Guest guest Posted June 25, 2004 Report Share Posted June 25, 2004 HI , Welcome to the list. Just a suggestion for a site that probably has all you'd want to know about the hymen and much more is this one. It covers any & every thing you'd want to know about sexuality. It's owned by Debbie Fox who is/was also a member here. Here's a link on the Hymen, (from the anatomy section) http://the-clitoris-com.temp-url.com/f_html/fr_index.htm But the Home page is filled with a lot of various subjects and well worth the read. http://the-clitoris-com.temp-url.com/ (home page) Hope it has an answer for you. Dee~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2004 Report Share Posted June 26, 2004 In a message dated 6/26/04 4:39:43 AM, VulvarDisorders writes: << Having come this far I have no intention of not being intact on my wedding night nor am I happy to hope for the best. I would like it to yield naturally but I just can not see it happening without it being somewhat traumatic. >> Hi Liz, Am I right to assume that you have never had a pelvic exam with a speculum? And that tampons have not stretched and torn your hymen over the years? If this is the case, I would assume your wedding night and possibly a good part of your honeymoon will be painful. Which is ridiculous to make your wedding night painful just so your fiance can rip some of your skin apart. There is no rational reason to make the start of your marriage and your introduction into intercourse a traumatic and painful experience just so you can leave blood on the sheets. Your wedding night and honeymoon should be filled with romantic, loving and pleasurable encounters. Have your hymen taken care of now. You and your fiance can do it on your own by using a tampon, pens, hairbrush handles, etc... to slowly break and stretch it or you can both go to the doctor together and have it snipped apart. Quite frankly, I've read a lot of less than bright things on this list, but your idea that you must be intact on your wedding night for whatever reason is one of the most ridiculous things I've read. A hymen has nothing to do with saving yourself for marriage, loving your fiance or virginity. It's just some skin, get rid of it so you can start your love making off right. Debbie Tiger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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