Re: what BPD has done too me!

[Guest guest]

Bobbie,

I don't mean to offend you, but you're giving BPD a whole lot of power it

doesn't have. You're the one who makes choices, not BPD. Yes, it is a

terrible illness, but it can't make you do anything you don't want to do.

If I were in your position, I'd go to Al-anon on a regular basis. And if I

had the money / insurance, I'd get some therapy to help me cope. You also

might be interested in reading _Codependent No More_ by Melody Beattie.

You aren't as powerless as you seem to think you are.

Best wishes,

Meredith

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Its made me desprate

made me an enabler

made me dependent on meds.

made me someone I dont like

made me drink

made me sick

made me want to die

may take away my marrige

and it took

my pride

my daughter

my son

my trust

my happieness

my life.

I havent been on in awhile.

Makes me more sad too see that theres no hope for my daughter.

thanks for listening to me vent, bobbie

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[Guest guest]

thank you linda