Re: Terrible Tuesday

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Peggy~

Prayers are being lifted for you and your whole family. I was just telling Tom yesterday that when it rains, it pours. We're going through a tremendously rough time as well.

I am sorry to hear about your finances. We are in the process of doing the debt buster thing ourselves. Then yesterday I hear that we have to cough up $600.00 by the end of this week. Well, let's just say, I fully expect to find a sebpeona at our door as well.

I am so very sorry to hear about 's mother. Oh my gosh! Does she want to die? Why in the world wouldn't she want to go to the hospital if she's coughing up blood? And 's brother!.....That's just like your typical alcoholic to let someone go through this for so long without seeking medical help. They are usually too busy worrying about when they're gonna get that next drink. NOTHING is as important as that.

I do hope that things will start looking up for all of you. I am praying double time.

May God bless you and yours...

Val

Terrible Tuesday

Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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Oh Peggy~ Prayers from here. You just try to 'decompress' yourself. You need something

that is going to be some sort of fun, or at least relaxing for you. You are right. The stress

will surely bring on a flare...so try and stay FAR from the stress--if you can.

I am totally unfamiliar with a 'restraining' order being placed on your acct. That's just

all Greek to me..wish I had some advice on that...

I always stay clear of those debt consolidating deals--I think they're crooked in some

way...like they schmooze you into believing they really want to help you...but it's still about

THEM wanting to make $$ off of YOU!

Hope this all passes...and quickly, Peggy.

Someone who has had cancer, and continues any sort of smoking...well...I won't go there.

That's kind of a 'no-brainer'. love, hugs, prayers and best wishes--kate

Terrible Tuesday

Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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Oh Peggy... I am SO sorry! You have been hit from too many sides here, haven't you? I hope 's mom is okay and doesn't have lung cancer... Here's hoping for a better day for you and your family and your finances!hugs))Sharon This email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. Terrible Tuesday

Hey all,

I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.

All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order put

on it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debt

consolidating service and they messed up when we were served a

subpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so the

judge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwed

there. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. We

are scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.

We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00

worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the money

we have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about

$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from his

deferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make our

mtg. pymt.

I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on the

computer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim at

the credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made

come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to that

this was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't deal

with this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did because

it took all day to get things straightened out and we are still

fixing things today, things that get taken right out of the account

automatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can't

believe I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.

Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that his

mother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had been

coughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is looking

awful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want to

wake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her left

side. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids through

IV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CAT

scan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her left

lung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise to

us. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. and

that was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up blood

and she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!

I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she already

had cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, she

already had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell the

dr. I told him that.

His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowing

anything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece of

shit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beat

the shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he would

have killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn't

want the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready and

so is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asks

her if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to the

hospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!! ! said they

can't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.

He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also a

smoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn't

pay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He's

going to lose the whole family after she's gone.

OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it through

everything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us away

from the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.

Love to all,

Peggy

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Oh my goodness Peggy. You certainly don't need this on top of the MS. Lots of prayers things get better SOON!

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Terrible Tuesday

Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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Oh wow! That IS an awful lot of awful...I'll light a candle for y'all and hope to see you back soon, with better news...meanwhile, try not to stress TOO much, I know, easier said then done... Hugs Akiba -- Terrible Tuesday Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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Hi you have a full plate on your hands and I feel for you and I hope all works out well.

Bill

Terrible Tuesday

Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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Peggy, what a nightmare. You are all in my prayers.

~Trista~********************************When the world says, "give up,"Hope whispers, "try it one more time."

Terrible Tuesday

Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day. Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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{{{{Peggy!}}}} I am so sorry for all your going

through. I feel so bad for s mom,thats so sad. I

will be praying for her and all of you. I hope your

bank troubles are resolved. Thats alot of money. Is

there anyway you guys could stop the direct deposit? I

hope so,maybe it will be less stress to worry about

them taking it out. Hang in there. Im praying it all

comes into place soon. Take care of yourself during

all this. Love ya lots!

cassy

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wrote:

> Hey all,

>

> I may not be on that often for a while. We have a

lot going on here.

> All in one day. Our account at the bank had a

restraining order put

> on it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through

a debt

> consolidating service and they messed up when we

were served a

> subpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go

to court so the

> judge decided on behalf of the creditors. So

basically we are screwed

> there. We can't do anything, not even cash checks

through there. We

> are scrambling as s paycheck gets directly

deposited in there.

> We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an

extra $150.00

> worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is

sending us the money

> we have built up in our acct with them which amounts

to about

> $2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency

loan from his

> deferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be

able to make our

> mtg. pymt.

>

> I of course, was out of control when I pulled our

acct. up on the

> computer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called

my friend Kim at

> the credit union and she helped as much as she

could. I made

> come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told

him he had to that

> this was about his family, his life, his future, and

I couldn't deal

> with this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good

thing he did because

> it took all day to get things straightened out and

we are still

> fixing things today, things that get taken right out

of the account

> automatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about

STRESS!! I can't

> believe I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock

on wood.

