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....[Vicki writes]....

>I think people are getting offended way to easily these days. Geesh!!

is right! Vicki

I agree. It's so much easier to focus on darkness instead of light.

I wonder why that is. I don't have the energy it takes to get

offended very easily anymore. Seems like a luxury of those who don't

have *real* issues to deal with. Of course this is just my

opinion...and I am not judging anyone else's desire to live as they

choose. I would just prefer to keep my world untainted by

hypersensitive people who have a need to find fault. There will always

be " fault. " I just choose not to focus on it. I find it totally

depressing.

As has been said, " there was only one perfect person...and he got

crucified " ...

so.. I hope we can lighten up a bit here.

~FireSpirit

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I agree very much with the 2 of you, you said it very well. Pam

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>Subject: Venting

>Date: Thu, 21 Dec 2000 12:11:32 -0500

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>Well said!!!! I felt the same way but did not express it as well as you

>did. Its getting very sickening to always watch what you say for fear of

>offending. I think people are getting offended way to easily these days.

>Geesh!! is right! Vicki

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>Message: 19

> Date: Thu, 21 Dec 2000 07:06:52 -0500

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>Subject: Re: I am Gone Also

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> > HalleluYAH Debbie. There is a place waiting for you where you do

>not have

> > to deny you Savior and Lord Jesus Christ. Call me

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> > Norma

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>Doggone it! Would ya all just *stop it*??? Just because someone

>complains, you are going to let them run you out of here? Those of us

>who have faith in *anything* are always going to get complaints from

>someone...somewhere...in this world of political correctness where

>everyone is supposed to walk alike, talk alike, think alike and

>believe alike.

>

>This is the exact kind of conflict that tyranny causes. It pushes

>everything underground...and behind the scenes. It burbles out of the

>corners and the seams until everything finally just blows up.

>

>Personally, I don't have any problem with *anyone's* beliefs and I

>would like to hear from *everyone* about how they deal with fibro...

>how they deal with pain...and, heck, how they deal with life. Period!

>

>Additionally, I don't mind when someone offers me up in prayer or

>tells me about their faith. I think it would be really great if people

>could start looking at *intent* and not spend so much energy being

>defensive about the way someone expresses kindness. Kindness is

>kindness...and someone saying they will pray is an *act of kindness*!

>

>Lord GOD, I am so sick of all the defensiveness, walking on eggshells

>because someone, somewhere, might be offended by how I express it.

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>Is this the kind of world we want to live in, where no one feels free

>to express anything lest they violate some unspoken PC rule?

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>Sheesh! Get over it!

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>~FireSpirit

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ive not said anything as not to cause problems but my Lord is everything to

me, im not pushing it, selling it or telling it as i believe this will

always offensive to some and im not accountable for anyones beliefs except

my own, but when im reading post and find something offensive to my beliefs

i hit delete cause i cant see everyone will be happy anyway its done, but

ive seen no overextreme in all post just someone intending to reach out to

another, what promted me to post is this is a great info. resourse and im on

the same christian group norma is on ( i love you sis, norma) but im on a

online alnon and they refer to higher power wich let me say is very

offensive to me and the ones who chose to aknowledge the Lord do without

slander and those who believe in something besides Jesus its thier higher

power! cant we please in the name of peace support each other in whatever

way we are comfortable?

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> ...[Vicki writes]....

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> >I think people are getting offended way to easily these days. Geesh!!

> is right! Vicki

>

>

> I agree. It's so much easier to focus on darkness instead of light.

> I wonder why that is. I don't have the energy it takes to get

> offended very easily anymore. Seems like a luxury of those who don't

> have *real* issues to deal with. Of course this is just my

> opinion...and I am not judging anyone else's desire to live as they

> choose. I would just prefer to keep my world untainted by

> hypersensitive people who have a need to find fault. There will always

> be " fault. " I just choose not to focus on it. I find it totally

> depressing.

>

> As has been said, " there was only one perfect person...and he got

> crucified " ...

>

> so.. I hope we can lighten up a bit here.

>

>

>

> ~FireSpirit

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  • 2 years later...

