Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 In a message dated 10/26/2004 6:04:57 AM Eastern Daylight Time, JustDiagnosed@... writes: I know some people might just think I have my knickers in a twist over nothing, but to me it's a big deal! My medical history is between me and my doctors and unfortuntely, some times with the people behind me in line at the pharmacy. Hi Shannan, I don't think mail carriers pay any attention to what mail someone receives. At least I know our mail carrier doesn't. He just wants to deliver the mail and get home to his family. Even though I no longer have cancer, I still get mail concerning cancer, I get mail about arthritis, heart diseases and lots of others. That does not mean that I have these illnesses/diseases. Same with credit card information. If people saw the amount of mail we get from credit card companies/banks, they would think we had charge cards from every company/bank in the world. When I'm picking up prescriptions, I don't pay any attention to who is behind me. I figure that if someone doesn't have anymore to do than find out what I'm reading or meds I'm taking, something is wrong in their life. They need to get " one " . LOL hugs Eunice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 It may seem to be a nuisance to get a p o box but at least you would have your privacy. I had to, but my reason was solely cuz my parents whom my son & I live felt they had a rt to know all of my business. It is a control issue, I took it away from them. --- JustDiagnosed@... wrote: > I guess by now everyone knows about the HIPAA law regarding privacy and your > medical records. > > I'm not ready to share with the world that I'm diabetic - or that I have any > other issues. I'm a very private person. When I get letters from Social > Security regarding my disability, it says so on the envelope for the return > address.I HATE that! I don't need my mailwoman knowing I'm on SSD. What if my > mail is mistakenly delivered to one of my neighbors? They don't need to know > I'm on disability. I'm not happy being on disability and definitely don't feel > the need to share it. > > Back to diabetes. In yesterday's mail I received a boatload of diabetes > information - none of it in envelopes (even that doesn't matter much as the > return address may indicate diabetes - or any other ailment), with the words > DIABETES in huge letters. Again, my maillady doesn't need to know my business and > I'm always afraid my mail is going to make it into someone elses mailbox > before mine. I guess I could get a PO Box, but that's a nuisance for me at this > point. I know that if I fill out a card for a diabetes magazine, I'm > setting myself up for all of this. Or even fill out online stuff. But as far as I > remember, I sent in my warranty registration card for my meter and that's > about it. Maybe that was my downfall!!?? > > Anyway, I got to thinking. If you're a pervert and get porn delivered to > your home, it comes wrapped up somehow so that naked bodies or other pictures > are not protruding from the wrapper. That's all fine and dandy, but why are > perverts protected and people with medical problems not protected from having > their private materials visible to strangers?? Apparently items sent though > the postal service aren't covered under HIPAA? > > I know some people might just think I have my knickers in a twist over > nothing, but to me it's a big deal! My medical history is between me and my > doctors and unfortuntely, some times with the people behind me in line at the > pharmacy. > > Any thoughts? > > Shannan > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > ===== Gloria Lysa gloria9055@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 In a message dated 10/26/2004 9:35:59 AM Eastern Daylight Time, brucewilson@... writes: I'm not happy being on disability and definitely don't feel the need to share it. [, Bruce] It is nothing to be ashamed of.[, Bruce] I understand what you're saying and I've told myself that a million times, but I still feel funny. I'm in my mid 30's and have been on disability for 7 years. I don't want people to know because on the outside I appear quite healthy and I don't want questions. Of course, going this route doesn't do much for the people who just think I don't work because I'm lazy. <sigh> My disability is for a mental disorder - so maybe I'm a little more touchy than I need to be, but I'm sure you all are aware of the stigma that goes along with that. Shannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 In a message dated 10/26/2004 9:31:56 AM Eastern Daylight Time, ERWachter@... writes: I don't think mail carriers pay any attention to what mail someone receives. At least I know our mail carrier doesn't. He just wants to deliver the mail and get home to his family. True - I see your point. And given that I constantly get other people's mail, I guess maybe my worry with the mail lady could