Re: Another one of those days

[Guest guest]

Tonia,

You gotta wonder some times!! Hang in there.

LOL

Laurie

[Guest guest]

Oh no, Tonia,

I can imagine that you are at the end of your rope.

I am not an expert, really, but it sounds as if Crystal is trying to get some

attention. She knows what she did was bad and that she was going to be punished

for it. Before the major spanking begins, if it were I, I would sit her down

for a real talk, not a yelling at, to find out why in the world she would do

something like that to her baby brother. She may be a little jealous of him,

and doesn't really know how to express that.

I hear my brother used to hit me on the head with Tonka toys (you may be too

young to remember those - LOL). He was not happy when I was born, but after

awhile my younger sister showed up and he lost interest in me.

You do have to stop it though. My brother did actually beat up on me for years,

once badly enough to break my nose. My parents were not at home, they were out

working, so he had the run of the house. He tells me I deserved it, I tell him

he was just a rotten kid. He turned out better though and we are great friends,

sort of.

You don't want that happening in your household.

How about a Social worker or a school counselor to talk with her? Maybe the

problems are too much for you to deal with.

Not to take her side, but she obviously has a lot to deal with.. She knows

you're in pain, and she can't help you, she's got younger siblings vying for

attention, etc. There's a lot going on in that little head. Try and remember

that!

Hugs,

Jo

[Guest guest]

hello tonia. did crystal want petey to be out of he playpen and

couldn't pick him up. so when he started to try to climb out she pushed

him out? just a thought. how are her headaches doing/ can you calmly

talk to her and see what she is feelig. it was not right what she did

but try to get to the bottom of this since she never did this before.

write when ever you want. they wil grow up one day and have kids of

there own. then you can say i now the feeling you did this to me.

hugs. cathy

[Guest guest]

I agree Tonia, it just is beyond my comprhension how you do all you do not just for kids and husband but for all familly you help. Your much stronger than I think you realize sometimes. Take care

s Momma

Re: Another "one of those days"

Plus now I get to watch Petey constantly for the next 3 hours to make surethat he doesn't have a concussion or let him sleep...which will be thehardest part of all!omg....I can't handle no more days like this!!!!Tonia

Tonia,

I am so sorry that you are having such a hard day today, like I have said before I don't know how you do it having this disease and trying to raise 3 little ones. I am having the wanting to sleep all day kind of day to day and I at least can, it must really suck to ge this sleepy and have to stay awake.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for this to pass and you will be able to handle all the troubles of raising 3 little ones.

LIn