Lynne,

I can't imagine how would have reacted had the boys been a little

older when I got so sick. As it was, they were 8 and 10, and, well, they

asked him to marry me. I think they really needed a healthy parent and saw

as their rock. And, despite his juvenile temper tantrums, and his

threatening to leave each and every time I try to get in between him and

the boys with a punishment... He really has been the rock.

One think that REALLY helped is a book called MAINSTAY. It is written by

a caregiver for caregivers. It is a great resource for families and helps

us sickies understand that everyone's lives are forever hard and changed

and we all have to mourn some kind of losses outside the home.

I hope you can get it and read it.

love you,

children8_2000 wrote:

WELL I

THOUGHT THAT MY DAYS HAVE BEEN WORSE, BUT THIS ONE HAS JUST

ABOUT DONE IT FOR ME. NOT ONLY DO I FEEL LIKE SHIT,,,MY ENDOSCOPIC

SCOPING AGAIN SHOWED NOTHING,,,SURPRISE, EVEN THOUGH I AM EITHER

SITTING ON THE TOILET OR PUKING IN IT.AND TODAY HUBBY WENT OFF ON MY

OLDEST SON. HE DID IT TWICE AND THE SECOND TIME IT WAS IN FRONT OF

HIS FRIENDS, SO WE GOT INTO A BATTLE. i TOLD HIM THAT IF I HAD THE

MONEY I'D TAKE MY KIDS AND LEAVE HIM. HE SAID THAT HE HAS HAD A HARD

TIME "DEALING" WITH MY ILLNESS. "DEALING?" LIKE EVERY TIME I GO

INTO THE HOSPITAL, HE TREATS THE KIDS LIKE SHIT, AND EITHER GETS ON

MY CASE ABOUT THINGS LIKE THE BILLS NOT GETTING DONE AND HOW "HE

CAN'T DO IT ALL" OR HE IS BREAKING SOMETHING. AND THEN HE SAYS THAT

A LOT OF IT IS MY FAULT B/C I'M NOT THINKING OF HIS FEELINGS. "HIS

FEELINGS?" I'M THE ONE WHO IS SICK, AND I TRY TO DO IT ALL SO HE

DOESN'T HAVE TO. I HAVE ALSO TOLD HIM TO GO AND FIND SOMEONE

TO "TALK" TO ABOUT THIS AND WHATS ON HIS MIND, AND HE REFUSES. HE

SAYS THAT HE WOULD RATHER TAKE CARE OF IT HIMSELF. FINE,,,JUST STAY

OFF ME AND THE KIDS. RIGHT ABOUT NOW, i COULD CARE LESS IF I EVER

TAKE ANOTHER PILL OR SEE ANOTHER DR. AS LONG AS I LIVE. I HAVE TRIED

TO TAKE CARE OF HIM AND THE KIDS,,,AND TRIED TO HELPO HIM THROUGH MY

ILLNESS TOO, BUT ITS KINDOF HARD WHEN I CAN'T EVEN TAKE CARE OF

MYSELF. I TOLD HIM DON'T EVER BITCH AT ME AGAIN FOR NOT GOING TO THE

HOSPITAL WHEN I AM SICK OR SEEING THE DR AGAIN. I JUST REALLY DON'T

WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM AT ALL RIGHT NOW. AND I FEEL SO SORRY

FOR MY SON, HE YELLED AT HIM IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS AND THEY JUST

GOT UP AND LEFT, HE STILL HASN'T TALKED TO ME AT ALL ABOUT IT

EITHER.OH WELL, I JUST HATE MY LIFE,,,AND I HATE WHOEVER GAVE ME

THIS DISEASE AND LEFT ME THIS WAY. THANKS FOR LETTING ME SHOOT OFF

MY MOUTH

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In a message dated 8/7/2005 7:20:33 PM Pacific Standard Time,

seashell_555@... writes:

But people do recover from this so we just have to persevere and I

think we are " chosen " in a way for figuring this out. SO many people

never do and waste their entire lives dealing with undiagnosed mercury

issues. Try and focus on getting better step by baby step.

