- passion gone for partner

November 12, 2005

I definitely feel the same way you just described. I

don't know what to do next. I just associate him with

pain and can't break the association.

And even when he wants to do something for me, I

hardly ever want it, because I know he will get

aroused, and then I will have to feel like it's time

for my chores again, or simply be reminded of how

upset I am about the situation.

Hopefully we will both get past this one day. But I

sure don't know how.

Ciara

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Ciara, this is also true for me. My husband and I used

to have a

powerful sexual bond. That has been broken and no

amount

of " cuddling " will ever fix it.

Even though his sex life is affected, it is not the

same. He can

still have orgasms. I can't. It isn't his fault but I

resent him

because of it.

My husband is a very sexual person and I feel like he

is

being " wasted " being with me. He is not handsome in

the traditional

way but he is certainly " hot " . He should be with

someone that he can

kiss them and they can get all weak in the knees, like

I used to.

Now I just get annoyed.

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