Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 Hi again everyone! Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your input, well wishes, concern, and prayers! It has helped me be " levelheaded " through all of this. Yes, it's late, but I returned home less than an hour ago, talked with my Mom, and Joe's boss (No, he's not going to get fired), and then of course came here. You all really have been a sanctuary of sorts for me through all of this and Joe said to say THANK YOU to everyone on here for all that I mentioned in the first paragraph. A question: I found out upon my return that his Free T4 levels were undetectable. Does anyone know how worried I should be? I haven't pulled out the books YET since I got home, but I will! He is on an EKG/heart monitor still and there is a box of Atropine taped to the wall above his head. He also had what I can only call a giant " contact pad " -- in case his heart rate goes too low -- so they can jump start him! Egad. He tells me he feels better, but his heart rate is only 43 now (they were happy it's gone UP) and -- well, I can't be there to look out for him! Ugh! When I arrived he was in tears as him Mom had called him (we're in Portland, she's in LA), and the priest had just visited. He said the priest had been so nice and they had shared Army stories -- he was very choked up. My parents are making a two hour drive tomorrow to spend the day with him, and will probably stay over tomorrow night insisting that I must be in need of emotional support. (They are great people!) I know this is already LONG, but I also wanted to vent a bit here ... while in the ER the doctor realized the gravity of Joe's situation. Tonight, the docs visiting us were ODs and while I liked one, the other seemed a bit too " glib " to Joe's situation. I asked her if he was indeed out of the risk of going into a coma (I just wanted to hear it) and she said, " Oh, there's no risk of THAT! That only happens to people when they've been Hypo for at least 5 years. " I don't think I'm going out on a long limb here to say that that is a very ignorant statement to make? Well, we've all heard of (and maybe have known and loved) people who've had heart problems for years, and die of a heart attack. There are also numerous cases where people die of heart attacks without any prior heart disease diagnoses! As I see it, his labs and pulse rate, the ER docs concern (he said he's seen four cases with the combined thyroid test results -- all were in comas -- and one died!), and Joe's symptoms indicate that YES this indeed was a possibility! Joe then asked her another relevant question (I can't remember what now) and she said, " Well, we don't see a lot of hypothyroid patients, so I don't really know. " Enough said. Fortunately she will NOT be his attending physician! Ha! ('Cause if she were I FIRE HER!) He will see another doctor, MD, tomorrow. She also said that she went to Med school with the gal he saw at the VA Hospital and that we really shouldn't give up on her -- that we should let her know what's going on with Joe. Why? I see absolutely no reason to waste my time with her. So we won't, end of story. And, yes, this is where my story needs to end. I miss my darling, but I will see him tomorrow after work. Thank you, thank you, thank you again everyone! Boy, -- and anyone else who is feeling " weird " after RAI -- please take Joe's story to heart. Go in and get some labs done TOMORROW!!!!!!! When I left Joe, he had a big smile on his face ... " I love you Ann. Thank you so much for everything. " Thank you all for everything! Hugs and love and prayers to all of you with this very volatile disease! Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 Hi again everyone! Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your input, well wishes, concern, and prayers! It has helped me be " levelheaded " through all of this. Yes, it's late, but I returned home less than an hour ago, talked with my Mom, and Joe's boss (No, he's not going to get fired), and then of course came here. You all really have been a sanctuary of sorts for me through all of this and Joe said to say THANK YOU to everyone on here for all that I mentioned in the first paragraph. A question: I found out upon my return that his Free T4 levels were undetectable. Does anyone know how worried I should be? I haven't pulled out the books YET since I got home, but I will! He is on an EKG/heart monitor still and there is a box of Atropine taped to the wall above his head. He also had what I can only call a giant " contact pad " -- in case his heart rate goes too low -- so they can jump start him! Egad. He tells me he feels better, but his heart rate is only 43 now (they were happy it's gone UP) and -- well, I can't be there to look out for him! Ugh! When I arrived he was in tears as him Mom had called him (we're in Portland, she's in LA), and the priest had just visited. He said the priest had been so nice and they had shared Army stories -- he was very choked up. My parents are making a two hour drive tomorrow to spend the day with him, and will probably stay over tomorrow