Guest guest Posted February 18, 2005 Report Share Posted February 18, 2005 Hi everyone! A few days ago, a doctor finally diagnosed me with vulvar vestibulitis. I have not been so happy in about 2 years. I (and many other doctors) had been unable to determine why I was having such bad pain with intercourse and other sexual activites. I have also developed vaginismus because the pain is so bad and I became so scared of it. I am in a loving relationship with a wonderful man-we have been together since high school (now we're 19). Even though I know that he is ok with not being actually sexual with me I still feel really guilty and upset. I am scared that I will never be able to have un-painful sex again. Reading all of these posts is inspiring because I see that so many of you are keeping wonderful attitudes about this-but i am also frightened because no one seems to be getting better, no matter which treatment. Are there any tips from other women who have managed to get back to a relatively normal or satisfying sex life? I am so freaked out by the pain that all i can do is cuddle with clothes on. I really want to start trying to get my life back together but I am not sure how or where to start. Any suggestions? Have a good day everyone! -- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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