Guest guest Posted January 16, 2003 Report Share Posted January 16, 2003 The hard part is being a daughter of a BP and then having a BP daughter; the grief gets to be too much sometimes! But I'm working on it! grieving ... Virginia wrote: > ... I still grieve for the mother-daughter relationship > I wish we had, and the life I hoped she would have. The pain > of that loss never ends, but it can be put into a place where it > doesn't dominate us. This is exactly what the NonBP adult daughter's of BPs on our ModOasis list post about. They have to go through a grieving period, mourning the loss of the mother they never had, while working on their 'fleas' and ridding their Self of their BP mother's brainwashing efforts. Unchosen relationships with BPs are terrible -- for the BP's parents, siblings and children as well as their spouses/lovers. <sigh> - Edith .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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