Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 Hi ! Three years ago I started having very bad pains in my upper abdomen. I finally knew I had to go to ER because I've had surgery before (gall bladder) and it felt like that kind of pain. My husband took me there and I was immediately diagnosed with appendicitis and they scheduled me for surgery. I asked why my pain was in my upper ab. and they said sometimes the pain " looks for a place to go " When they did the pelvic exams I really hurt when they touched the area where the appendix is located (I was writhing in pain) They did exrays, ultra sound and some other tests and found that I had an ovarian cyst that ruptured and that is what was causing my pain. I was in the ER for about 8 hours (on Halloween!) and the pain eventually went away. At a follow up visit with my OB/GYN, she said it would not likely happen again. Well, within a couple of months it happened twice. I recognized what was going on and took Aleve right away. This time I didn't recognize it right away because so much time had gone by. The pain was getting bad (again in the upper ab area) and I finally figured it out! I took some Motrin and it subsided in about an hour. I'm definately going through some " stuff " . I've battled Irritable Bowel Syndrome - still have it but know how to control it. Then came the bad heartburn with a Hiatal Hernia (sp?) which I got under control. Then the ovarian cysts. Then more recently the Fibromyalgia (last Fall) - got that under control. Within six months of that diagnosis I got the Vestibuldynia (sp?) (June) and then last week I was diagnosed with Lichen Schlerosis. It seems like I get " everything " - fortunately my twin is healthier than me - although she does have the classic signs of Fibromyalgia, she's just not diagnosed yet - she needs a new Doc, I think. I can and will get better. A lot of it is the support I get here. I fell apart during a visit with my psychiatrist (I see her once a month) because I didn't know anyone else with VV and I really needed to speak with other women about it. Within days of that visit I went crazy on the internet and found this board. The best therapy is here, I think. She was giving me info on Fibromyalgia Support groups in the area - The FM is a walk in the park compared the the VV! Anyway, sorry so long. It's great to vent sometimes! > > Oh my goodness, poor girl. If it's not one thing it's another. Are you > doing a little better by now? Where does ovarian cyst hurt? Is it in > your side? > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 Can you tell us how you got the fibromyalgia under control? Dusty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 You just go ahead and talk. that is how we all learn. Now on the Irritable Bowel. What is it and how are you controlling it? Sorry to be so ignorant. hugs, ML Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 ML - Irritable Bowel Syndrome can be either chronic constipation (which I had all my life) OR it can be chronic diahrea or combinations of both. I went from the C to the D type eight years ago. Man I was going all the time and afraid to leave the house - I had to be near a bathroom until about 2:00 in the afternoon. I finally learned how much coffee I could drink (only one cup in the a.m. because I like it strong), as well as how much water I could have in the a.m. (too much water makes me go, too). I also changed the times I took my Paxil - if I take it before I have lunch that can trigger the IBS. Now I go back and forth from C to D. It's a real delicate balance. I have to eat a lot of fiber and fruit. Water is good, also, but not too early in the a.m. It sounds ridiculous, but it works and it took me about two years to sort it all out - without medication, thank goodness! > You just go ahead and talk. that is how we all learn. Now on the Irritable > Bowel. What is it and how are you controlling it? Sorry to be so ignorant. > hugs, ML Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 mojo: okay..now when do you take the Paxil? And what is the Paxil for? thanks ML who likes STRONG coffee TOO! only one cup in the morning... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 Good grief. Your body is not your friend right now, is it. I wonder what is behind all of that. Neurontin works when your pain is caused by your nerves overfiring. It keeps them from overfiring. If you have some *real* cause which is giving you a #2 on the pain scale, but your nerves are overfiring, it can make it feel like a #10. Or if the cause of the pain has stopped but your nerves continue firing, then you still feel the pain. > Hi ! > Three years ago I started having very bad pains in my upper abdomen. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2005 Report Share Posted October 2, 2005 Hi ML: I take the Paxil after I have food in my stomache or it will cause diahrea (sp?) If I am feeling constipated I take it earlier to help me " go " . (LOL) I have been on Paxil for about 12 years. I take it for anxiety and depression. Mostly anxiety. I inherited a chemical imbalance - most of my sibs have it, too. Lots of mental illness in my family, but only one of the 10 of us is diabled as far as not being able to work. I used to have the social anxiety where I couldn't go to parties, etc. I would rather die than do any type of public speaking. I still hate public speaking (who doesn't?) but I can do it, now when I need to for my job. The Paxil changed my life in that I feel so normal. I only take 20 mgs and it works well for me. When things are good I can go down to 15 mgs, but if I go any lower my " stuff " returns. My job as a salesperson is very stressful and I know this contributes to my illness. Luckily my husband literally shares my job and he is doing most of the work right now. I work for one of the largest banks in the country and it is not really " legal " what we are doing but all the bosses (right up to the top guy)know we do it and we've been allowed to do this for almost 6 years. Our boss is very willing to hire my husband instead of me but I only have 7 years until I am eligible for retirement with health benefits so we are keeping it the way it is. I am fearful that with all the bank mergers someday someone will put a stop to it, though. (I like to worry about everything) Just had my cup of very strong coffee (yum). Do you like espresso, too? > mojo: okay..now when do you take the Paxil? And what is the Paxil for? > thanks ML who likes STRONG coffee TOO! only one cup in the morning... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2005 Report Share Posted October 2, 2005 Your body is not your friend right now , You are very correct about that! My shrink says I am killing myself with my stress. I've learned not to stress so much at work but I need to teach my husband that, too. I thought the Neutronin was working (today I will start with 3 pills) and it probably was, but last night my 17 year old daughter had a panic attack (at least that's what we think it was) I need to get her to a doc ASAP this week. She is at a very vulnerable age, applying for colleges, trying to figure out what she wants to do in life, etc. I sure remember all of that. Anyway, I had a lot of burning down there last night after a week or so of feeling pretty good (not able to wear undies or clothing very much but no burning) The stress sure makes a huge difference. This board really helps - I come here everyday now and you ladies help so much. Thanks! Love Molly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2005 Report Share Posted October 2, 2005 MoJo: ya got your mojo workin HUH? Espresso is really not my favorite. There is more CAFFEINE in real coffee than espresso! I used to work for *BUCKS! I know how stressful banking is! THAT is the job I quit! Had to stand..no reason why a chair at my station to sit when no customers but no no no! STAND STAND STAND...there went the piriformis muscle! Plus the pressure to get *new* accounts LOL "how many refferals did you get today, ML?" And I LOVE to sell...I felt sorry for the others who were NOT so inclined. It was hard for them ...we were all EXPECTED to get them! The way I see it is THEIR loss. You sound like your boss is good to all of you. love, ML Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2005 Report Share Posted October 3, 2005 Fibro, IBS and VV makes me think you need to rule out a gluten intolerance. ~ Ciara ~ <<ML - Irritable Bowel Syndrome can be either chronic constipation (which I had all my life) OR it can be chronic diahrea or combinations of both. I went from the C to the D type eight years ago. Man I was going all the time and afraid to leave the house - I had to be near a bathroom until about 2:00 in the afternoon. I finally learned how much coffee I could drink (only one cup in the a.m. because I like it strong), as well as how much water I could have in the a.m. (too much water makes me go, too). I also changed the times I took my Paxil - if I take it before I have lunch that can trigger the IBS. Now I go back and forth from C to D. It's a real delicate balance. I have to eat a lot of fiber and fruit. Water is good, also, but not too early in the a.m. It sounds ridiculous, but it works and it took me about two years to sort it all out - without medication, thank goodness!>> __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail - PC Magazine Editors' Choice 2005 http://mail.yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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