going to try to talk to his mom for me. I don't think I should b/c I think she would just get defensive with me and I don't want her to know that I'm mad - just that she's hurt my feelings. I'm in class 7 hours per day right now and I also work and have to have study time. The summer semester will be over in 4-5 weeks though. I'll have about a 2 week break and then I'll have to commute to a college 1 1/2 hours away. I should be able to get all my classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so I hope it won't be too bad. How are you and Heath doing? Have you set a wedding date yet??? Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2001 Report Share Posted June 29, 2001 Carmen, I am glad to read that you are feeling better. I think that is good that Earl is going to talk to his mom, you should let her know how you feel. Me and Heath are better. We have an appointment with a counselor July 9. So at least he is willing to try. I think our wedding is going to be in Sept. because my cousin who is in the wedding lives in Oregon and that was the best time for her to come down. Oh! and my dad just e-mailed me and told me that him and his wife want to pay for all of it, so I am relieved of some stress. Yeah! I hope school is going good. Take care. ----Keri > > Dear Keri, > I really am feeling much better. Earl is going to try to talk to his mom for me. I don't think I should b/c I think she would just get defensive with me and I don't want her to know that I'm mad - just that she's hurt my feelings. > > I'm in class 7 hours per day right now and I also work and have to have study time. The summer semester will be over in 4-5 weeks though. I'll have about a 2 week break and then I'll have to commute to a college 1 1/2 hours away. I should be able to get all my classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so I hope it won't be too bad. > > How are you and Heath doing? Have you set a wedding date yet??? > > Carmen > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2001 Report Share Posted June 29, 2001 Keri, I just read your post and am happy to hear the good news....one, your dad willing to pay for the wedding, that is a big relief for you two and very nice of him!! Two, that you and Heath have decided to go to counseling, you two sound like you have something special and have been through alot, I am glad Heath is willing to go. I hope he is able to open up and heal. Good luck. --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2001 Report Share Posted June 30, 2001 Keri, That is great that Heath is going to counseling with you. That shows what a great man he must be. I think most people who need counseling have too much pride and they just let their relationship suffer. You must be so excited about your wedding!!!! That's great that your family will help pay for it. All mine would do was pay for my dress. Of course, I was so mad I picked out a $1500 dress I'm glad things are turning around for you. Love, Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2001 Report Share Posted July 4, 2001 Keri, Thanks for saying my dress was pretty. I hope I find someone as short as I am one day to lend it to. It's a shame for it to only be worn once. I haven't found out anything about my cyst because I haven't found a new dr. Everytime I call my dr's office for something it's such an ordeal and I end up crying and upset for 3 days, so I'm trying to find a new dr. I called 4 different dr's last Tuesday and not one has returned my call. I am sure counseling will help Heath learn how to open up. Since he's willing to go I know he will really benefit from it. Are you asking if I was scared before the wedding?? I wasn't really - the whole thing still seemed to good to be true. Our wedding was 5 months after our first date! Love, Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2001 Report Share Posted July 9, 2001 , I am so sorry it has taken me so long to reply. Yes, We are very glad my dad has agreed to pay for the wedding. I am not sure I want to get married with the way things are. Heath dosen't have a job, and I told him he needs to get one to help me out, and he keep putting his family first, and it makes me feel like this wedding is not that important, and I also wonder if I am always going to be last, and his family first. We have our appointment with the counselor tonight. So I am hoping some things will get cleared up. I feel like I am the only one thinking about our future. Please keep us in your prayers. How are you feeling? Are you finished with school?