a ?...please don't take offense

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i have a ? for and re: chiarians...my husband and middle son are both

acm I...husband decompressed, son not....my ? is this...they are very

very much alike in attitudes, temperaments, etc....is this more than

a genetic coincidence? for instance, many (MANY) times they do

not " get " jokes, etc....my son is in gifted classes at school, but

their common sense is soooo lacking!!! both of them....anyone else

made this correlation or am i just imagining something??? don't

get ;me wrong, they are very intelligent, just not w/ common sense

stuff, etc....any thoughts???? don't want to offend anyone!