>

>

> Then to top it off we get a phone call from s

sister that his

> mother has been taken to the hospital by his

brother. She had been

> coughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and

there she is looking

> awful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and

we don't want to

> wake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for

sure on her left

> side. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her

some fluids through

> IV as she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were

going to do a CAT

> scan and a chest Xray as they believe she has

nodules on her left

> lung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes

as no surprise to

> us. She has been feeling bad since they came back

from West Va. and

> that was in June. I asked her how long she had been

coughing up blood

> and she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking

days, nope WEEKS!!!

> I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell

the dr. she already

> had cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a

day smoker, she

> already had cancer years ago, uterine, which she

failed to tell the

> dr. I told him that.

>

> His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours,

without knowing

> anything, becuase it was time for him to go to the

bar, piece of

> shit!!! He ended up coming here to the house,

wanted to beat

> the shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in

the eye, he would

> have killed him. He went outside and he didn't yell

cuz he didn't

> want the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long.

is ready and

> so is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of

making her go, he asks

> her if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're

going to the

> hospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!!

said they

> can't do it in front of her though because he's her

precious jewel.

> He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an

alcoholic, also a

> smoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing

for her, doesn't

> pay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with

groceries. He's

> going to lose the whole family after she's gone.

>

> OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we

make it through

> everything and somehow come out on top, that someone

pulls us away

> from the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.

>

> Love to all,

> Peggy

>

>

>

>

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Oh Peggy, I am so sorry. I hope the bank issues resolve quickly and you won't be facing more fees and costs because of it. I also pray your MIL heals from this. And for an inordinate amount of patience on everyones part where The Golden, But not All There, Boy/Bother is concerned. HUGE hugs, Challis Peggy wrote: Hey all,I may not be on that often for a while. We have a lot going on here.All in one day.

Our account at the bank had a restraining order puton it for over $9000.00!!! We had been going through a debtconsolidating service and they messed up when we were served asubpeona and we didn't respond in time and didn't go to court so thejudge decided on behalf of the creditors. So basically we are screwedthere. We can't do anything, not even cash checks through there. Weare scrambling as s paycheck gets directly deposited in there.We have 5 things that will be bouncing so that is an extra $150.00worth of fees. The debt consolidation company is sending us the moneywe have built up in our acct with them which amounts to about$2000.00 and is hoping to get an emergency loan from hisdeferred comp account, otherwise we won't even be able to make ourmtg. pymt.I of course, was out of control when I pulled our acct. up on thecomputer yesterday, anxiety attack central. I called my friend Kim atthe credit

union and she helped as much as she could. I made come home from work. He wasn't going to but I told him he had to thatthis was about his family, his life, his future, and I couldn't dealwith this alone!!! He DID come home. It's a good thing he did becauseit took all day to get things straightened out and we are stillfixing things today, things that get taken right out of the accountautomatically. What a pain in the ASS!!! Talk about STRESS!! I can'tbelieve I haven't had a relapse with the MS. Knock on wood.Then to top it off we get a phone call from s sister that hismother has been taken to the hospital by his brother. She had beencoughing up blood. So we get to the hospital and there she is lookingawful. We talk to the dr. cause she is sleeping and we don't want towake her. The dr. tells us she has pneumonia for sure on her leftside. Her oxygen level is very low. They gave her some fluids throughIV as

she hasn't eaten in a few days, and they were going to do a CATscan and a chest Xray as they believe she has nodules on her leftlung, which of course means lung cancer. This comes as no surprise tous. She has been feeling bad since they came back from West Va. andthat was in June. I asked her how long she had been coughing up bloodand she put her fingers up, 1,2, now I'm thinking days, nope WEEKS!!!I'm like, are you shittin me? Now she didn't tell the dr. she alreadyhad cancer. We weren't surprised, she's a 3 pack a day smoker, shealready had cancer years ago, uterine, which she failed to tell thedr. I told him that.His brother left her in the ER after 4 hours, without knowinganything, becuase it was time for him to go to the bar, piece ofshit!!! He ended up coming here to the house, wanted to beatthe shit out of him, he couldn't even look him in the eye, he wouldhave killed him. He went outside and he

didn't yell cuz he didn'twant the neighbors to hear. He didn't stay long. is ready andso is our niece, Amber to kill him. Instead of making her go, he asksher if she WANTS to go. You TELL HER, MOM, you're going to thehospital, either in my car or in an ambulance!!!! said theycan't do it in front of her though because he's her precious jewel.He is almost 48 and still lives with her, an alcoholic, also asmoker. God, it pisses us all off, he does nothing for her, doesn'tpay her a dime to live there, doesn't even help with groceries. He'sgoing to lose the whole family after she's gone.OK, now I'm done. Please pray for all of us, that we make it througheverything and somehow come out on top, that someone pulls us awayfrom the giant abyss that we are being sucked into.Love to all,Peggy

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