Why does crying make you feel better?

[Guest guest]

Is it just me, or does crying make you feel soooo much better? I sit

here and cry, and then after it stops, a little while later I almost

want to force more tears because that's what helps!

And is it selfish to wish none of this ever happened? I mean, I

consider myself blessed to have 2 angel babies, but I feel like I

would give anything to make it all go away and have never happened!

Oh, what a terrible mother I am sounding like.

Oh, and a quick update on my dh, I am worried about him. I know he

hurts so bad and isn't letting it out. I am afraid he'll crumble one

of these days. He's completely diff. than how he was after the EP,

now he's so comforting and understanding, and I cannot believe how

strong our marriage is right now. But I am so worried about him. I

guess that's my job as his wife.

Jen