---Keri > > > Keri, I just read your post and am happy to hear the good news....one, your dad willing to pay for the wedding, that is a big relief for you two and very nice of him!! Two, that you and Heath have decided to go to counseling, you two sound like you have something special and have been through alot, I am glad Heath is willing to go. I hope he is able to open up and heal. Good luck. > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2001 Report Share Posted July 9, 2001 Hey Keri, that is ok, I know you have alot on your plate right now. I hope the counseling goes well for you two, it will take some time but like I said, that is a very good sign that at least he is willing to go. Hopefully he will slowly open up some. You know you two will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sometimes those " rough patches " are very hard to get through. As for the family thing, that is really hard. Of course he loves his family but you are now part of his family and you should be considered equal. There is no real rush to get married, so you will know when it is right. Don and I waited 4 years, so it isn't a big deal....take your time and I am sure things will turn around. Everyday stresses are hard on a relationship, let alone when something major hits it, like a loss of a child....it will take time and work but you two will be ok. He just has to open up. I am done with classes for right now...(taking the rest of the summer off) I am feeling alittle better than I had been. M/s really hit me the last several weeks but I think (and hope!) it is subsiding, I have some good moments lately, which is great.....hopefully, I will be getting out of it soon. Thanks for asking. Take care and I will be thinking of you and Heath. --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2001 Report Share Posted July 15, 2001 Keri, thank you so much. The dr said the results should be back in two days, so I figure Tues or Wed. I better get a phone call! Thanks for the + thoughts, I definitley could use them right now. I will let you know. Take care, hope you are doing ok. --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2001 Report Share Posted July 17, 2001 r, thanks for the encouragement. I hope everything does work out. It seems to be so far. I think Heath got a job today!!!! It is really good money too. I will let you know when I find out more of the details. Thanks for all the prayers.---Love, Keri > > Keri, > dokn't worry about the $$ for the wedding, it will appear and you will have > a beautiful wedding day, I just know it. > > I am glad you and Heath are doing better and going to counseling... > > TOnight is the LAST b/c pill!! so very happy > > I'm keeping you two in my prayers. > > lisa r > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2001 Report Share Posted July 17, 2001 YEA Kerri.. praying HEath got the job... and doing my Tigger dance for you two!! love, lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2001 Report Share Posted July 21, 2001 Keri, that is great news for you too! Maybe it will also help some with the way Heath has been " feeling " lately to get out ther and start a new job with all kinds of possiblities, you know. I am very happy for you two! I wish him lots of luck. --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2001 Report Share Posted July 24, 2001 Amy r, yeah, I am glad Heath got a job, I just hope it works out. I finally talked to my dad, I bought some things. I got my dress! Your right, about the lap surgery, the more I think about it, I know it will be good for us. It is still scary. ----Keri > > > YEAH!!! A new job for Heath that pays well...that's great!!! > > Well, I sure hope your dad wouldn't offer to pay for something as important > as your wedding and then not come through. Maybe he just needs a little > prodding so he realizes you need to start planning (and buying!) now!! > > -AmyR > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2001 Report Share Posted July 24, 2001 Keri, I am excited to hear that you found your dress. If you don't mind, maybe you could describe it for me. I like hearing about those kinds of things. About the lap surgery, I really don't know much about it, but it sounds like a good idea to me. --- Keri Hejl wrote: > Amy r, yeah, I am glad Heath got a job, I just hope > it works out. I finally talked to my dad, I bought > some things. I got my dress! Your right, about the > lap surgery, the more I think about it, I know it > will be good for us. It is still scary. ----Keri > > > > > > > YEAH!!! A new job for Heath that pays > well...that's great!!! > > > > Well, I sure hope your dad wouldn't offer to pay > for something as important > > as your wedding and then not come through. Maybe > he just needs a little > > prodding so he realizes you need to start planning > (and buying!) now!! > > > > -AmyR > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 25, 2001 Report Share Posted July 25, 2001 Keri, I don't blame you for being alittle hesitant on being cut open again. Anytime someone has something like that done, it is alittle scary. From what I have heard, it is really not that bad (easy for me to say, huh?) Take your time and decide what you want to do. What does Heath say about it? I am glad he is trying, I think you two will be ok, you just have been having a " rough time. " Hope his job goes well too. I will be thinking of you. Take care. --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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