This is the only thing that keeps me going.... thinking that there has to be

a point to all this... something much bigger than myself. You would laugh

at all the crap I have tried to heal myself. I have been attuned to every

type of energy medicine out there (long story) and have given my fair share of

tobacco to Shamans and " Seers " in the hopes they could tell me what was wrong

with me. It always brings me back to that small still voice inside and the

exterior clues that are provided if only I can let my fear and mind chatter

settle down long enough to hear them. I know people don't like talking about

God (in whatever form is comfortable to them) when it comes to their health

or much of anything for that matter. The only thing that keeps me going is my

belief that She ;-) is on my side.

God Bless,

Kris

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In a message dated 8/7/2005 7:20:33 PM Pacific Standard Time,

seashell_555@... writes:

But people do recover from this so we just have to persevere and I

think we are " chosen " in a way for figuring this out. SO many people

never do and waste their entire lives dealing with undiagnosed mercury

issues. Try and focus on getting better step by baby step.

This is the only thing that keeps me going.... thinking that there has to be

a point to all this... something much bigger than myself. You would laugh

at all the crap I have tried to heal myself. I have been attuned to every

type of energy medicine out there (long story) and have given my fair share of

tobacco to Shamans and " Seers " in the hopes they could tell me what was wrong

with me. It always brings me back to that small still voice inside and the

exterior clues that are provided if only I can let my fear and mind chatter

settle down long enough to hear them. I know people don't like talking about

God (in whatever form is comfortable to them) when it comes to their health

or much of anything for that matter. The only thing that keeps me going is my

belief that She ;-) is on my side.

God Bless,

Kris

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This is the only thing that keeps me going.... thinking that there has to be

a point to all this... something much bigger than myself.

------I sorta had this same revelation this past winter, when I finally figured

out what was wrong with me (mercury poisoning). I felt like that is why God

put me through all of this, was to help other people, becauseI don't think you

can really understand it unless you've " been there " . Maybe we are the ones

chosen to help put an end to this whole mess. Gives some purpose and meaning to

all of our suffering. Anyway, I understand what you feel,

Kris.------------jackie t.

You would laugh

at all the crap I have tried to heal myself. I have been attuned to every

type of energy medicine out there (long story) and have given my fair share of

tobacco to Shamans and " Seers " in the hopes they could tell me what was wrong

with me. It always brings me back to that small still voice inside and the

exterior clues that are provided if only I can let my fear and mind chatter

settle down long enough to hear them. I know people don't like talking about

God (in whatever form is comfortable to them) when it comes to their health

or much of anything for that matter. The only thing that keeps me going is my

belief that She ;-) is on my side.

God Bless,

Kris

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This is the only thing that keeps me going.... thinking that there has to be

a point to all this... something much bigger than myself.

------I sorta had this same revelation this past winter, when I finally figured

out what was wrong with me (mercury poisoning). I felt like that is why God

put me through all of this, was to help other people, becauseI don't think you

can really understand it unless you've " been there " . Maybe we are the ones

chosen to help put an end to this whole mess. Gives some purpose and meaning to

all of our suffering. Anyway, I understand what you feel,

Kris.------------jackie t.

You would laugh

at all the crap I have tried to heal myself. I have been attuned to every

type of energy medicine out there (long story) and have given my fair share of

tobacco to Shamans and " Seers " in the hopes they could tell me what was wrong

with me. It always brings me back to that small still voice inside and the

exterior clues that are provided if only I can let my fear and mind chatter

settle down long enough to hear them. I know people don't like talking about

God (in whatever form is comfortable to them) when it comes to their health

or much of anything for that matter. The only thing that keeps me going is my

belief that She ;-) is on my side.

God Bless,

Kris

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Very well-put Kris! You can't be *that* poisoned ;

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> In a message dated 8/7/2005 7:20:33 PM Pacific Standard Time,

> seashell_555@y... writes:

>

> But people do recover from this so we just have to persevere and I

> think we are " chosen " in a way for figuring this out. SO many

people

> never do and waste their entire lives dealing with undiagnosed

mercury

> issues. Try and focus on getting better step by baby step.

>

>

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