Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 WOOOOOHOOO Congratz Elaine Hugs, Jackie -- Re: It bothers me that > >> > ,> > I think a lot of times the husband etc. needs as much support as > the patient. Thats why I would never think of making this group for > women only. If it wasn't for my wonderful husband I don't know where > I would be today.> > There are groups out there just for breast cancer > patients/survivors but being isolated like that is not for me. But > everyone has their own thoughts and opinions which need to be > respected.> > Hugs> > nne> > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life> > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html> > > > Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:> > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html> > also check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:> > http://www.cancerclub.com> > Re: It bothers me that> > > > > > well...> > it bothered my husband more than me when I was diagnosed- he > wanted more than anything for the cancer to be in him and not > me...he was so distraught!> > I was so used to cancer with my family history...I was not > surprised when it came to visit...> > He needed this group and I wish he had found it then...> > We are about survival.> > I don't think survival has a gender.> > Ask away, and > > I hope you get an answer that will comfort you in your time of > need.> > Andree> > www.essentialsoapsinc.com > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 --- Of course, we would give him the link to BC2... Elaine , " & nne Svihlik " wrote: > > Well you ladies do what you want but I would NEVER turn anyone away with breast cancer. If you haven't already put any type of info on your homepage I would put that in there so any man with bc wanting to join would know right off the bat he is not welcome. Sad. > Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html > > Check out my breast cancer ornaments at: > http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html > also check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at: > http://www.cancerclub.com > Re: It bothers me that > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > well... > > > > > > it bothered my husband more than me when I was > > diagnosed- > > > > he > > > > > wanted more than anything for the cancer to be in him > and > > not > > > > > me...he was so distraught! > > > > > > I was so used to cancer with my family history...I > was > > not > > > > > surprised when it came to visit... > > > > > > He needed this group and I wish he had found it > then... > > > > > > We are about survival. > > > > > > I don't think survival has a gender. > > > > > > Ask away, and > > > > > > I hope you get an answer that will comfort you in > your > > time > > > > of > > > > > need. > > > > > > Andree > > > > > > www.essentialsoapsinc.com > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 wrote: > I joined this group for support, from the only people that could, > in my opinion, really understand because, their own spouses > feeling the same as me. Dear , I for one don't mind your being here. My husband is the best support I could wish for. I could wish he had some support himself, but he won't ask for it. I think your fiancee is a lucky lady, like me, to have a partner who cares. Best wishes, Margery. ============================================ margery@... in North Herts, UK ============================================ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 I too want to thank you for coming to this list. I know that if my husband were alive he would be hit harder by this than me. So keep up the good work supporting her. We'll keep praying for her. Janet/WA IDC- Stage I Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 14, 2006 Report Share Posted February 14, 2006 I'm sorry that you feel that way, because men can get breast cancer also. I don't think I have ever seen a vulgar remark made from any man in this group. Hope it works out for you. Patti -- It bothers me that there are men in the group. If I post a personal question, does that mean that the men will be reading it also? It is just not my style to talk about personal things with men other than my own husband. My check up is next week. I wanted to ask a couple of questions but I need to know first if all members see this, including the men. Lea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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