Lou and Sandie

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(((((((((((((((((((((( Lou and Sandie)))))))))))))))))))))))

Sandie,

We have to set boundaries and keep 'em in taking care of

ourselves. Don't you feel guilty for one minute. I've been

through the ringer when it comes to worrying about a

daughter, and at some point you have to " let life happen

to them " . You've done all you can already. It's time for

you to put yourself first now - it's critical to your health

and the best example you could set. You are loved.

Lou,

I can relate to having to drive across the street. ugh. I hate

this disease. You've had so many hard things in your life.

I'm glad that your meds keep you from puddling up in a

corner somewhere. Sometimes that's what we're all

inclined to do, even though it's never helpful. You're

important to us. Hang in there.

Bruce and ,

I refuse to think cancer. Positive thoughts are drenching

you both.

Now that I know what ROFLMAO is, PMPLMAO is even funnier!

Sadder, truer... but funnier. Very clever, .

,

I agree that certain situations seem to demand more

colorful language, although I try to keep it to a minimum.

I think context is important. I have a cousin that curses for

attention or shock effect - that's very unappealing. I certainly

don't want to have to pay for my indiscretions - egads -

although the PFF is a worthy cause. :-) I often get a charge out

of the descriptive words you use. I think we're " spout off "

friendly here.

Joyce,

I'll be anxious to hear what you decide about the new med.

I hate your decline and hearing that the CellCept is likely

not benefitting you. I'm still on it. Is your flow still 8L

continuous with exertion (basically, moving)?

Beth,

I'm glad you'll get to see next week! Bet you'll get

plenty of those wonderful hugs that sons give their mamas.

I can't wait for mine next week, too.

Jane,

Please don't ignore yourself or your limitations, no matter

what the season or circumstance. You're the only one who

can control your reaction to the grumpies around you. I

hate to think of the possible health consequences of you

pushing too hard or being anxious and angry. I want you

to be good to you even when no one else is (easier said

than done). God loves you lots, and we do too.

Hugs and blessings,

Gwynne IPF 7/04 listed for transplant 3/07 Texas