cary

April 24, 2001

I was on the floor too with my ep but I remember the pain were lasting only

for an hour or so in the mornings most of the time. I do not know if I really

had a rupture but they told me that my tube 'was looking very nasty'!

The second time I have the pain I faint on the floor I thought I was having a

heart attack as my shoulder paralized and I felt my arm dead and then I

started bleeding a lot, was when I knew for sure I was pg and something was

very wrong! We went to the hospital and they thought I had had a mc. They did

an u/s and saw something in the wom like looked like it although there were

fluid from the ovary, sign of an ep! they said! but they really did not know

so they told me to come back in a week for a blood test. I had to go te ER a

second time!!!!! and sent me home again because I was coming next day for my

blood test and they thought it could be af! Next day on they way to the

hospital very early in the morning I started to feel bad again. Once in the

hospital I just get worse the pain was unbearable I was on my knees because I

could not sit, pain was longer then but againg calmed after a while.

Any way a big odisea really!!!!

sorry for doing it so long!

MAPI

April 24, 2001

Cary ,

you are the first person, besidses me, that I have heard of that didn't have

any pain...when my dr. went it, he too was surprisesd that I had ruptured

and was bleeding out into my stomach... how far along were you?/ I was

about 7 1/2 weeks.. all i had was some very slight cramps I thought was

gas!!

How are you feeling??

lisa r

April 25, 2001

Hi Cary,

I read that you have started the process of IVF. I just wanna wish you all

the luck in the world and heres hoping that soon you will be expecting the

pitter patter of little feet. Good luck and take care.

Sheila

April 25, 2001

Thank you Sheila! Your well wishes really mean a lot! I so hope I will be

hearing those tiny little feet soon too as do I hope you will too!!

Thanks so much,

Cary

Re: Cary

> Hi Cary,

>

> I read that you have started the process of IVF. I just wanna wish you

all

> the luck in the world and heres hoping that soon you will be expecting the

> pitter patter of little feet. Good luck and take care.

> Sheila

>

April 25, 2001

Me too cary... I am the biggest baby.. I have no tolerance for pain at all!!

lisa r

April 25, 2001

Cary, I am so glad to hear things are moving along and no real pain. That is

pretty amazing that it didn't hurt. I am so glad and least that makes things

easier. The week of May 13th ...that is not too far away! I remember you

talking about cousin before that is good news they had their baby. Hannah

Suzanne, that is a beautiful name. Enjoy yourself this weekend. I still have

trouble sometimes with seeing a baby. When I was in dr office, a dh and wife

came in with newborn and it was hard to look at.Some days seem to be better than

others. I still think about the fact that I should of been 6 months along by

now. Yesterday and today I have been feeling pretty good. Yesterday, I don't

know what happened, when I came hope, out of nowhere I got exhausted and took

alittle nap than was wide awake. My bladder started to bother me some yesterday

and now all day today. (I had been on meds since surgery for feeling like I had

to go all the time) I am hoping it disappears again. I have a follow-up with

urologist this coming Monday.

Cary Pierce wrote:

I'm doing great! Thanks for asking. Gave myself my own Lupron injection

for the first time last night....no problemo!! Didn't hurt and in fact I

think I did a better job than DH2b (but don't tell him). hee hee Also, my

cousin had their baby last night....called me at 1:30 am to tell me they

were on the way to the hospital (I made them promise they would) so I'm all

excited for them and will be going back home this weekend to see the little

cutey pie!! (Hannah Suzanne) He's like my brother and me and his wife are

pretty close too. Well that's all for now.....Oh yeah....the doctor's

office said they will be doing egg retrieval sometime the week of May 13th

so I've only got a couple of weeks to go....YEAH!!!

Hope your little one is not giving you to much trouble (morning sickness),

but I know that you find comfort in it in some ways because its a sure sign

of a healthy pregnancy! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!!

Cary

>

> Howdy,Cary!! (just joking, I know you don't run around saying that!)

(smile) Thanks! How is all going with you?

>

> Cary Pierce wrote:

> >

> > ---------------------------------

> >

April 25, 2001

cary,

sending lots of +++++++ & *************** to you girl!!

lisa r

April 26, 2001

, I'm sorry to hear that your bladder is bothering you.....but maybe

it's just the baby pushing on you and not necessarily a real problem. But

it's great that you have an appt. with a specialist scheduled so he can make

sure all is well and take care of any problem pronto! I will definitely

keep you in my prayers and hope you find some relief until then.