be unjustified. However, my neighbor's getting my mail is still an issue. That happens quite frequently. =-( Shannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 In a message dated 10/26/2004 10:05:36 AM Eastern Daylight Time, sandyb@... writes: Sometimes there's a place on those cards (in incredibly tiny print) where you can opt out of further info/mailings but not always. yeah, I normally look for that stuff, but didn't see it. It looked so very innocent and was even postage - paid! <G> I'm guessing I was gonna be on lists anyway - guessing the pharmacy probably sells my name anyway and who knows who else in my medical care sells names.... Shannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 In a message dated 10/26/2004 10:31:00 AM Eastern Daylight Time, aazari@... writes: Anyone who would judge me because I'm diabetic needs to take a hike out of my life anyway and that's my attitude for a number of things: religion, life choices, etc. Folks who don't accept me as I am don't tend to stay in my life long. Wishing I had that mentality. As I mentioned in another post, I also have a mental disorder and I'm so very embarassed/ashamed and about 10 other emotions over having this that I guess any other ailment that I'm diagnosed with gets lumped together and makes me more secretive and privacy-happy. Definitely not constructive.... Shannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 In a message dated 10/26/2004 10:52:55 AM Eastern Daylight Time, NavyGoat@... writes: In short, they shouldn't judge a person by the mail they receive. I agree - and maybe they woudln't judge me - but they'd still *know* or even think they know something about me that I'm not willing to share - regardless of whether or not it's true. Geeze.. I got issues! <G> Shannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 HIPAA and Privacy I'm not happy being on disability and definitely don't feel the need to share it. [, Bruce] It is nothing to be ashamed of.[, Bruce] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 Shannan wrote: >But as far as I remember, I sent in my warranty registration card for my >meter and that's >about it. Maybe that was my downfall!!?? Yup, that would do it. Sometimes there's a place on those cards (in incredibly tiny print) where you can opt out of further info/mailings but not always. Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 Personally, I don't care if people know I'm diabetic. *shrug* It's part of me, so people will just have to deal with it the same as they have to deal with all my other quirks. :-p Anyone who would judge me because I'm diabetic needs to take a hike out of my life anyway and that's my attitude for a number of things: religion, life choices, etc. Folks who don't accept me as I am don't tend to stay in my life long. Aazari The Art of Jolie E. Bonnette http://www.aazari.com/art/ Art Protection League http://www.artprotectionleague.org/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 (Snip) In yesterday's mail I received a boatload of diabetes > information - none of it in envelopes (even that doesn't matter much as the > return address may indicate diabetes - or any other ailment), with the words > DIABETES in huge letters. Again, my maillady doesn't need to know my business and > I'm always afraid my mail is going to make it into someone elses mailbox > before mine. > Any thoughts? > > Shannan > Shannan --- anyone who judged me by my mail would be be seriously mis- informed. I receive literature on diabetes (which I have). But I also receive mail on cancer (don't have), vinyl siding (I live in a stucco home), alzheimers (don't have), world wildlife fund, timeshare vacations, mortgage re-finance, etc., etc., etc. And if they glanced at my email --- they would seriously question my " manliness " . In short, they shouldn't judge a person by the mail they receive. Charlotte NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 Besides, if your neighbors have noticed that you don't go to work, they've probably already figured out that you're on some sort of disability, even if they don't know the details. (Or do you make it a point to be away during working hours?) Re: HIPAA and Privacy In a message dated 10/26/2004 9:35:59 AM Eastern Daylight Time, brucewilson@... writes: I'm not happy being on disability and definitely don't feel the need to share it. [, Bruce] It is nothing to be ashamed of.