Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 I was just wondernig if anyone knows when it is too late to file for SSA? I was diagnosed 8 years ago (week of my 30th birthday) and have since had many ups and downs. Flares and remissions. Most days lately I feel much like a friend of the family does who has MS. We share many of the same complaints. From low normal temps to suffering if the heat outside is just a degree or so over what we can handle. Some days my hands dont' work. Some days I fall over becuase my legs have gone to sleep with no warning. I hadn't thought of SSA becuase, frankly life has been too difficult as it is without adding the gov't into it. Between my Kindergartener's busy life and my constant illnesses I't all gone on the back burner. Thankfully I have a husband with a good wage that we can live comfortably, not greedily, on. However that marraige is rocky...surprise! because of my CFS/FMS. Anyone know if its too late to get assistance? I can't work outside the home because I can be too unreliable. I actually lost my career job by being fired for haveing FMS. A month later I learned I had CFS. I love to be active. My problem is I can't control the days I can get out of bed and the days I can't. I am very involved in my son's school. So much so that when I'm out because of a flare or related illness I'm missed. My good days are GOOD days. I ususally get 1 or 2 a week. Anyway, when I was fired, I had company disability insurance which they denied. Then they spent too much time going ouver their options (keeping me on my toes) in the appeal. Even though they had to have a documented reason for delaying the appeal, they simply said there was nothing I could do about it. Any help here from anyone? I need to somehow feel that I'm a vital member of this house and can care for my son. But no business is goign to hire someone who may or may not show up because she can't physically rise out of bed one day or looks perfectly normal the next. Medications.......................Now that's a separte long long post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 you can sign up for SSI any time. But it good if you have a doctor to help you,but sign up for it on your own any time. becky --- mitch wrote: > I was just wondernig if anyone knows when it is too > late to file for > SSA? I was diagnosed 8 years ago (week of my 30th > birthday) and > have since had many ups and downs. Flares and > remissions. Most > days lately I feel much like a friend of the family > does who has > MS. We share many of the same complaints. From low > normal temps to > suffering if the heat outside is just a degree or so > over what we > can handle. Some days my hands dont' work. Some > days I fall over > becuase my legs have gone to sleep with no warning. > > I hadn't thought of SSA becuase, frankly life has > been too difficult > as it is without adding the gov't into it. Between > my > Kindergartener's busy life and my constant illnesses > I't all gone on > the back burner. Thankfully I have a husband with a > good wage that > we can live comfortably, not greedily, on. However > that marraige is > rocky...surprise! because of my CFS/FMS. > > Anyone know if its too late to get assistance? I > can't work outside > the home because I can be too unreliable. I > actually lost my career > job by being fired for haveing FMS. A month later I > learned I had > CFS. I love to be active. My problem is I can't > control the days I > can get out of bed and the days I can't. > > I am very involved in my son's school. So much so > that when I'm out > because of a flare or related illness I'm missed. > My good days are > GOOD days. I ususally get 1 or 2 a week. > > Anyway, when I was fired, I had company disability > insurance which > they denied. Then they spent too much time going > ouver their > options (keeping me on my toes) in the appeal. Even > though they had > to have a documented reason for delaying the appeal, > they simply > said there was nothing I could do about it. > > Any help here from anyone? I need to somehow feel > that I'm a vital > member of this house and can care for my son. But > no business is > goign to hire someone who may or may not show up > because she can't > physically rise out of bed one day or looks > perfectly normal the > next. > > Medications.......................Now that's a > separte long long > post. > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 16, 2006 Report Share Posted March 16, 2006 It is going to depend on how long it has been since you last worked. My girlfriend has not worked in 10 years due to her fms and she was denied by the judge for ssi and ssd. He told her she waited to long and she would have to try to go back and work for one year and then if she could not handle it she could try to file again. But I still think she would get denied. No matter what, you should apply and just see what happens. mitch wrote: I was just wondernig if anyone knows when it is too late to file for SSA? I was diagnosed 8 years ago (week of my 30th birthday) and have since had many ups and downs. Flares and remissions. Most days lately I feel much like a friend of the family does who has MS. We share many of the same complaints. From low normal temps to suffering if the heat outside is just a degree or so over what we can handle. Some days my hands dont' work. Some days I fall over becuase my legs have gone to sleep with no warning. I hadn't thought of SSA becuase, frankly life has been too difficult as it is without adding the gov't into it. Between my Kindergartener's busy life and my constant illnesses I't all gone on the back burner. Thankfully I have a husband with a good wage that we can live comfortably, not greedily, on. However that marraige is rocky...surprise! because of my CFS/FMS. Anyone know if its too late to get assistance? I can't work outside the home because I can be too unreliable. I actually lost my career job by being fired for haveing FMS. A month later I learned I had CFS. I love to be active. My problem is I can't control the days I can get out of bed and the days I can't. I am very involved in my son's school. So much so that when I'm out because of a flare or related illness I'm missed. My good days are GOOD days. I ususally get 1 or 2 a week. Anyway, when I was fired, I had company disability insurance which they denied. Then they spent too much time going ouver their options (keeping me on my toes) in the appeal. Even though they had to have a documented reason for delaying the appeal, they simply said there was nothing I could do about it. Any help here from anyone? I need to somehow feel that I'm a vital member of this house and can care for my son. But no business is goign to hire someone who may or may not show up because she can't physically rise out of bed one day or looks perfectly normal the next. Medications.......................Now that's a separte long long post. Yahoo! Mail Bring photos to life! New PhotoMail makes sharing a breeze. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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