Guest guest Posted March 7, 2007 Report Share Posted March 7, 2007 Hi Ya'll, I am not saying the way I handled things was right by any means. However at the time I was very sick, Kim was grown and on her own before I bailed Mike out of jail, I was lonesome & sinking fast. I was being evicted from my home because I couldn't afford it. Kim had returned to Texas. Mike had a job & it was someone to watch over me. Like I said I still to this day have not fully forgiven him or put my trust in him again. I try hard to forgive him but it is always just below the surface. Can I say today that our relationship will work NO I CAN'T. I am just taking it one day at a time. At the same time I can't fully forgive or forget Kim's role in it as well. She always threw herself at him and would dress provacativly in front of him. After she came back to Texas she ended up taking her birth Mothers boyfriend from her and lived with him for several years and had 2 kids by him. So it was not one sided. Her birth Mother has just remarried and now she is throwing herself at him. No Mike was NOT right by any means. #1 He was a married man and shouldn't have been with anyone else. #2 Even if she was just a few months from 18 at the time he was the ADULT in the situation. #3 Being drunk was no excuse for either of them. I guess what I am saying is I have many mixed emotions about the situation. Yes I always try to be a Mother first. But when your child comes to you and tells you it wasn't one sided what are you to feel? I felt Anger, hatered & Love for both of them all at the same time. Hope you can understand my side and the position I am in. At this time I can not make it finacially without him. God Bless! Rev. /WolfPoet Owner & Founder Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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