Re: a soap opera question-sandra

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yeah trust, no i dont think so. but its so hard with this disease to

go out and be able to meet anyone, you know guys?

i dont meet anyone at work. new york is a tough city...i never get

out.

well, i have to concentrate on getting better anyway..men are so much

work sometimes! lol

> Do you think you would ever be able to trust him again? As they

say, without trust, there is nothing.

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> a soap opera question

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> As the Lupies Turn:

> the boyfriend who ran for the hills the day i told him i was so

sick

> and stayed there through my darkest days,is apparently feeling

guilty

> and sticking a toe back into my life. he'd promised when i 'just'

had

> at first an RA diagnosis that he'd call a fancy specialist and

get

> me an appointment whenever i needed it. then with the news of

lupus

> he bolted. when i swallowed my pride and a few weeks ago and

humbly

> asked him if he would still make the call, he said sure, and

never

> did and never called. So.

> Given that people always act from fear or love (unless theyre

> sociopaths, and thats something else) and his mother died of

> alzheimers in april, and hes 62 and starting to forget a lot, did

he

> run cuz of his own fears of illness? and is that enough to

convince

> me to take him back? I think i can forgive, but shud i take him

back?

> any takers?

> leslie

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