And yes I'm very excited about the week of the 13th of May and the good

thing is that I don't have time to worry about it or be scared or anything.

I'm thinking of going home this weekend to see the new baby in the family

and then the following weekend I go to Chicago for work and then the next

weekend my cousins and a friend (all girls) are coming up to go shopping and

help me make finish up some wedding plans. We get married on July 21st and

I've not got a whole lot planned or thought out yet. Yes we are doing the

whole thing backwards....getting pregnant and then getting married, but we

are not exactly the traditional type, but mostly after the ep we just didn't

want to have to wait to try to have a baby so we aren't!!! It's funny

though....me and my mom went and ordered my dress and veil last night and

the bridal consultant was saying...OH YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO LOSE WEIGHT

BY JULY when I mentioned the dress being snug and so I had to tell her....if

I get my prayers answered I will gain weight by July which confused her so I

had to explain that I was doing IVF and she got SOOOOOO EXCITED!!! She has

had 2 eps and had both tubes removed and it caused her and her 1st husband

to divorce. She explained that IVF 10 years ago was not what it is today

and the cost was enormous. Now she is remarried and wants to have another

go at it and was asking questions and wants me to keep her updated....it was

actually kind of nice talking with her....a real person who knew exactly

what I had been through sitting beside me with compassion and excitement for

me!! I don't think my mother even understands...she just sat there quietly

listening.

Anyway...I've rattled on long enough.....please keep me updated and thank

you for your wonderful posts!

Cary

>

> Cary, I am so glad to hear things are moving along and no real pain. That

is pretty amazing that it didn't hurt. I am so glad and least that makes

things easier. The week of May 13th ...that is not too far away! I

remember you talking about cousin before that is good news they had their

baby. Hannah Suzanne, that is a beautiful name. Enjoy yourself this

weekend. I still have trouble sometimes with seeing a baby. When I was in dr

office, a dh and wife came in with newborn and it was hard to look at.Some

days seem to be better than others. I still think about the fact that I

should of been 6 months along by now. Yesterday and today I have been

feeling pretty good. Yesterday, I don't know what happened, when I came

hope, out of nowhere I got exhausted and took alittle nap than was wide

awake. My bladder started to bother me some yesterday and now all day

today. (I had been on meds since surgery for feeling like I had to go all

the time) I am hoping it disappears again. I !

> have a follow-up with urologist this coming Monday.

>

> Cary Pierce wrote:

> I'm doing great! Thanks for asking. Gave myself my own Lupron injection

> for the first time last night....no problemo!! Didn't hurt and in fact I

> think I did a better job than DH2b (but don't tell him). hee hee Also,

my

> cousin had their baby last night....called me at 1:30 am to tell me they

> were on the way to the hospital (I made them promise they would) so I'm

all

> excited for them and will be going back home this weekend to see the

little

> cutey pie!! (Hannah Suzanne) He's like my brother and me and his wife

are

> pretty close too. Well that's all for now.....Oh yeah....the doctor's

> office said they will be doing egg retrieval sometime the week of May 13th

> so I've only got a couple of weeks to go....YEAH!!!

>

> Hope your little one is not giving you to much trouble (morning sickness),

> but I know that you find comfort in it in some ways because its a sure

sign

> of a healthy pregnancy! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!!

>

> Cary

> >

> > Howdy,Cary!! (just joking, I know you don't run around saying that!)

> (smile) Thanks! How is all going with you?

> >

> > Cary Pierce wrote:

> > >

> > > ---------------------------------

> > >

April 26, 2001

Cary

Wow, it must of been nice to run into someone who really understands the depth

of your loss and all you are going through. That is ashame her 1st dh and her

got divorced. It can be very stressful. I can't remember the last time my mom

has said anything. As for doing everything backwards, I understand that. My dh

and I brought our townhouse and lived together about 5 years before we got

married. We have been together about 7 yrs now and thought we would have all the

time in the world to get pg. (surprise, didn't think anything would ever go

wrong!) Wow, you are going to be pretty busy!! I didn't realize you will be

getting married so soon (I am sure you posted, but I must of forgotten) I hope

all goes well! I know you have been through alot but try to really enjoy getting

ready for wedding. You deserve to be able to celebrate. (who knows, you might

just be celebrating 2 things!! (wow, I sure hope so) Who cares, if you are pg

when getting married!!! That would be untradional but who cares!!!!!! Who wants

to always be traditional?!