Re: Re: [WTOParentsOfBPsDebbie S.

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Debbie,

Don't let the mask fool you, I do feel stronger and I thank you for reflecting

that back to me, but the feelings you talk about are still there. We all

strugle with those feelings we own, and those that the BP puts on us.

I just started seeing a therapist 2 weeks ago, I saw her yesterday and said if I

am doing the right thing why don't I feel " joy " . Why do I reep the negative

feelings, and she said those feelings are yours and they go deeper then this.

Basically, start dealing with those feelings, the situation only brought those

feeling to the surface. So now I am owning my feelings. Also, she said thier

are positive sides to feeling " guilty " . Have any idea's on this one? I sure

don't.

Katy

Katy

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> Oh Katy, how horrible for you guys. Do you know where your 29 yo

> daughter and her two grandchildren will go? Does she have a

friend

> she can live with, at least for a while? Do you have a

relationship

> w/your grandchildren?

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> I know this must be just awful. I've watched my 19 yo daughter

get

> thrown out of every living arrangement we've facilitated for her,

but

> have yet to experience her being thrown out w/kids.

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> Debbie S

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> --- In WTOParentsOfBPs , " Katy Hahn " <hahns470@m...>

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> I have a 29 yr. BP daughter and she has lost her apartment

> yesterday. I am not taking her in inspite of my two

grandchildren.

> This was extremley difficult for me to do, but I did it. I am

hoping

> and praying she will turn her life around or at least get honest.

> > So right now I am struggling.

> > Katy

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