night insisting that I must be in need of emotional support. (They are great people!) I know this is already LONG, but I also wanted to vent a bit here ... while in the ER the doctor realized the gravity of Joe's situation. Tonight, the docs visiting us were ODs and while I liked one, the other seemed a bit too " glib " to Joe's situation. I asked her if he was indeed out of the risk of going into a coma (I just wanted to hear it) and she said, " Oh, there's no risk of THAT! That only happens to people when they've been Hypo for at least 5 years. " I don't think I'm going out on a long limb here to say that that is a very ignorant statement to make? Well, we've all heard of (and maybe have known and loved) people who've had heart problems for years, and die of a heart attack. There are also numerous cases where people die of heart attacks without any prior heart disease diagnoses! As I see it, his labs and pulse rate, the ER docs concern (he said he's seen four cases with the combined thyroid test results -- all were in comas -- and one died!), and Joe's symptoms indicate that YES this indeed was a possibility! Joe then asked her another relevant question (I can't remember what now) and she said, " Well, we don't see a lot of hypothyroid patients, so I don't really know. " Enough said. Fortunately she will NOT be his attending physician! Ha! ('Cause if she were I FIRE HER!) He will see another doctor, MD, tomorrow. She also said that she went to Med school with the gal he saw at the VA Hospital and that we really shouldn't give up on her -- that we should let her know what's going on with Joe. Why? I see absolutely no reason to waste my time with her. So we won't, end of story. And, yes, this is where my story needs to end. I miss my darling, but I will see him tomorrow after work. Thank you, thank you, thank you again everyone! Boy, -- and anyone else who is feeling " weird " after RAI -- please take Joe's story to heart. Go in and get some labs done TOMORROW!!!!!!! When I left Joe, he had a big smile on his face ... " I love you Ann. Thank you so much for everything. " Thank you all for everything! Hugs and love and prayers to all of you with this very volatile disease! Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2002 Report Share Posted June 17, 2002 Ann, You can be in a walking, talking myxedema coma. You can only live 6 weeks with no thyroid hormone in your body. Stay far away from the woman that said it only happens after being hypo for 5 years!! Bottom line....Joe has had HORRIBLE treatment...bordering on malpractice and definately negligence. Do whatever you have to do to make sure that someone that knows what they are doing see's Joe in the hospital....and I'd keep that idiot OD away from him. Sorry so harsh, but it's appalling how he has been neglected by the medical folks there. He's definately in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated as you can. Doris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2002 Report Share Posted June 17, 2002 Dear Anne I just read about your last few days. I really hope Joe is continues to get better. How frightening for you both. As other have said, what a blessing you are for Joe. I hope you are looking after yourself too. You are both in our prayers. Love Caroline Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2002 Report Share Posted June 17, 2002 Ann, I have to agree with this: it is near criminal that Joe has been allowed to get into this state. His doctor should be reported to the state medical board or something . . . B Re: Joe's Update -- It's a long post! > Ann, > You can be in a walking, talking myxedema coma. You can only live 6 weeks > with no thyroid hormone in your body. Stay far away from the woman that said > it only happens after being hypo for 5 years!! > > Bottom line....Joe has had HORRIBLE treatment...bordering on malpractice and > definately negligence. Do whatever you have to do to make sure that someone > that knows what they are doing see's Joe in the hospital....and I'd keep that > idiot OD away from him. > > Sorry so harsh, but it's appalling how he has been neglected by the medical > folks there. > > He's definately in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated as you > can. > > Doris > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2002 Report Share Posted June 17, 2002 Ann, You and Joe are in my prayers. Best wishes for a great recovery.. LlBuddha@... wrote: > Hi again everyone! > > Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your > input, well wishes, concern, and prayers! It has helped me be > " levelheaded " > through all of this. > > Yes, it's late, but I returned home less than an hour ago, talked with my > Mom, and Joe's boss (No, he's not going to get fired), and then of course > came here. You all really have been a sanctuary of sorts for me > through all > of this and Joe said to say THANK YOU to everyone on here for all that I > mentioned in the first paragraph. > > A question: I found out upon my return that his Free T4 levels were > undetectable. Does anyone know how worried I should be? I