Guest guest Posted January 16, 2004 Report Share Posted January 16, 2004 Hello everyone, I'm one of those lurkie lews that rarely posts but reads every one. I'm a 38 year old female, BMI 50, no comorbidities. I have 2 sons (4 & 2), I am happily married, and my surgery is January 29th in San Diego with DR. Rumsey. I'm starting to get scared. Not of having the surgery, but of how I will behave towards food afterwards. I feel I have such little self control now with food, I don't want to go through this major life change only to have me sabbotage it with my lack of self discipline. Dr. Rumsey said he would like to se me lose 18 lbs. before surgery. I lost 15 before the holidays, but guess who's baa aack! I don't know if I'm just flippin out cause the reality of the surgery is so near, or if it's because I feel like I'm not going to live up to my end of the deal afterwards. Any words of wisdom will be most welcome!! Lori S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2004 Report Share Posted January 17, 2004 HI LORI AND EVERYONE, I TOO HAVE SURGERY COMING UP IN 12 MORE DAYS… AND FEELING SO OVERLY WHELMED. AND ANXIOUS. LORI SINCE WE’RE HAVING SURGERY THE SAME DAY, WANTED TO SAY I’M HAPPY TO AT LEASE KNOW SOME ONE GOING DOWN TO SAN DIEGO AT THE SAME TIME AS ME. MY HUSBAND AND I ARE GOING A FEW DAYS AHEAD TO RELAX, AND GET MY HEAD ON STRAIGHT. LOOKING SO FORWARD TO GETTING TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE LIGHTER SIDE TOO! I’AM A 55 YRS OLD MOM OF TWO DAUGHTERS, AND TWO GRAND CHILDREN. I LL BE TRAVELING FROM SAN JOSE, TO SAN DIEGO, AND STAYING AT THE SOMMERSET SUITES. I’VE BEEN REALLY FIGHTING TO GET RID OF MY REQUIRED 10%. AND KEEPING IT OFF, AND NOT GAINING BEFORE I GET TO SAN DIEGO. SELF CONTROLL IS NOT ONE OF MY SUBJECTS OF EXPERTISE. I DO KNOW ALL THE GROUP MEETINGS I DO ATTEND, REALLY GIVE ME LOTS OF SUPPORT, AS DOES THIS GROUP SUPPORT. WHAT AREA ARE YOU FROM? I WAS IN A GROUP TONIGHT THAT HAS GIVEN ME LOTS OF HELP AND A FEW I EVEN SPEAK TO ON THE PHONE FOR SUPPORT. PACIFIC BARIATRICS SEMINAR IS GOING TO BE IN SAN JOSE NEXT WEEK AT THE SANTA TERESA HOSPITAL, AND I’LL BE THERE FOR MY WEIGH IN AND ALSO TO ATTEND THE SEMINAR FOR REINFORCEMENT OF WHAT I’M DOING…. HAHA. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME… PACFROG@... WE CAN REALLY SHARE OUR FEELINGS TOGETHER!! HUGZZZZZ PATTI BOLDING From: dollywa2000 Sent: Friday, January 16, 2004 4:51 PM To: gastric-bypass-support-kaiser-patients Subject: group member backround Hello everyone, I'm one of those lurkie lews that rarely posts but reads every one. I'm a 38 year old female, BMI 50, no comorbidities. I have 2 sons (4 & 2), I am happily married, and my surgery is January 29th in San Diego with DR. Rumsey. I'm starting to get scared. Not of having the surgery, but of how I will behave towards food afterwards. I feel I have such little self control now with food, I don't want to go through this major life change only to have me sabbotage it with my lack of self discipline. Dr. Rumsey said he would like to se me lose 18 lbs. before surgery. I lost 15 before the holidays, but guess who's baa aack! I don't know if I'm just flippin out cause the reality of the surgery is so near, or if it's because I feel like I'm not going to live up to my end of the deal afterwards. Any words of wisdom will be most welcome!! Lori S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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