Guest guest Posted March 3, 2000 Report Share Posted March 3, 2000 , You have every right to vent. I never went through a bitter divorce so I don't know how you feel. But you must be so stressed. Please relax. God helps work things out and sometimes for the better. The most important thing is your family and your health. I pray that you can relax and feel better this weekend! B. Burdick Circulation/Interlibrary Loan Phone: Yale Divinity Library Fax: 409 Prospect Street email: susan.burdick@... New Haven, CT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2000 Report Share Posted March 3, 2000 From C , so sorry to hear about your day. I've been through the same thing with my daughter. She's still dealing with the jerk 3 years later, but things are looking up. My thoughts and prayers are with you. With all of us pulling for you, things must get better. Lotz of hugs and prayers, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2000 Report Share Posted March 3, 2000 cathy your post broke my heart. just know that what goes around comes around and some day blain will get his. Why the heck didn't you lie through your teeth? I am not so dure your attorney was a very good one by the sounds of things. anyone know if some places are offering free pc's with internet subscriptions? there was a ton of them last year.. call me Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2000 Report Share Posted March 3, 2000 Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 3, 2000 Report Share Posted March 3, 2000 Hi This doesn't make sense right now, and it doesn't make it better, but you can always, always, always, start over. Please believe me. You stand up, after you catch your breath, after you have been kicked hard, you will know when that time comes, and start all over, and you can, just try it. Just a little at a time. Show everybody you are the good person you are, they all know it. Please just shine and prove you can do it! The computer thing can be taken care of I believe, by going to the local library and using it. You can sign up for free e-mail, it all works. It might not seem like it but, you can do it and you can take on anything. God won't let anyone push you further then you can go! Trust me you can do it. Debbie M. Court results > > > Hi everyone: > > here. Just got back from court and it didn't go too well. Guess > the good part is that they are making Blain pick stuff up with Police > but that I have to pay 1/2 of the hourly rate. He will take his sweet > time to do this just to play mental games with me he states he is > planning on taking hours to go through stuff and move it. > > Bad news is that he completely lied to the judge and the judge is giving > him the computer. I could just cry. Was so upset that I just left > work. May get fired but I was so upset from seeing and listening to him > I couldn't help it. I'm so low I don't know what to do. > > I don't have any money to buy a computer. He's bleeding me dry with all > the attorney bills. > When we bought the house 11/98 they accidently underestimated the escrow > by $2,100.00 so I just had to pay that in Feb. Can't sell the house > because there is a 10% pre-payment penalty of the whole mortgage if I > sell within the first 3 years and that with the bill for the realitor > will put me around $20,000 in debt with no place to live. Blain is > ready to go bankrupt so they will only come after me. I cashed in my > IRA to put down on the house so I'll also lose that too. My parents > have helped me out but they are in their 70's and don't have tons of > money to shell out. I feel so guilty taking their money. It should be > theirs to enjoy while their health is good. They worked hard all their > lives and deserve to spend it themselves. I won't even be able to make > my extra money needed to pay all the bills through transcription without > a computer. > > I have to figure out some way to get a computer. Will have a hard time > with credit since mortgage is so high compared to my salary. Am > looking at having to refinance the house in my name so any additional > debt will make getting the mortgage redone more difficult. Don't owe > alot on credit cards etc but ratio is gonna be a problem. All I know is > that this group is so important to me I have to figure out a way to get > one. > > Sorry to be a downer but I just feel like I got kicked in the stomach. > I'm sure Blain is having a good one with this and will rub it in my face > when I have to let him in the house to go through everything even though > I have already put his stuff out in the garage. guess It's just like > rubbing salt in a very big wound. He's going to lie about everything so > I really don't stand much of a chance of making it through this without > complete financial ruin. I don't think I have ever felt this low in my > life. I'm giving it to God to get me through because I am the end of > the rope barely hanging on. My voice is going, and am getting a lump in > my throat so stress today is taking it's toll. > > Don't mean to complain when so many others have health problems that far > surpass anything I am going through. Please just tolerate my post, I > just needed to vent somehow. > > Hope everyone else is having a better day than I am! > > Take care, > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > GET A NEXTCARD VISA, in 30 seconds! Get rates as low as 0.0% > Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR and no hidden fees. Apply NOW! > http://click./1/937/0/_/32049/_/952112613/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > hi and welcome. maybe we can come up with answers that our doctors can't > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2000 Report Share Posted March 4, 2000 , I was ld once that " the best revenge is living well " hang in there. HE didnot get your soul, your spirit, he tried. you did not let him. as ever call anytime Love denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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