Guest guest Posted April 23, 2001 Report Share Posted April 23, 2001 r, thank you so much. I am going to need it.---Keri > > Keri, > sending you +++++++++++ & ****************** > lisa r > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 23, 2001 Report Share Posted April 23, 2001 cary, I just noticed that we have the same names too! (I have really lost my mind after this ep.)Anyway, my ep was on Dec. 7 2000 We went to the er at Baylor (in downtown) I had already ruptured. My doctor who did the surgery was Dr. b , and I would never go back to him. He was not my regular dr. He made us feel like we were wasteing his time. How did they treat your ep? I am glad to hear your dr. situation was a little better than mine. how long have you lived in dallas?---Keri > > My ep was in March and I was at Medical Center of Plano. My doctor > was Dr. Arlene s, and I think she is awesome. My RE is Dr. > and is also at Medical Center, although IVF is done at > the A.R.T.s dept. at Presbyterian of Plano! > > Now....your turn???????? > : ) > > Cary > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 23, 2001 Report Share Posted April 23, 2001 Keri I have to wait until tomorrow or MAYBE WEDNESDAY! I am not sure why I have to wait so long. I guess I just have to hang in there. (more waiting) You are coming into 2ww....wow, I pray for you and Heath! I am telling you, your world can change in a minute...for the best, for a change! It seems like around here pgs having been happening in plural form! me, AmyR and ......(smile) --- Keri Hejl wrote: > susan, thanks so much for your prayers and kind > thoughts, they mean so much to me too, because you > understand what I am going through, and that means > the world to me. I am waiting until, I think March 2 > I can do a hpt. When do you get you bw results back? > +++++ thoughts for your blood work.---Keri > > > > > Keri > > It is so hard. I am praying for you and Heath, > that > > you one day have some peace too. > > When will your 2ww be? I will be praying for you! > I > > hope this month will be the one!!! > > Thanks for the kind words, the really mean alot. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________ > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Find the best deals on the web at AltaVista > > > > > Shopping! > > > > > http://www.shopping.altavista.com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 23, 2001 Report Share Posted April 23, 2001 Keri As you already know, Trooper will always have a special place in your heart and he would want his mom to be happy, no matter what. It will be ok. I pray that you will be getting nauseous with the rest of us really soon! > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 23, 2001 Report Share Posted April 23, 2001 My ep was on March 1st and my doctor was wonderful. Even DH2b thinks she is the best! She was very compassionate to me and him....never leaving the room without hugging both of us and calling on the weekends to check on " us " ....not just me, but both of us. I had emergency surgery and my left tube was removed. Once she got in she realized I had already ruptured and still wonders how I could not be in pain.....(I never was). I've lived in Dallas for a little over a year now. We live right off the tollway at ford and my son, , goes to Plano schools. I'm assuming you live inside 635??? Cary Re: Keri > cary, I just noticed that we have the same names too! (I have really lost my mind after this ep.)Anyway, my ep was on Dec. 7 2000 We went to the er at Baylor (in downtown) I had already ruptured. My doctor who did the surgery was Dr. b , and I would never go back to him. He was not my regular dr. He made us feel like we were wasteing his time. How did they treat your ep? I am glad to hear your dr. situation was a little better than mine. how long have you lived in dallas?---Keri > > > > > My ep was in March and I was at Medical Center of Plano. My doctor > > was Dr. Arlene s, and I think she is awesome. My RE is Dr. > > and is also at Medical Center, although IVF is done at > > the A.R.T.s dept. at Presbyterian of Plano! > > > > Now....your turn???????? > > : ) > > > > Cary > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2001 Report Share Posted April 24, 2001 Keri As you know, I am here anytime for you. I hope 2ww goes fast for you. (I know it never feels like it) I am feeling ok today. It seems to be a night, the last two nights. Thanks for asking. Keri Hejl wrote: , thank you so much for your kind words. It means so much to me. You guys keep me thinking positive. How are you feeling?----Keri > > Keri > As you already know, Trooper will always have a > special place in your heart and he would want his mom > to be happy, no matter what. It will be ok. I pray > that you will be getting nauseous with the rest of us > really soon! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2001 Report Share Posted April 25, 2001 , yes that is amazing. She is amazing. She is the sweetest little woman I have ever met. She just quit her job last year on her 102 b-day. She worked for the local newspaper. She amazes everyone around her.----Keri > > > > Keri > OMG...103 that is amazing....I hope she has a great bday and celebrates! > > > > Keri Hejl wrote: > > Jeanette, why do you have to have a c-section? if you don't mind me asking? Your actual due date is my step great grandmothers b-day. She will be 103 this year!!!---Keri > > > > > keri > > > > my actual due date is june 27 but i am having a sceduled c-section on the > > 21st. > > > > jeanette > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 2, 2001 Report Share Posted May 2, 2001 Keri, I hope you and Heath are doing better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 2, 2001 Report Share Posted May 2, 2001 Keri, I think that can be pretty normal. Emotions are still running high. It is a very stressful time. Men handle things so differently. My dh doesn't really talk about it, unless I push some and even than it is very limited. The other day I mentioned about my fears and " what happened to me last time " and he said, " it happen to him too " Since he doesn't talk about it, it is hard sometimes, because I have no idea how he feels. It is like pulling teeth! I know this rough time will pass. +++++ thoughts for ttc and you and Heath Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2001 Report Share Posted May 3, 2001 Keri That is true, we have no control over things, it is hard to except that sometimes (at least for me) You know I have you in my thoughts. I hope you and Heath are doing better. I am sorry af showed up. (waiting for her I think is the worst part) I go back to dr on the 15th and I guess we will set up u/s than since my ins will not allow me to have u/s in ob's office!! Thanks for asking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2001 Report Share Posted May 3, 2001 Keri, boy are you right. It is so unfair that we ever had to experience such losses. It still makes me mad sometimes. Nothing is ever the same after the loss of your baby. People