reaction to discussion about childrne

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chantelle. ur argument is vague, You mentioned that you shouldnt

have childrne because they might have charge, then you say that you

want to have a chaild you contradict your self, so make up ur mind.

I dont think asnwering questions like these should be allowed unless

you are a proffesional. I can see that there are many assumptions

but no definate answeres.

If had a kid and he or she had charge I wouldnt be sad or

dosapointed. God made the child that way for a reason, dont you

notice that you can learn so much from a child that has charge , you

end up elearning more about your self, thats the point, and if any

of you know dont know graham bell pls email me and I ll tell you

hhow he thought that deaf people shouldnt be married because then

they would have deaf children in a result. In my opinion I think

people worry to much about whats the results would be rather then

the challange would be.

[Guest guest]

I WASNT FRICKEN VAUGE I SAID I COULDNT USE MY OND DAMN EGGS. I WOULD

LOVE TO HAVE KIDS BUT I HAVE TO USE SOMEONE ELCES EGGS.

[Guest guest]

and anyways meg said we arnt sure, I said it wasnt a sure thing. You

are sick if you actualy would be willing to bring in a kid into the

world knowing they could have what you have, only possibly worse.

Its one thing if a parent who may only have say 2 or 3 percent

(according to the charge manual wich I am looking at right now), the

reacurrence rate is low in that way. Meg said with one child its

50/50. I will bring back my downs syndrome example. If you had downs

syndrome, would you risk giving it to your offspring? We arnt

talking just deafness with charge. I am talking about all the hart

issues, health issues and quality of life.

Anyways wanting to have kids and having kids are two different

things. I can want kids, but not want to use my own eggs. I can 100

percent have kids (called ADOPTION), I just dont want to use my own

eggs (I have been told by meg in a similar discussioun when chip

brought this up a few years ago, im sure a few people on this list

will remember this topic occuring before cause chip brings it up

once in a while), however there is the possibility (wich I did

mention in earlier posts) that I could use doner eggs. I cant

believe your not mature enough to have understood that.

One other thing paul, I am trying to enjoy this list and ive been

here longer then you so i am not going to bring up the whole same

arguments all over again. So I sugest you perhaps stop pretending

your so much more intellegent then me by making me look stupid. You

are a rude little shit so before you go critisizing me, go read all

the posts for the last 5 or so years on this topic and then come

back and try and say im being vauge.

Chip, please stay out of this argument between and me ok, this

isnt about you, I would apreciate it if you wouldnt take anything

personal. thanks

Chantelle