[, Bruce] I understand what you're saying and I've told myself that a million times, but I still feel funny. I'm in my mid 30's and have been on disability for 7 years. I don't want people to know because on the outside I appear quite healthy and I don't want questions. Of course, going this route doesn't do much for the people who just think I don't work because I'm lazy. <sigh> My disability is for a mental disorder - so maybe I'm a little more touchy than I need to be, but I'm sure you all are aware of the stigma that goes along with that. Shannan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 Why? You didn't do anything to deserve it, and it isn't your fault. Re: Re: HIPAA and Privacy Wishing I had that mentality. As I mentioned in another post, I also have a mental disorder and I'm so very embarassed/ashamed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 > Wishing I had that mentality. It took me years of living in a home with an abusive father and the resulting recovery to get that mentality. In the end, it boiled down to me saying " & *$# you all, I just don't care what you think anymore! I like me, if you don't, get lost! " Those who were real friends hung around. Those who weren't, well, I don't miss them at all. Aazari The Art of Jolie E. Bonnette http://www.aazari.com/art/ Art Protection League http://www.artprotectionleague.org/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 Mail personal don't have time to look at every letter. But the address. They have a time limit in which has to be delieved. And the mail is sorted by computer. And then put in order. In which is delieverd. Trudy --- JustDiagnosed@... wrote: > > In a message dated 10/26/2004 10:05:36 AM Eastern > Daylight Time, > sandyb@... writes: > > Sometimes there's a place on those cards (in > incredibly tiny print) where > you can opt out of further info/mailings but not > always. > > > yeah, I normally look for that stuff, but didn't see > it. It looked so very > innocent and was even postage - paid! <G> > > I'm guessing I was gonna be on lists anyway - > guessing the pharmacy probably > sells my name anyway and who knows who else in my > medical care sells > names.... > > Shannan > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 HIPPA has it's good and bad points. It can help save a persons job from an unscrupulous coworker, relative or who ever. On a daily basis hospital ER's receive numerous call's about patient's from alleged " family " members. And I have to agree with one local hospital policy " if you want to know how they are doing come and see them and we will be glad to tell you " Carl ----- Original Message ----- From: JustDiagnosed@... I guess by now everyone knows about the HIPAA law regarding privacy and your medical records. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 A good friend of mine is a Shriner. The local Shrine used to give a Christmas party for all Shriner's hospitals' patients (present & former) in the area and their families. They can't do that any more because HIPPA won't let the hospitals give them the patients' contact information. Re: HIPAA and Privacy HIPPA has it's good and bad points. It can help save a persons job from an unscrupulous coworker, relative or who ever. On a daily basis hospital ER's receive numerous call's about patient's from alleged " family " members. And I have to agree with one local hospital policy " if you want to know how they are doing come and see them and we will be glad to tell you " Carl ----- Original Message ----- From: JustDiagnosed@... I guess by now everyone knows about the HIPAA law regarding privacy and your medical records. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 26, 2004 Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 >They can't do that any more because > HIPPA won't let the hospitals give them the patients' contact > information. Now that's a shame. I owe the Shriner's Burn Institute in Galveston so much. Thanks to them I have a left hand I can use instead of a useless claw. I used to go to all the seasonal parties they put on while I was recovering. They were great fun and it helped me to see that in the scope of things what I was dealing with was minor compared to some of the kids who were burned over much larger percentages of their bodies. Aazari The Art of Jolie E. Bonnette http://www.aazari.com/art/ Art Protection League http://www.artprotectionleague.org/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2004 Report Share Posted October 27, 2004 > In a message dated 10/26/2004 6:04:57 AM Eastern Daylight Time, > JustDiagnosed@... writes: > I know some people might just think I have my knickers in a twist over > nothing, but to me it's a big deal! My medical history is between me > and my > doctors and unfortuntely, some times with the people behind me in line > at the > pharmacy. I get mail for my mom all the time. She has never lived at this address. I get things like dress catalogs. If the neighbors ever got any of it by mistake (apartment) they would probably think I was a transvestite or something. =D Who cares. However, I still agree with you about privacy. I remember about 20 years ago, there where these legal sized yellow envelopes you could buy at the drug stores and other stores that had logos and things like " Your Pregnancy Test Results Enclosed " and worse. They were sold as jokes to play on friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2004 Report Share Posted