don't understand, even if you were only pg for a week, it is still a major loss, it doesn't matter. It makes me so sad when I see a new member, because I know they are suffering. I wish there didn't have to be anymore of us being afraid. You know you can vent anytime. What you are saying makes perfect sense. There is so much on our minds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2001 Report Share Posted May 4, 2001 Keri, I just want you to know that ttc after an ep can put such a strain on a relationship. I know it has for me and dh.... we see things differently and grieve differently and it can make for some " tense " moments around here!! I wasn't going to share this(was embarrassed) but I did a HPT test today even thougth I got af... it was soo light and only 2 days that I was sure it was another ep... it was (-)... so I think we all feel the fear even when af shows up. Going to Arizona was the best medicine for our relationship... we were just soo lucky that, that business trip fell in our laps or I don't know where we'd be.... i was getting ready to just go rent a room in a local hotel and " pretend " we were on vacation!! Hang in there!! lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 6, 2001 Report Share Posted May 6, 2001 The " ugly ole witch " is more than rude. In the South we refer to it as " tacky " which is the ultimate insult. -Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2001 Report Share Posted May 7, 2001 Darci, thank you for your kind words. I had af too with my ep. How are you feeling? How is school? good I hope.---Keri > > I am so sorry that your AF came. It hurts so much when > that happens. Hopefully, things with Heath and you > improve soon. When my dh and I started to ttc, I > planned to do a hpt every month even if AF came > because of the ep scare. With my ep, I still got my AF > even though I was pg ( didn't know at the time). You > are not a freak girl! Just healing from the emotional > scars of an ep. Take care and stay strong. > > Darci > > _______________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2001 Report Share Posted May 8, 2001 Keri...I hope you and Heath get to go. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2001 Report Share Posted May 8, 2001 Hi Keri, Yup, I told dh all about it. He's the more " scientific " one in the family, so was sad he didn't get to see his own spermies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2001 Report Share Posted May 9, 2001 Carmen, we were ttc and now he said he wants to wait until we are married, and I do too, but I am so torn, because I feel like we need to hurry, because I am afraid with time my tube will get worse, he is taking his time about getting married and it is driving me nuts. We do need some time to our selves and to be with each other, I don't know though he changes his mind to much!----Keri > > Keri, > The long weekend is definitely a good idea. Are you ttc? It's always better > in hotels you know... > Besides, love fests aren't just for ttc are they?!? You two sound like you > could use a good ole love fest! > Carmen > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2001 Report Share Posted May 9, 2001 , thanks I hope so too.---Keri > > > Keri...I hope you and Heath get to go. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2001 Report Share Posted May 9, 2001 , thanks for the encouragement. Things are not worse so I guess that is good. I have been trying to get the remains of our baby and I feel like he is not involved and I have been a wreck because of having to talk to people on the phone who say " there was nothing there for you to get " or " it was just tissue " and it brings back all of the feelings of the ep and I don't feel him supporting me, I guess I should tell him that. He has been working though and I don't want to be like I am complaining. I have been really busy with doing this and I am sorry I am not posting more. ---Keri > > keri, > i know what you mean about not talking as much after losing the baby... the > same thing happened both times to me and dh... it does get better...we are > back to " normal " now!! > > he is still not ready to ttc yet, but I am still hoping for june!! > > Hang in there, it DOES get better. > > lisa r > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2001 Report Share Posted May 9, 2001 Keri, I think my dh would be the same way as Heath.... do what you need to do for yourself to heal.... everyone grieves differently..no wrong or right way...just what is right for you... I am here if you need me, lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 Carmen, I am working on it. He just recently started working again, so it will be real soon when we set a date.----Keri > > Keri, > The waiting would drive me mad too. You need to convince him to tie the know > and ttc at the same time!!!!!! > Easier said than done, > Carmen > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 susan, I told Heath last night that I am still really grieving over our baby and I can't handle some things very well and that I really need him and he understands, we talked a little, more than lately, and we are going out of town tommorow so hopefully we can talk some more. Thanks for your kind words.---Keri > > > Keri, I am so sorry you are not getting the support you need right now. I hope you find some peace and you and Heath can work through this soon. > Keri Hejl wrote: > , thanks for the encouragement. Things are not worse so I guess that is good. I have been trying to get the remains of our baby and I feel like he is not involved and I have been a wreck because of having to talk to people on the phone who say " there was nothing there for you to get " or " it was just tissue " and it brings back all of the feelings of the ep and I don't feel him supporting me, I guess I should tell him that. He has been working though and I don't want to be like I am complaining. I have been really busy with doing this and I am sorry I am not posting more. ---Keri > > > > > keri, > > i know what you mean about not talking as much after losing the baby... the > > same thing happened both times to me and dh... it does get better...we are > > back to " normal " now!! > > > > he is still not ready to ttc yet, but I am still hoping for june!! > > > > Hang in there, it DOES get better. > > > > lisa r > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 I'm glad to hear that you and were able to sit down and talk some last night. I hope you both have a wonderful time and enjoy one another this weekend!! -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 keri, have a great time away tomorrow!! I bet it really helps you and Heath to get away... lisa r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2001 Report Share Posted May 10, 2001 Hi Keri, I hope your weekend away with Heath is very therapeutic and that you can find some common ground. (I still love the name Heath!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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