Guest guest Posted September 15, 2000 Report Share Posted September 15, 2000 your post really hit home about the cashier at the store giving you dirty looks. I had my RNY 4/19/99 and my neighbors sall me all during the summer I was losing weight but did'nt look that drastically different until the following spring. Most of the neighbors hadn't seen me during the winter. As in my neighborhood everybody sees each other out working in thier yard etc.. in the nice weather. This spring my next door neighbor came over to help my husband with a project he was working on and he didn't know who I was. We have been living next dooe to these people for 6 years. He thought that my husband had divorced me and had another woman living with him, and was rasing my children! I about fell over. He even admitted that he had told his wife " I think next door divorced Mindy and has a new girlfriend living with him " . I first I was getting irratated that I would wave to my neighbors as I was pulling out of my driveway and they would'nt wave back until I realized they didn't know who I was. My most amazed moment was when my own mother didn't know how I was. My mom and dad spend their winters in Florida away from the cold winters here in Ohio. When she came home this spring I suggested that we get together for dinner at my favorite Italian resturant to celebrate her birthday. I had even told here that I looked really different and had changed my hair style and now had blonde highlights in my hair. When me and my husband got to the resturant they had already seated my mom and dad. I went up to her and pulled her to me to give her a hug and a kiss, she pulled away from me and looked like she was going to hit me! I said mom! She went Mindy? She said that she didn't realize who I was until she saw my husband standing three next to me. At first I was really hurt that my own mother didn't realize who I was. But she said I don't realize how different I look. I look back on it now and realize that she is right. I not only look different I act different. I am a whole new person. I have a better attitude and a greater zest for life that I never had before.Wish all grads the best. Mindy Carey Dr.Choban BTC-Columbus Ohio Medial RNY 4/19/00 Starting weight 300lbs Present weight 150 lbs Hernia repair with mesh/ panni/abdominoplasty 8/14/00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2000 Report Share Posted September 15, 2000 I had a similar incident when I was losing I did not go out and buy any new clothes I just wore them baggy and I mean baggy. until one day at owrk my shorts fell down to my ankles and I had to take a rubberband and tie them up in the front. I went and bought some clothes then. I had jumped from a size 36W to a 22. when I started wearing clothes that fit a young man staying with the lady next door asked my husband if he could take me out to dinner. He basically said maybe you your wife and her sister and I could go out one night and Dan tried to figure out who my sister was then it even dawned on him and that was funny. Now in 34 hours and 20 minutes 44 seconds but whose counting, I will seeing my family who has not seen me in over 4 years and only my parents have seen me since I lost weight I am dying to find out if they will recongnize me when I get off that plane. D > your post really hit home about the cashier at the store giving > you dirty looks. I had my RNY 4/19/99 and my neighbors sall me all > during the summer I was losing weight but did'nt look that > drastically different until the following spring. Most of the > neighbors hadn't seen me during the winter. As in my neighborhood > everybody sees each other out working in thier yard etc.. in the nice > weather. This spring my next door neighbor came over to help my > husband with a project he was working on and he didn't know who I > was. We have been living next dooe to these people for 6 years. He > thought that my husband had divorced me and had another woman living > with him, and was rasing my children! I about fell over. He even > admitted that he had told his wife " I think next door divorced > Mindy and has a new girlfriend living with him " . I first I was > getting irratated that I would wave to my neighbors as I was pulling > out of my driveway and they would'nt wave back until I realized they > didn't know who I was. My most amazed moment was when my own mother > didn't know how I was. My mom and dad spend their winters in Florida > away from the cold winters here in Ohio. When she came home this > spring I suggested that we get together for dinner at my favorite > Italian resturant to celebrate her birthday. I had even told here > that I looked really different and had changed my hair style and now > had blonde highlights in my hair. When me and my husband got to the > resturant they had already seated my mom and dad. I went up to her > and pulled her to me to give her a hug and a kiss, she pulled away > from me and looked like she was going to hit me! I said mom! She > went Mindy? She said that she didn't realize who I was until she saw > my husband standing three next to me. At first I was really > hurt that my own mother didn't realize who I was. But she said I > don't realize how different I look. I look back on it now and realize > that she is right. I not only look different I act different. I am a > whole new person. I have a better attitude and a greater zest for > life that I never had before.Wish all grads the best. > Mindy Carey Dr.Choban BTC-Columbus Ohio > Medial RNY 4/19/00 > Starting weight 300lbs > Present weight 150 lbs > Hernia repair with mesh/ panni/abdominoplasty 8/14/00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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