Re: Pushed the send button by accident. the rest of the problem

[Guest guest]

I think you need to do whatever you can to be safe. She is obviously dangerous

especially toward you. Janna

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[Guest guest]

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I'm so sorry to hear what happened with your daughter. I think that you need to

ignore the ex-husband's guilt trips, take your daughter's threats seriously and

make sure you are as safe as you can be considering the circumstances. If I were

in your position, I would also leave the area, report the threats, file a

restraining order against her, and follow through on that order should she

violate it.

Has your son said whether he feels safe or not? I would think that if he's

living there, he's at risk, too.

Meredith

[Guest guest]

Meredith

I have contacted the authorities and until she does something, I can't

do anything. It has been over a year since the last incident, so I

can't file charges. She attacked my neice by she won't file charges

either. As for the restraining order I can't get one until she is 18.

My thoughts of leaving the area are compounded by leaving my parents

whom I live with now. I really don't want to leave them, they would be

here by themselves then and if she was looking for me she would come

here and I don't know what she would do to them. It just gets so

complicated.

My ex still loves me and I do to to a certain extent but he wants to

date me and not have her involved. She will always be and I don't see

that situation going anywhere, it just seems like I am wasting more

time. Will keep you posted on my decision.

Thanks for thinking about me

[Guest guest]

Ann

I already did take the notes to her and am locking the originals in a

safety depost box just in case (the police told me to make a paper

trail). Also I wanted locks on my bedroom door after the first incident

but my ex refused stating she wasn't going to do anything. Then she

wanted her way with something and I said no to it, he sided with her and

I told him when he came home from work I would leave which I did. That

only happened 2 days after she came home from the facility. That was 18

months ago. I would have felt safer with the locks but he didn't

believe all I was going thru with here (he worked14 hr days). I think

he is starting to now.