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HI Everyone,

I really do apologize about sending this post to a group of supposed adult women and thank goodness most of you are, BUT to see the discussion continue when I asked for it to cease and desist I have no choice and feel I have to say something a bit more strongly.

I just rejected some posts in response to the last subject....(and can understand the responses being human nature) but again to say please just take it 'off list' and keep it private, I do not want to hear it here.

This could well degenerate into an explosive quarrel between some of the members, They disagree, and at this point apparently there's no way to reach an accord. If allowed, it would just go round and round and unfortunately (much as it might make the members feel good to get it all out) it serves NO purpose for the well being or benefit of the list as a whole.

And NO, this is NOT going to turn into an argument about natural vs. traditional. That is absolutely ridiculous to even mention that.....most of us believe in a combination to tell the truth and all viewpoints are welcome here and there is absolutely NO need for anyone to get up in arms because someone has a different viewpoint. Enough is enough!

As I stated before all opinions, theories, ideas, treatment suggestions etc, etc. are welcome and up for debate & discussion. I don't care if someone wants to stand on their head spitting nickels naked in central square, as long as I do 'NOT' see someone degrading, belittling, defaming or just plain meanness towards a person in any manner on either side.!!!

I will not stand for it on this list, we've all more than enough pain and problems as it is without adding more stress or people taking sides to something that is so petty and childish for goodness sakes. We all are adults and can make up our own minds!

This is a group for support of all women who are in pain seeking answers not for the ignorance of silly childish one upmanship, or who did what, or 'na nah na nah na', I got you, kinda thing, when all of that is 'ego' involved. *sigh* I don't think there is a person here who is deliberately mean spirited or intends to do harm to anyone, so please can't we just stick to the idea or subject and leave personalities out of it!!!

If you continue this sort of discussion or to personalize it you will simply be banned from the list. No ifs, ands, or buts, so fair warning.

We have a wonderful group of women and I want it to stay that way with good intelligent discussions & debates, offerings of hope and help as well as kindness and understanding and not the mean spirited or small trivial, petty, snide remarks. So please can we get on with the list and helping one another!! I don't want to hear anymore discussion about it, it's overwith so let it go and consider yourself forewarned.

End of subject.

Dee~

Your usually friendly owner of the Vulvar Disorders list but slightly irritated right now. *sigh* Forgive us you 'newbie's' and honestly we're not usually like this, it's just life.