what is this? question for Tom if he is around.

[Guest guest]

If I have sex when I am having a flareup, I can feel something very

specific. When my er, partner, is pressed up the closest against me I

can feel a hard painful circle like a washer or O-ring. If he doesn't

press against me very hard I can't feel it at all.

Is that the bulbo-cavernosis? It feels small and hard.

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Yes I'm always around..like Batman...without the black tights....just

tell commissioner Gordon to flash the spot-light when you need me.

OK, do you mean when your partner has his penis pressed right up as

deep as he can go, or do you mean when he is laying on you right up

pubic bone to pubic bone?

If it is the penis being very deep and bumping up internally

then the O ring may very likely be the cervix.

Let me know.

TKO

www.tomocklerpt.com

Mace wrote:

If I have sex when I am having a flareup, I can feel something very specific. When my er, partner, is pressed up the closest against me I can feel a hard painful circle like a washer or O-ring. If he doesn't press against me very hard I can't feel it at all.

Is that the bulbo-cavernosis? It feels small and hard.

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[Guest guest]

> Yes I'm always around..like Batman...without the black

tights....just

> tell commissioner Gordon to flash the spot-light when you need me.

Holy crotchrot Batman!

> OK, do you mean when your partner has his penis pressed right up

as deep

> as he can go, or do you mean when he is laying on you right up

pubic

> bone to pubic bone?

> If it is the penis being very deep and bumping up internally then

the O

> ring may very likely be the cervix.

It is when the penis is very deep but the O-ring is nearest to the

*outside* of my body.

[Guest guest]

My husband never used condoms - he said they were too uncomfortable and were too

tight. Once, at my insistence because I didn't have any prior experience with

them, he went and bought some. He tried to put on one of them but it didn't

work so after we both finished laughing hysterically at his efforts, he ended up

putting it on the faucet in the bathtub and turned on the water and let the

thing become a water balloon. The condom had an o-ring on the end - that's what

made me think of that.

Ora

>Sharp thinking Ora, you had your thinking cap on with that one *chuckle* that

was a good one and thinking out of the 'box'.... Literally, ha ha ha ha.

>

>I'm guessing it's the O ring of muscles we squeeze with Kegels, or that tighten

up too much with vaginismus?

>

>Had to chuckle at to Tom w. Holy Crotchrot Batman.... haha I needed a

laugh.

>

>Dee~

[Guest guest]

I've had some funny experiences too with condoms Ora, LOL and lordy how I hated those doggone things. Sure glad those days are gone.

Oh~ *mind burp here* Just remembered something.

Speaking of that someone asked and I forget who, (sorry) if I used Lubed ones? No hon, no, no and no.. those usually contain 'non oxynol 9' and that's very much an irritant (and a spermacide) so check if you buy a lube OR use lubed condoms that it doesn't have that ingredient in it (or a derivative). I used a condom once (well he did) ha ha with that and thought I was on fire! baaaad stuff.

To read a 'lot' about that with many various links check out this link as there is a global campaign to get that banned and even before our own FDA and I've sent quite a few letters about it as well.

http://www.global-campaign.org/n-9call.htm

Dee~

[Guest guest]

A water balloon. That's good!

Actually the O-ring feeling made me kind of visualize the O-ring at

the bottom of a condom. That's about where the feeling was located in

my body. As if the O-ring had gotten imbedded.

> he ended up

> putting it on the faucet in the bathtub and turned on the water and

let the

> thing become a water balloon. The condom had an o-ring on the end -

that's what

> made me think of that.