October 27, 2004 I work in a store. We accept EBT (Electronic Benefit Transfer) cards. Mostly they are used for Food Stamps, but also for other government checks, like Social Security and Disability benefits. Some customers in line behind them think that anyone with a " food stamp " card is a leech. We also have an employee who thinks that way. Some customers don't like anyone knowing that they have a card. They are shy about it for those reasons. At least the cash part of the card will work exactly like a credit/debit card so no one knows the difference. It is only the food stamp part that takes a special machine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2004 Report Share Posted October 27, 2004 Christie Jensen wrote: > , > > I just want you to know that I agree with what you have said on almost > all counts. > However, those people who have magazines sent wrapped KNOW FOR SURE > that their magazines will arrive and stay private. I guess the reason > I wouldn't want information wrapped in brown paper is that I have > nothing to hide. And anyone getting a magazine in a plain brown wrapper is going to be thought of as receiving porn, even if it isn't. I wouldn't mind a return address mentioning diabetes or a disability service. But to put it in huge letters or a big logo or to add other info to the outside of the envelope isn't needed. Have you complained to them about it? BTW - What is HIPAA (time to google)? Ok, Health Information Privacy something something. When did this become law? I remember a place I worked 12 years ago. If you spent significant time off from work (several days) they wanted a letter on letterhead stationary describing why. (Large company with government contracts.) I was having some problems dealing with sleep and memory loss and I mentioned the letter to the doctor and he got angry and said it was none of there businesss and if they had problems they could call him and he would tell them it was none of their business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2004 Report Share Posted October 27, 2004 JustDiagnosed@... wrote: > yeah, I normally look for that stuff, but didn't see it. It looked so > very > innocent and was even postage - paid! <G> > > I'm guessing I was gonna be on lists anyway - guessing the pharmacy > probably > sells my name anyway and who knows who else in my medical care sells > names.... > > Shannan How do you think they are able to pay for the postage = ) They should make the selling of any info relating to health and finances illegal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2004 Report Share Posted October 27, 2004 I believe HIPAA came into law April 2003. Chringle wrote: Christie Jensen wrote: > , > > I just want you to know that I agree with what you have said on almost > all counts. > However, those people who have magazines sent wrapped KNOW FOR SURE > that their magazines will arrive and stay private. I guess the reason > I wouldn't want information wrapped in brown paper is that I have > nothing to hide. And anyone getting a magazine in a plain brown wrapper is going to be thought of as receiving porn, even if it isn't. I wouldn't mind a return address mentioning diabetes or a disability service. But to put it in huge letters or a big logo or to add other info to the outside of the envelope isn't needed. Have you complained to them about it? BTW - What is HIPAA (time to google)? Ok, Health Information Privacy something something. When did this become law? I remember a place I worked 12 years ago. If you spent significant time off from work (several days) they wanted a letter on letterhead stationary describing why. (Large company with government contracts.) I was having some problems dealing with sleep and memory loss and I mentioned the letter to the doctor and he got angry and said it was none of there businesss and if they had problems they could call him and he would tell them it was none of their business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2004 Report Share Posted October 27, 2004 HIPPA stands for Health Information Privacy and Portability Act. Re: HIPAA and Privacy I believe HIPAA came into law April 2003. Chringle wrote: Christie Jensen wrote: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2004 Report Share Posted October 28, 2004 In a message dated 10/28/2004 11:10:59 AM Eastern Daylight Time, jimhart9@... writes: They tell me that quite often someone who objects to getting mail from them will tape the reply-postage paid envelope to a brick and mail it back. Postage is around $10. Not trying to give you any ideas or anything..... If someone doesn't want mail/package, etc, all they have to do is write " refused " on it. Doing anything to increase the return postage, only adds more cost/postage to the people that do want to receive information. Eunice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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