haven't > pulled > out the books YET since I got home, but I will! > > He is on an EKG/heart monitor still and there is a box of Atropine > taped to > the wall above his head. He also had what I can only call a giant > " contact > pad " -- in case his heart rate goes too low -- so they can jump start > him! > Egad. He tells me he feels better, but his heart rate is only 43 now > (they > were happy it's gone UP) and -- well, I can't be there to look out for > him! > Ugh! > > When I arrived he was in tears as him Mom had called him (we're in > Portland, > she's in LA), and the priest had just visited. He said the priest had > been > so nice and they had shared Army stories -- he was very choked up. My > parents are making a two hour drive tomorrow to spend the day with > him, and > will probably stay over tomorrow night insisting that I must be in > need of > emotional support. (They are great people!) > > I know this is already LONG, but I also wanted to vent a bit here ... > while > in the ER the doctor realized the gravity of Joe's situation. > Tonight, the > docs visiting us were ODs and while I liked one, the other seemed a > bit too > " glib " to Joe's situation. I asked her if he was indeed out of the > risk of > going into a coma (I just wanted to hear it) and she said, " Oh, > there's no > risk of THAT! That only happens to people when they've been Hypo for > at least > 5 years. " I don't think I'm going out on a long limb here to say that > that > is a very ignorant statement to make? > > Well, we've all heard of (and maybe have known and loved) people > who've had > heart problems for years, and die of a heart attack. There are also > numerous > cases where people die of heart attacks without any prior heart disease > diagnoses! > > As I see it, his labs and pulse rate, the ER docs concern (he said > he's seen > four cases with the combined thyroid test results -- all were in comas > -- and > one died!), and Joe's symptoms indicate that YES this indeed was a > possibility! Joe then asked her another relevant question (I can't > remember > what now) and she said, " Well, we don't see a lot of hypothyroid > patients, so > I don't really know. " Enough said. Fortunately she will NOT be his > attending physician! Ha! ('Cause if she were I FIRE HER!) > > He will see another doctor, MD, tomorrow. > > She also said that she went to Med school with the gal he saw at the VA > Hospital and that we really shouldn't give up on her -- that we should > let > her know what's going on with Joe. Why? I see absolutely no reason > to waste > my time with her. So we won't, end of story. > > And, yes, this is where my story needs to end. I miss my darling, but > I will > see him tomorrow after work. Thank you, thank you, thank you again > everyone! > Boy, -- and anyone else who is feeling " weird " after RAI -- > please > take Joe's story to heart. Go in and get some labs done TOMORROW!!!!!!! > > When I left Joe, he had a big smile on his face ... " I love you > Ann. > Thank you so much for everything. " > > Thank you all for everything! > > Hugs and love and prayers to all of you with this very volatile disease! > > Ann > > ------------------------------------- > The Graves' list is intended for informational purposes only and is > not intended to replace expert medical care. > Please consult your doctor before changing or trying new treatments. > ---------------------------------------- > DISCLAIMER > > Advertisments placed on this yahoo groups list does not have the > endorsement of > the listowner. I have no input as to what ads are attached to emails. > --------------------------------------------------------------------------------\ ------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2002 Report Share Posted June 17, 2002 Ann - Thanks for the update - sounds like Joe is doing better! I'm so glad! I'm also happy your parents are coming to stay for a bit - you can use all the moral support you can get! What a scary time! And that doctor that said you can't go into a coma unless you've been hypo for 5 years? Yikes! Maybe he flunked the endocrinology part of the test! Seriously, that's awful - it's really frightening some of the ignorance of doctors about thyroid disease. I'm doubly glad that isn't your doctor. Thank goodness you went with your instincts. As for the undetectable FT4, that seems pretty reasonable if his TSH was that high - remember that the TSH lags 6 weeks behind the FT4, so imagine what shape he'd have been in had you waited. Don't want to think about it. I still can't believe they just cancelled his appt. at the VA. I really thank God that he's got you to watch out for him. He was probably so hypo and felt so lousy that he _couldn't_ think of what to do for himself! Poor thing! >When I left Joe, he had a big smile on his face ... " I love you Ann. >Thank you so much for everything. " So sweet - gave me tears! Sounds like he's feeling a bit better! You take care and let him know we're out here praying for him! Re: Joe's Update -- It's a long post! >Hi again everyone! > >Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your >input, well wishes, concern, and prayers! It has helped me be " levelheaded " >through all of this. > >Yes, it's late, but I returned home less than an hour ago, talked with my >Mom, and Joe's boss (No, he's not going to get fired), and then of course >came here. You all really have been a sanctuary of sorts for me through all >of this and Joe said to say THANK YOU to everyone on here for all that I >mentioned in the first paragraph. > >A question: I found out upon my return that his Free T4 levels were >undetectable. Does anyone know how worried I should be? I haven't pulled >out the books YET since I got home, but I will! > >He is on an EKG/heart monitor still and there is a box of Atropine taped to >the wall above his head. He also had what I can only call a giant " contact >pad " -- in case his heart rate goes too low -- so they can jump start him! >Egad. He tells me he feels better, but his heart rate is only 43 now (they >were happy it's gone UP) and -- well, I can't be there to look out for him! >Ugh! > >When I arrived he was in tears as him Mom had called him (we're in Portland, >she's in LA), and the priest had just visited. He said the priest had been >so nice and they had shared Army stories -- he was very choked up. My >parents are making a two hour drive tomorrow to spend the day with him, and >will probably stay over tomorrow night insisting that I must be in need of >emotional support. (They are great people!) > >I know this is already LONG, but I also wanted to vent a bit here ... while >in the ER the doctor realized the gravity of Joe's situation. Tonight, the >docs visiting us were ODs and while I liked one, the other seemed a bit too > " glib " to Joe's situation. I asked her if he was indeed out of the risk of >going into a coma (I just wanted to hear it) and she said, " Oh, there's no >risk of THAT! That only happens to people when they've been Hypo for at least >5 years. " I don't think I'm going out on a long limb here to say that that >is a very ignorant statement to make? > >Well, we've all heard of (and maybe have known and loved) people who've had >heart problems for years, and die of a heart attack. There are also numerous >cases where people die of heart attacks without any prior heart disease >diagnoses! > >As I see it, his labs and pulse rate, the ER docs concern (he said he's seen >four cases with the combined thyroid test results -- all were in comas -- and >one died!), and Joe's symptoms indicate that YES this indeed was a >possibility! Joe then asked her another relevant question (I can't remember >what now) and she said, " Well, we don't see a lot of hypothyroid patients, so >I don't really know. " Enough said. Fortunately she will NOT be his >attending physician! Ha! ('Cause if she were I FIRE HER!) > >He will see another doctor, MD, tomorrow. > >She also said that she went to Med school with the gal he saw at the VA >Hospital and that we really shouldn't give up on her -- that we should let >her know what's going on with Joe. Why? I see absolutely no reason to waste >my time with her. So we won't, end of story. > >And, yes, this is where my story needs to end. I miss my darling, but I will >see him tomorrow after work. Thank you, thank you, thank you again everyone! > Boy, -- and anyone else who is feeling " weird " after RAI -- please >take Joe's story to heart. Go in and get some labs done TOMORROW!!!!!!! > >When I left Joe, he had a big smile on his face ... " I love you Ann. >Thank you so much for everything. " > >Thank you all for everything! > >Hugs and love and prayers to all of you with this very volatile disease! > > Ann > > >------------------------------------- >The Graves' list is intended for informational purposes only and is not intended to replace expert medical care. >Please consult your doctor before changing or trying new treatments. >---------------------------------------- > DISCLAIMER > >Advertisments placed on this yahoo groups list does not have the endorsement of >the listowner. I have no input as to what ads are attached to emails. >--------------------------------------------------------------------------- ----------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2002 Report Share Posted June 17, 2002 Ann, What a blessing it is for Joe to have you there for him!!! It is good to hear that Joe is doing a little better! It is unbelievable that this sort of thing can happen in this day and age!!! If you don't feel comfortable with any doctor treating Joe. Go with your insticts, they are good and tell them to get out of there immediately!!! You guys have gone thru enough!!! I cannot believe that doctor said that there was no risk for coma and it only happens if a person is hypo for 5 years. I hope you got her name too. and definately when Joe is better, report this situation to the medical board!!! I was glad to read that your parents were coming. It will definately give you a little time to rest! My hubby and I are keeping you and Joe in our thoughts and prayer!!! lil deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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